Argonath RPG - A World of its own
Argonath RPG Community => Speakerbox => Topic started by: David_Omid on September 12, 2008, 08:02:43 pm
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I apologise to everyone who reads this topic...it is boring and depressing. It is basically something which I HAVE to say to everyone or I simply can't cope any longer...
At the moment, I am suffering from an insane amount of depression. I have no friends at school and I get bullied every day of my school life.
I walk into school every day and get punched/kicked/insulted. Two days ago I was doing work at school in my free time and someone threw a stereo at me...
Why does this happen to me? You tell me. I am nice and friendly to everyone and yet I get treated like shit. Infact, worse than shit. Shit does not get insulted or beaten up!
This happened to me at my old school...and I was bullied at my primary school, so it is not the people at school...the problem is me.
Outside of school is better, but sad. I have little or no social life apart from Stagecoach on saturday mornings and seeing my dad...
I have friends outside of school...but they don't make an effort to see me.
I know a girl who I REALLY like. I told her how I feel about her and she doesn't give a crap about me...
I have a father who I tell about these problems and he doesn't give me advice...just tells me that there is a problem...as if I didn't know that!
Basically, I am miserable...always have been. If I seem happy ingame or on MSN that's because I am only happy when talking to people I actually like. That's right, you people are the only people I like. Argonath is my way of escaping from the world and everything in it that has a problem with me...
So, I apologise to everyone who has read this. I just had to get it off my chest...if you know what I mean
And please, do not try to make fun of me. I have problems, yes...but that does not mean I am not a person like you. I have feelings like the rest of you, so please show me the respect of not taking the piss.
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Mate.. it'll pass dont worry, happend to me....just wait a little bit and always stay happy...laugh at every thing that happens to you..thats my cure to all what hurts me ;)
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Dude, i feel the same. I am the school punching bag and my only friends are on MSN. I am fucking miserable whenever i am not playing games and seriously, dont be sorry about wanting to to get things off your chest. And trust me, next time someone treats you like worse than shit, give em all you got and then you will earn respect.
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I got the same situation as you David. (Not 100% but very like) :(
You don't need to apologize. ;)
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Mate.. it'll pass dont worry, happend to me....just wait a little bit and always stay happy...laugh at every thing that happens to you..thats my cure to all what hurts me ;)
So you're saying that you should laugh if someone kicks you?.
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So you're saying that you should laugh if someone kicks you?.
U really need to understand what people say.....and btw get back to topic please and dont reply this 1
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No, I understand what you said. You said "Allways stay happy, Laugh at everything that hurts you". Because if you think like that you're way lost. And I am on-topic, I am discussing something that belongs to the subject.
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Staying happy and laughing at it I tried for a year and nothing changed...
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worked for me :(
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Try this, it kept me sane for a year. If there are two people who are particularly annoying or bullying you then draw a picture with one of their faces as the other one's ass. Whenever you feel depressed just look at the pictures and you'll feel better.
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Like most of us here, it happened to us as well. The problem is NOT you, don't ever think that, ever, thats the day they win. Keep going, it gets better - I promise you, it makes you stronger and you'll be able to turn around and laugh at them walking down the street going f**king no where, whilst you keep climbing and making your life into something, I let them get the better of me at one point and gave up, education and all that went out the window and I just longed for home, made up fake sickness some times - it gets better, just keep longing for the next stage in life.
My GCSE grades sucked, I had very little freinds and sucked at sticking up for myself, now i'm working at Distinction (Highest grade) in my college courses, LOADS of freinds and a load of girls in my life, some of them have even shown being interested quiet a bit, i'm going to join the territorial army in a few weeks, eventually the Royal Marine Commandos as an Officer and my physical fitness is really high and keeps getting better. Etc. You get the idea.
It gets better. Just keep walking forwards mate.
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Well, here's what you DO and what you DON'T do..
Do's:
Remember in kindergarden they always said, "To get respect, you must earn it."? Well that's total bullshit. If you want respect, you have to start small. Be friendly to the low class, and work your way up.
Go out to the gym, and build some muscle. You're going to need it to survive through that kind of life..
Don'ts:
DO NOT tell a teacher.. The moment you do that, you will lose TOTAL respect.
DO NOT try to yell at them - They will out number you, if you're alone.
DO NOT even pay attention to them - just walk past them..
If that doesn't help, I'm sorry mate. I'm really tall/big compared to kids in my town, so I have a different story than yours..
And remember.. Shit happens.
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ALWAYS remember - What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
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The problem is not you of course, Some people are stupid and mad..I know some people that they thing they are the bosses at the School, i really wanna punch them but i dont do it..
Try to avoid them, if they talk you dont talk them, Just try to go to school like there are not bullies...
If that doesnt work, i dont know then, punch them in the face kick them in the balls, that may work, but may no
Life is b**** you know...
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David.. i tottaly support you.. I was in situation like you, a bit time ago...
In USA and Great Britain the culture is another than in Poland, so our life looks a bit another..
I had support in my friends.. I am sure that you have friends... Maybe not in your class, but somewhere in school you have friends!
What i did to change... ? I grew up... I dont care what people think about me.. im not listening to negative comments from people i dont care...
I count on myself, even with my friends.
Find best friend, maybe in your class, maybe in another class, and you will not be lonely in school anymore.
If you want to talk, you can always write to me.
Good Luck with your life!!
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Well, here's what you DO and what you DON'T do..
Do's:
Remember in kindergarden they always said, "To get respect, you must earn it."? Well that's total bullshit.
Don'ts:
DO NOT tell a teacher.. The moment you do that, you will lose TOTAL respect.
DO NOT try to yell at them - They will out number you, if you're alone.
DO NOT even pay attention to them - just walk past them..
It is true that people tend to disrespect and scorn those who dont have any powerful appearances.
However, everything that you give out to the others will be given back to you...
It applies to the respect as well.. So it is not bullshit.. You should respect other people if you want to get treated respectfully.
Telling a teacher might not only cause you to lose respect, but also solve all problems.
Which one do you prefer?: Getting beaten up at school everyday till graduation to defend your pride or telling someone to get them kicked out of or suspended from the school. It is your choice..
Well, I've never got beaten up in my life since I know how to fight. I wasnt a bully, but I used to beat up those who tried to mess up with me. I never lost in fights in my life. I guess it is because of some taekwondo knowledges and skills I have.
The main point is the confidence.. They are apt to disrespect and underrate you because you do nothing when they hit you. They think they can hit you anytime they want.. Thats how bullies think.
One more fact about bullies... They dont know how to fight.. They just gang up with other retards.
If more than one person mess up with you, get all of their names and report to the main office..
They will be arrested or at least suspended. However, if only one kid tries to get over your pride, kick his ass.. 40% Skills 60% Confidence for fights.. I am not really suggesting you to fight since you will get in trouble as well, but if you really want to show your real self to them... Do what I advise you.
Once you prove that you can fight against them, they wont be nearby you anymore.
One last advice from me..
You should have pity for those bullies too.. since most of them are grown up without parents or stable family.
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I can say one thing to you David, listen carefully...
There will always be people like that in your life, the key is to make yourself better than them, listen in class, get better grades, they may insult and beat on you now, but you will be the one smiling when you have the classy car, the classy salary, the classy woman, the classy life. People like that are what I call 'Wasters', your only a kid, this thing comes and goes, you have your whole life ahead of you, so study in school now and laugh at them later when they are cleaning the streets, on the social welfare money, and some of them end up on the streets becuase they didnt get an education.
Pick yourself up David, Do not let this get to you!!, be strong man.
:ps: about the girl, screw her, there are a million just like her and better, trust me, I have the same situation as you.
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First of all let me remind you and to everybody that Argonath is a community, it means we all support each other [mostly by giving advice]. So if you have something on your mind just tell us, we discuss it, whether it is a good or a bad thing. So don't apologize for these type of topics.
Now to your text:
At the moment, I am suffering from an insane amount of depression. I have no friends at school and I get bullied every day of my school life.
I walk into school every day and get punched/kicked/insulted. Two days ago I was doing work at school in my free time and someone threw a stereo at me...
Why are you depressed? Because you have no friends at school? Now think, do those guys even deserve to be your friends? I know, that from my old school I only found one decent guy.
Why does this happen to me? You tell me. I am nice and friendly to everyone and yet I get treated like shit. In fact, worse than shit. Shit does not get insulted or beaten up!
Ok, if you are nice and friendly think, do you show it out, that you are nice and friendly? I think you are moreover a shy guy, who doesn't communicate with people a lot. Because of that people will usually make their opinions out of your looks.
:ps: Shit does not get insulted or beaten up, it gets flushed down the toilet. It's worse.
This happened to me at my old school...and I was bullied at my primary school, so it is not the people at school...the problem is me.
It is the people at school, unless you pick a fight yourself, because in every school there are bullies, the people who encourages bullies and people who don't give a rat's ass.
I have friends outside of school...but they don't make an effort to see me.
I know a girl who I REALLY like. I told her how I feel about her and she doesn't give a crap about me...
Does always friends have to make the effort to see you? Put a little effort yourself, to see your friends.
Well if she doesn't give a crap then it is not meant to be. I bet you will meet a lot of other girls in the future, don't over think about these problems.
Basically, I am miserable...always have been. If I seem happy ingame or on MSN that's because I am only happy when talking to people I actually like. That's right, you people are the only people I like. Argonath is my way of escaping from the world and everything in it that has a problem with me...
Well ok, it will sound a little bit like a cliche but, running away from your problems don't solve anything [ well actually sometimes it does]. So if you got times, prepare yourself, think situations trough and think what are the possible outcomes to every your move.
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Im gonna sound abit negative here:
DO not just smile and wait till school is over while they are kicking 4 moons out of you.
Havent you spoke to the council or anything, I really hate this stuff.
Ive never really been beaten up or anything but i do get insulted alot just for wearing glasses.
I have a way better life than 95% kids in my year.
I do loads of voluntary youth work, i work part time in a supermarket (with friends there), i have friends outside of school (dont really go out with them since i got work), im supported by alot of people in the community.
But i dont get along with most teachers or students.
The one thing that minimized my "Bullying" was speaking to the ONLY teacher i trusted.
There was only one teacher i 100% trusted in the whole school and i knew if she couldn't help no-one could.
At the time she was only my form tutor, but she always has and hopefully will always support me.
Now shes the deputy head of my year, and shes still doing what she has done for me.
She informs me when she hears about me in her classes.
My point is.. Speak to one person you trust 100%. If you dont trust any teacher/staff that much then speak to your local council (annonmyous) tell them where and when it happens, they can check CCTV near and then one day they could wait near by with police or community support officers and catch them in the act and then they are all arrested.
Sorry for the long speech but this gets on my nerves.
Today some idiot sprayed the back of my head with some thing that smelt of fire and i had all bits in my hair and it wouldnt come out i had to get a shower straight away and was late for work.
But now hopefully they saw the cameras and he will be sorted.
But the moral is...
Trust only who trusts you.
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i used to have this problem in primary school, but then i started sticking up for myself. don't take shit from no one, if someone kicks you, kick them back 10 times harder and tell them to fuck off. having long hair caused people to take the piss in my school...but they soon stopped :) let them know you don't shit and they wont give you shit. good luck :P.
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Trust only who trusts you.
So true.
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Never had this problem yet, I feel sorry for you David.
And yeah, the others are right, there are always guys who like you, you also have friends, believe me.
Do not react on their stupid comments and crap, then they'll reach what they wanted wanted.
Just ignore those idiots, be friendly to everyone and I think you'll have success.
Perhaps you should change the school and make a new start at another one, on the last day you could tell those bastards what they did to you and how it felt and that they are some fucking idiots.
Good luck! ;)
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It hurts to read this, i know what ur talking about, but i cant say i understand. It's not like that to me, but.. It shouldnt be that for anyone. And i dont got much tips on how to solve it. "/
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Argh, i aint the kinda typ that gives good advise...
In my view it would be: give them some rams on the nose, don't let them fuck with you.
But i also know not everybody is as agresive as me.
The reason why nobody ever picked on me even tho i have my own style and i don't follow any trent is because i don't let anybody fuck me over.
I don't care how big they are, how tough they are, how many they are (well that kinda plays a role tho, if they are with 8 guys then its alittle diffrent).
I was always the kinda guy if somebody had a problem with me, i let them feel not to fuck with me.
Costed me lots of trouble tho, but you can't keep 2 sides happy, Its: Or you are the big macho, or you are the guy who almost never talks.
The guy who never talks is the teachers best friend, the macho is the asshole.
Just be yourself, that aint enough, then fuck them.
They hit you, you hit them twice as hard.
Let them fuck with you, they will never stop.
Walk away from the problem, you will never forgive yourself...
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I apologise to everyone who reads this topic...it is boring and depressing. It is basically something which I HAVE to say to everyone or I simply can't cope any longer...
At the moment, I am suffering from an insane amount of depression. I have no friends at school and I get bullied every day of my school life.
I walk into school every day and get punched/kicked/insulted. Two days ago I was doing work at school in my free time and someone threw a stereo at me...
Why does this happen to me? You tell me. I am nice and friendly to everyone and yet I get treated like shit. Infact, worse than shit. Shit does not get insulted or beaten up!
This happened to me at my old school...and I was bullied at my primary school, so it is not the people at school...the problem is me.
Outside of school is better, but sad. I have little or no social life apart from Stagecoach on saturday mornings and seeing my dad...
I have friends outside of school...but they don't make an effort to see me.
I know a girl who I REALLY like. I told her how I feel about her and she doesn't give a crap about me...
I have a father who I tell about these problems and he doesn't give me advice...just tells me that there is a problem...as if I didn't know that!
Basically, I am miserable...always have been. If I seem happy ingame or on MSN that's because I am only happy when talking to people I actually like. That's right, you people are the only people I like. Argonath is my way of escaping from the world and everything in it that has a problem with me...
So, I apologise to everyone who has read this. I just had to get it off my chest...if you know what I mean
And please, do not try to make fun of me. I have problems, yes...but that does not mean I am not a person like you. I have feelings like the rest of you, so please show me the respect of not taking the piss.
Yeah, I have the same problem. How about being threatened everyday, always being talked about in class. I hate this so much. I am in the same situation and with girls as well. Scissors being thrown at me.. This isn't a joke. Hopefully Lob won't reply to this. and say good riddiance
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Yeah, I have the same problem. How about being threatened everyday, always being talked about in class. I hate this so much. I am in the same situation and with girls as well. Scissors being thrown at me.. This isn't a joke. Hopefully Lob won't reply to this. and say good riddiance
Wonder why :redface:
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Wonder why :redface:
No need to be rude. :(
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Usual situation for schools...
1. The best way - to be one of the most successful students...
We had in our class three groups... One was the middle one, the biggest, who were treating others like a shit...
Second group were "fighters" for their rights... They had to be always on top which is difficult... And third group was the best students who always got good points and always did a homework... That were one guy and three girls... And what I liked they ignored all blah blah on them...
Those who were not stupid, understood that school will pass and this guys will get the best places in universities and institutes... And so - the best work... Those, who were stupid - you will not teach to understand... So do not try...
Make your homework, study, start thinking which specialization you gonna chose, develop your hobby interests... Some guys become a good paid from their hobbies... For example, started interest in programming - got after school a good job as programmer...
2. School is not for making love or friends... School is your education... And your education is only your own business...
3. About friends... Friends are not people chosen by you... Its just some day you tell to someone "you are my friend"... Does not depend which situations and what he did for you or what you did for him... It comes itself...
Still school friends are not that permanently as any other friends...
If you have no friend - just nobody answers your feelings on friendship...
4. Girls in schools usually do not care about boyfriend and love... All what they really like - many boys around... This is the age when girls also try to find their place in schools society and number of fans is one of the most "respectable" for girls teens... If someone like them girls take it as "award"...
The funniest thing - start ignore the girl and she will try to attract your attention herself...
5. You can talk to teacher if you think you need it... Nothing bad in that... If you feel that you wanna talk to some - just talk after lessons... Its always good to know the adults opinion...
6. Father... Tell father your feelings that you feel he is not interested in your life at school... And that you need his help as he is the one adult you trust really... Ask him to listen to you once and tell him you need advice... Usually fathers do not understand the problems of sons when it said once and at some time like breakfast... :)
Hope it will help you... Good luck...
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i have had this problems too,
i am 1 of smarter ppl(doing though education, but later big loads of $ :banana: ) , but no study at all, no learning,
certainly not after school, maybe that helped
i am always nice and friendly guy, but first years i had problems too,
last year a bit too,
but luckily it isnt that bad anymore,
and it kept with word, not throwing things,
and with girls, always nice good together, but not anything more nothing goods
(well had girl for 5 years)
this is something happens at study ppl(smart ppl) maybe start to talk around in class,
dont always be the good boy at school, it might help some
luckily personally i dont make wars,
and dont be too aggresive, say something but dont start attacking
wish you good luck.
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School is hard for me too, but this is what keeps me going: Focus on your education more than the others, then soon you will have a good job while most of the people that have picked on you work at your local McDonald's. I have a mental problem called Asperger Syndrome ( I know it sounds funny ), and during elementary school, kids would be horrible to me. Since I don't know social skills very well, they would pick on me. I would even try to fit in by trying to play sports with the other kids in the school yard, but I didn't understand how to play and didn't know. So they would tell me how to play wrong, but the thing is, even though I looked stupid, I wasn't. I knew way more about computers than the other kids, and all my teachers knew I was smart. I make all A's and B's. I don't have to study, because of good memory and I actually pay attention. I don't handle stress and anger too well though. Whatever you do - DON'T stop focusing on education, and DON'T drop out. If you need to talk to me, contact me on msn.
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OK I Used to be one of the guys who would pick on the shall we say "nerdy" people, I've learned though that people like that most the time dont end up where they plan to be. they end up failing a grade or two, getting kicked out of school etc. etc.
I Think you should just focus on your education, If you keep having trouble approach a teacher after class and talk to him about it.
And i cant believe I'm about to say this...but i agree with stiffler.
Stand up for yourself. Some kid called me a fag one day and my response was "why? you interested?" and he shut up.
Just dont take shit from anyone, and don't let them know it bothers you, Walk into school with your head held high.
Like Ron says, your there for a education, not to be liked.
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- David, let your ego take over for a bit and TAKE NO F*CKING SHIT! If you have nothing to lose just go for it.
- A Social life is very important, you should try very hard to get one.
- Fuck that if I was you I wouldn't even come to school, just sort something out and see if you can study at home or something.
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Well, David, I feel sorry for you, really do. Though, I don't really have any good advice as I've never even been near that kind of position, but the teen years is hard indeed. Stand up for yourself, go out, even if you don't know how you do it. Talk to people who isn't that aggresive, and maybe are more like you. Studying, nice, no thoughts about being the most popular of all the kids, you know. Btw, you'll prolly earn big bucks later on, you'll see mate.
I'm surprised so many is in the same situation here, I've never seen it in my school. Maybe just because they do it when they're alone..
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I've noticed something in my school, and it can be put into a chart:
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Basically, the popular ones are stupid and the punching bags are really smart. You shoulld be glad you are unpopular because in a few years yu will be working for a respected company in marketing or something and making lots of money, and your bullies will be serving you your lunch.
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Basically, the popular ones are stupid and the punching bags are really smart. You shoulld be glad you are unpopular because in a few years yu will be working for a respected company in marketing or something and making lots of money, and your bullies will be serving you your lunch.
Thats steriotypical :devroll:
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Wise words from all...seriously
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Wise words from all...seriously
What else should u expect? A lot of people in Argo have good advice and are happy to share it. You got a problem and we'll probably fix it ;)
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mate, your not the only one, and james is %100 correct,
i was like you in year 7. Everyone hated me, i didnt have very friends and i did nothing on weekends
i allways got bullied and got beeten up etc.
all changed, try to get with a few of the people that hate you, like clubs, join a club that they are in, dont talk to them or anything, stick on your own and do well. if you do better than them, they try to stick around with you more cuz youw ill be known as the good one, everyone wants to be friends with someone in high places or exxelent at something.
i was hated, i had like 2 friends in my school.
then i joined my schools local rugby club, this was were all the strong and high people were.
i beeted the shit out of all of them in the tackles, and the tries, i was the new boy that was the best. i was the first player on the A team, after that, i go tmore friends, i started hanging round with more hard nuts and thats were it began.
do what i said, you will get better.
trust me
(aragorn has the best tips tho, try his first, mine was writen in 5 mins cus i had to go ;))
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I was not hated, and I was not loved.
I just did not care. If people were friendly, I would be friendly. If they were not, I would just ignore them.
I do not need a lot of friends, or try to be popular. All I did was being myself, and I did not care if people liked it or not.
This made me uncatchable, as I would never react to bullying tactics, just go my own way.
Do not get depressed. In life you will meet many people who do not like you, and you will meet many people that you do not like.
Keep the ones that like you and that you like, as for the rest, treat them like you want to be treated.
Do not try too hard to make friends, those who like you will come to you.
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Gandlaf is totally right..
My suggestion to you is;
Invest in you're studies at this time,
Get ready for the future, don't look back, and don't see what you don't have, look on what you do have..
When you'll get a good job, and you'll be friendly, you'll have friends.
If somebody is being friendly with you, and he seems like a nice person, be friend with him, and ignore the bullies...
If you need someone to talk to, you can always find me on skype or msn (if i'm not out of the house =P) skype (which i'm online on the most): Dmitry_Killer, or by RL name: Dmitry Rosen-Halfon .
msn: [email protected] .
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Man, Has happened to me and still does, dont take no sh*t man i was copping their abuse for about a couple of months or so and then i started karate to help defend me, somebody grabbed me by the neck one day for no reason watsoever and i could beat him. Build up all the rage that they have given you and just unleash it whenever they touch you. They don't really bother me anymore apart from sometimes when they yell out things and hide behind year 12s but other than that its all good.
The best thing about the fights are that you always have a story to tell the principal/coord. You can always say that he abused you and he has been bagging the living hell outta u. That is if the fight gets reported. Not under ANY circumstances go to a teacher that makes everything worse.
Believe me i know what it's like, i was beaten so low and depressed to the biggest length ever i started to feel suicidal, i used to sit in class and just sleep wishing the world would all be over but then when i got some confidence in myself i found that there was much more to learn and live for. Good luck man hope it all gets solved
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My advice is.. Get a job, most likely you make friends there, go on a sport or get a cool hobby..
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Basically, the popular ones are stupid
Wrong.
At school, i'm popular, but i'm in all the top classes, get the good marks, do my homework and all that shit. The key to getting friends is developing a personality that people might find funny, or maybe cute, nice, smart, etc.
I used to be a complete and utter dickhead to everyone, probably because i never developed proper social skills until year 7, but I picked it all up. And I must say, mostly because of the internet. I learnt witty jokes, i developed a "Funny guy" personality, and me being a smart ass to people and not caring what they though has gotten me quickly into the popular group. I'm not dumb, i'm not stupid, but I simply find out which part of me people like, and constantly showcase that part.
If someone messes with you, go to your year/form coordinator, tell them, ask to be anonymous, and if someone confronts you saying "WHAT THE F..K MAN WHY'D YOU TELL ON ME", say "what? i didn't tell on you, why the f..k would i do that"
Or maybe leave a note on your coordinators desk, just do not let yourself keep getting bullied.
I was bullied in: Kinder, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7. I know how all this shit is, and it's not good to keep letting it happen.
Also, buy some dumbells and work out every night. Getting me some niiice muscles :D
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My advice is.. Get a job, most likely you make friends there, go on a sport or get a cool hobby..
Agree
Basically, the popular ones are stupid
Wrong,
I was one of the most popular guys on my old school, That doesnt mean that im stupid..
Also, if you are good at your class or not doesnt effect the popularity and friends...
A girld, that was the best at grades on school had only 2 friend.. and i got more than 30 in the school.. And im the one of those that dont study...
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From each and everyone one here has given great advice. So good luck David at School.
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Happened to me too. Its now gone smaller, but im the "neutral" in my class ;) Try the same. Be neutral. Be friends with everyone and stuff :P Call outside to play or something. Make a "bomb" :D
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Alright so here is my two cents on this:
the statement that if you think of yourself as lousy they have won is true. That is what they want you to think. The most important thing is to take shit from no one. If shit is handed to you, give it right back. Fight back. If you lose, learn to fight better, or do some strength training. Never try to start stuff, that just makes you lose respect. Never tell a teacher or principal. Because, that is just asking for more. If you get shoved down, get back up.
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People do that to you at school? :eek: At least I know in my school I've never had anything really like that happen to me... Nobody does that stuff probably because if they do they know they will get in a shit load of trouble...
But I agree with Gandalf...If I like someone or they like me I'll be nice and if they come up to me being rude or whatever it may be I'll just ignore them... And I don't know how the rules or laws are where you love but if someone is physically hurting you, you should tell someone, counselor, principle, teacher?
In my school if someone threatens or physically hurts you on the first offense the punishment is Out Of school Suspension, recommendation for Superintendent Hearing, and the Police get notified. The second and third offenses are based on the first/second one....
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Oh my, I am so sorry this has happened to you David, but this has bever happened to me (except in first grade and I beat the shit out of that kid. )
One of the best words of advice I can give you is "Dont change to fit in with other people."
Basically, the popular ones are stupid and the punching bags are really smart.
Sorry, but that is wrong I consider myself pretty popular and I take some AP classes.
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Wow...thanks a lot guys for your support.
I must say though...to the people that said to just ignore them, it is impossible if he throws a stereo at me!
But seriously, thanks everyone for taking the time to post here.
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David..
There is Nothing Wrong with you.. You wouldnt become an admin if there was smtng wrong with yoU..
The teenage world is based on ppl dressing like wannabe gangsters with copycats wearing clothing like 50 cent wore in his newest clip..
They just wanna be like them and they dont really accept people like us, who prefer a night of argonath instead of hanging out on street, vandalizing and getting busted by cops..
Jiacjr... No offence, but why getting muscles? Beceause you can beat them up? yea rite... I build up my muscle by just doing my job, and Playing music instrument (Rock.. gains you muscle )
David, i dont know how you look now, Dunno what piece of crap is out there doing this to you, but i got rid of bullies since 6 years by changing my style a bit...
Really, i wish you good luck, bud, you dont deserve this.. :neutral:
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Wow...thanks a lot guys for your support.
I must say though...to the people that said to just ignore them, it is impossible if he throws a stereo at me!
But seriously, thanks everyone for taking the time to post here.
Lift some weights homeboy, then Kick some Ass Lyke Chuck Norri- /me Gets roundhouse kicked for uttering HIS name
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David..
There is Nothing Wrong with you.. You wouldnt become an admin if there was smtng wrong with yoU..
The teenage world is based on ppl dressing like wannabe gangsters with copycats wearing clothing like 50 cent wore in his newest clip..
They just wanna be like them and they dont really accept people like us, who prefer a night of argonath instead of hanging out on street, vandalizing and getting busted by cops..
Jiacjr... No offence, but why getting muscles? Beceause you can beat them up? yea rite... I build up my muscle by just doing my job, and Playing music instrument (Rock.. gains you muscle )
David, i dont know how you look now, Dunno what piece of crap is out there doing this to you, but i got rid of bullies since 6 years by changing my style a bit...
Really, i wish you good luck, bud, you dont deserve this.. :neutral:
I'll take this as offence against all kind of Hip Hop loving people.
So you wanna tell me that all Hip Hop fans are vandalizing criminals?
Seriously, watch out, I also don't say that greasers / rockers are long-haired unwashed stinky asocial idiots.
:mad:
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Lift some weights homeboy, then Kick some Ass Lyke Chuck Norri- /me Gets roundhouse kicked for uttering HIS name
I would rather not step down to their level of violence. Self defence is ok, but actually trying to beat them up? Sorry, not happening
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I'll take this as offence against all kind of Hip Hop loving people.
So you wanna tell me that all Hip Hop fans are vandalizing criminals?
Seriously, watch out, I also don't say that greasers / rockers are long-haired unwashed stinky asocial idiots.
:mad:
*sigh* Dude.. Okay, i'm a stinky long hairy Rocker that beats every store that i come across , wear army clothes and like to puke .. Now happy?
This was just an example... But i really never saw a goth beating someone up or smtng... Moslty it are the goths that GET bullied ..
(( i'm not a gothic btw ;) )
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I feel bad for posting this topic now. It's turning into a war...
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I would rather not step down to their level of violence. Self defence is ok, but actually trying to beat them up? Sorry, not happening
it's more than self defense. they hit you, hit them back. let them know you don't take shit from anyone of there kind, and it'll stop happening. it's called sticking up for yourself:P even if you are smaller than them, you can probs take them. kick them in the knee cap as hard as you can as they go for you.
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Yeah, what I ment was stick up for yourself and defend yourself, if they hit you, throw a goddamn lead pipe at their heads ^^.
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Now i cant stick up for myself because i'm a little puny bone-bag so what i have done is gotten friendly with a guy from a few years above and he deals with my "problems" now. Try that before you start hitting back yourself because nobody will mess with a guy with big friends.
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I feel bad for posting this topic now. It's turning into a war...
Too right mate
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Not right Grovyle, is it his foult the fighting came into this topic ? NO, its not. I think this was good for u David, to tell someone about this.
One thing, u dont have to answer this but: Are u a bit chubby (fat) ?
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I must say though...to the people that said to just ignore them, it is impossible if he throws a stereo at me!
Ooohh you should have took that stereo and rammed it so hard on his head.... man i swear he would never have the balls to say or throw anything to you again..
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Not right Grovyle, is it his foult the fighting came into this topic ? NO, its not.
I suppose you didn't understand what I meant:
I just agreed with him, I never said it was his fault that the fighting came...
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(http://i296.photobucket.com/albums/mm175/hitman892/IMAGE_00051.jpg)
You seem like a nice kid, David.
the problem is... Other people.
You'll find your friends eventually, you real friends will be found later on in life anyway when people are more mature and you see a lot more of them. I only really see one person I know from my high school anymore...
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Is that u david ?
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Yeah, I posted that picture on the Member Pics topic
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U wont 2 tips ?
Dump that old cap, get another haircut. Or something like that, make a huge change of something, like shaving off ur hair, getting a nice haircut, start training up ur muscles. People will start to react, see ur changed, maybe then wants to start to know u.
I see nothing wrong at u, but big changes can be made so u will be diffrent on the outside, maybe if ur diffrent on the outside, the inside maybe will get a chance ?
Becouse u have to remember, "It's not the outside that's counting, but its the outside that might give the inside a little chance!" ;)
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U wont 2 tips ?
Dump that old cap, get another haircut. Or something like that, make a huge change of something, like shaving off ur hair, getting a nice haircut, start training up ur muscles. People will start to react, see ur changed, maybe then wants to start to know u.
I see nothing wrong at u, but big changes can be made so u will be diffrent on the outside, maybe if ur diffrent on the outside, the inside maybe will get a chance ?
Becouse u have to remember, "It's not the outside that's counting, but its the outside that might give the inside a little chance!" ;)
Why does looks have anything to do with getting bullied at school? I like to you explain this question and please don't flame me.
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Why does looks have anything to do with getting bullied at school? I like to you explain this question and please don't flame me.
reason people get bullied= something that's different about them, they are smarter than the bully, or a push over.
the reason you get picked on from looks is because you're different. for example: funny teeth, big ears, weird shaped head, dress funny, weird hair. all those reasons. appearance is a lot
btw David none of those examples where directed to you.
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Nobody bullied me in my school .. you know why?
Because if they were making fun of me, I jumped and fought. When they beat the crap out of me, then they get official warnings from teachers, principals etc.. So, next time, they don't bully me.
You will take some pain .. so what? If you do not care, be free dude, have a hearth. If you have a hearth and goad to fight, you don't need muscles and shit. Yes, I am skinny myself, but I never run away or let someone talk crap and make fun out of me. You have to charge back full power..
The best way - if they start making fun of you or talking bowrocks, immediately jump on the weakest one's head and start punching him as hard as you can. Then kick, punch, do whatever you can ... this will most likely help you, dunnno, it helped me over the years...
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I agree with Legend, Fight them, smack them, do what ever yu can, punches , kicks, bites :D
im really sure you are not the problem David, you look cool. About the haircut, my best friend got the same, i dont think its the problem
The problem is dont take shits from others
If they flamed you and bullied you Once, and you didnt do anytrhing.. they will keep doing it
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Why does looks have anything to do with getting bullied at school?
I've been bullied at school since the first day of nursery, and u wanna know why? I have ginger hair... I dyed it and suddenly everyone is being friendly to me... i still tell them to go fuck themselves but that proves that looks are a big part of why people are bullied.
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Why does looks have anything to do with getting bullied at school? I like to you explain this question and please don't flame me.
Well, im asking u another question: What dont look got anything to do with getting bullied at school ?
As he sais, he is really kind. BUT, he maybe is diffrent on the outside from others, read stifflers post, most of it is there what i was gonna say.
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Yeah, the Mainpoint of bullying is "mostly" because of their looks, attitude or anything.
I totally agree with Legend, maybe fighting isnt the best way to make peace, but you will gain respect.
What you CAN do: Just jump on him, whatever if he beats you, they will see you are not scared of them etc.
They will respect you for this.
And yeah...A new haircut is always good, I got an example of me. Look at my hairs ;) The outside will make you get friends, which means that you will be happy inside.
Good outside= Mostly good inside.
BTW: A pic of me, never posted one.
The most left guy.
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David.
If someone is pissing you off just give us a call...We will team up and teach him a lesson.
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I've had alot of experience with this, not that I was bullied but a classmate of mine. He was always the silent guy in the class and was always the target of paperplanes and all other things that are usable as a throwing object.
He always let people run over him and let him smack him and he never did anything back, also the teachers didn't do shit. But one day he got pissed at the biggest bullier of the class and he totally kicked his ass.
And by kicking his ass, I mean he hit him in the nuts and then he hit him in the face with his knee and eventually kicked him on the floor and punched him on the head a few times (like you see in the movies) then a teacher broke them up and he got punished, had to stay after schooltime and do work and stuff. But he earned some respect and they never bullied him again, just because he kicked the biggest bulliers ass..
So my advice is just to look for the biggest bullier of them all, and totally kick his ass. Even better is if he is bigger than you, this means you got more to hit ;)
CAUTION: This may get you into alot of trouble at school, but you'll get the respect you deserve and eventually the trouble with school will be over and you'll get some friends.
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i cant imagine how hard things are so i wont try and pretend, however i can come to your school and beat up these idiots? :war:
things will get better, i dont believe in karma but i believe you'll find your way in life away from this kind of stuff, good luck bud.