Argonath RPG - A World of its own
Argonath RPG Community => Speakerbox => Topic started by: stof on November 26, 2008, 09:33:40 am
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Hey Guys today is the real thing, i already made a topic about my 2 months away but now i will be away for another 4 years! but i will be on from time to time on school holidays. And maybe any public holidays. :( :( :(
Reason: I am no good at school I am the most hopeless student in my class i am getting in trouble A LOT and i need to start on my studies. My parents have given up on me, everyone i know has given up on me, and i'm not happy about it. I am spending more time on a computer than i do with my brain and i need to stop it, it is like i am addicted to drugs but i cant kick it. I am beginning to hate my life because everything i say is being ignored by everyone!
Biggest Reason: My Parents, they are very worried about me and everytime something bad is happening they fight. My parents are almost about to split up because of me, and that is massive pressure on me, my parents are fighting as i write this and it Fucking annoying! so i have to do this for myself, not because i dont like the community just because of them. I would hate to live with one of my parents and visit one on the weekends, I actually feel like running away and living with my mate because it will make them more happy. I just have to face the fact that they hate me and there's pretty much nothing i can do with it...if i get straight A's they will always be interested in something else, if i dont they will yell the shit out of me.
People to thank for the good time:
[WS]Jserg - Man you have been a really good friend of mine and have been since i joined SAMP. Thanks Gamao :D
[GSF]MrNeo - Been mates ever since March this year, I hope you are still playing when i come back man, keep it cool
[Rstar]Jcstodds & Haldir - Awesome guys, took me in to their Group when i was in need and have been cool friends of mine, thanks guys
[ALS]Morgie - Introduced me to ALS and have been thankfull of it every day, thanks
[ALS]Wael, [ALS]Ryan, [ALS]Andriuha - Good guys, great fun RPing with yous
[Rstar]Legend - Cool guy, you've been friends with me for a bit, but still your a awesome person
Rest of the Admin team - Too many names to post but you all have been really nice to me and i will definately stop by to see yous some times.
The Rest of ALS - Awesome Group, thanks for the fun
Tattaglia - Kyle is promoted to Co-Leader in my absense, keep clean of bans mate.
[AV]Tai - Always been a friend and will still be forever, Stick around for my return!
Indigo - Thanks for the fun time in AVDS it's been good.
[Rstar]Austin - <3 forever mate whenever i see you in the SAMP list and im free ill come to say hi, your a good friend!
GiacJr - we havent been friends for too long but still you a cool guy
Hess - Again we havent been friends for too long but your still a cool person
Trent_Corleone - I've been mates with you for a while, thanks for the fun time
Gimli - Cool Guy to talk to, always made me laugh, thanks man
if i forgot u just shout out also if you want to talk about anything feel free to add me on MSN: [email protected]
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love you :(
good luck
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Realy sad news Stof... But I can understand the problem for 100%... (I'm neither a 'not-so-smart-student').
If there is anything we can do, just ask...
One thing I won't do is forget you partner!
GL!
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I'm sorry to hear that..
Good luck.
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Bye man gonna miss you :cry:
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Byebye, cya in 2 weeks ;)
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Good luck in real life man, try to focus on your studies
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Good luck with your school and life.
Im the best student in ma' class :razz:
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Fix your life, Live better, We are here and we will waiting for you Stof...
We love you
Cya and good luck with your future, i really hope you succeed
and one last word from me
Gamao :D
Cya
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I've almost been in the same situation.
If you want to be happy Stof, sell you pc or put it somewhere.
That's the best thing you can do, really!
But that shouldn't be necessary, just remember that your IRL life are more important than the pc.
I really hope you can make it.
Goodbye Stof. :roll:
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Byebye, cya in 2 weeks ;)
why 2 weeks? xD
lol selling my PC is going waaay too far and i need to do homework on it so... :D
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Stoffa, i will keep ur name in teh list for 1 week to remembered u :D. Hope u come to server and see me with my new bizz and moneh :o
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Good bye.. :neutral:
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on G Street non admin acc Neo?
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Good bye :(
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on G Street non admin acc Neo?
Yesh, come visit G's some time ;D
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Bye Stof :(
Good luck with life Stof ;) :bye:
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Goodbye Stof, and goodluck!
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Not you too! :( Visit us from time to time stof, and good luck in whatever you do!
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See you, SToF
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Noes Stof.
This is bad.
Again one, good, CUTE:P, argonath player left.
It's not fun anymore.
But ur reason are good and Im sorry for u Stof.
Im in the same situation, but Im ignoring it.
I would I was like u, chosing for myself.
Hope to see u ever again.
Otherwise, I see u when u meet Austin IRL XD
U will be still on msn? :O
/me gives a little kiss to Stof :$
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See you Stof, take care! :)
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yeah im still on MSN if you dont see me on [email protected] you will see me at [email protected]
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Atleast you wont be victim of Argonath Blacksheep Pups
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Atleast you wont be victim of Argonath Blacksheep Pups
Pups, stop taking urself down.
I want to talk with u, u'r on msn ?
Sad to read again stof.
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NOOO not you stof you 1 of my best friends and 1 of my fav admins please come back soon to visit us or pop on the forums atleast cya mate
Your Friend and Allie
Silver_Barzini
:ps: does this mean your mafia shut down ?
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Kyle will be running my mafia until i return. Also i will be on on the weekends until the 27th of december
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Stof,
Parents are not hating you... It is a standard mistake of sons/daughters thinking that parents hate them.
Every parent want to be proud of his child... Probably your mistakes with school and spending a lot of time at the computer makes them worrying that THEY DO SOMETHING WRONG or that they are BAD PARENTS...
In such age it is typical that every fight/conflict with parents lead their child to think "they hate me"... 50% of children want to run out from the house or just do it, running to friends...
You should do something for yourself and your family also... Education and good results at school will solve a lot of problems between you and parents... Also talk to parents, tell them your feelings... Probably with their own fight they forgot about your feelings or think you do not understand whats going on... At least you will clear out the situation in family for yourself...
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The thing is that ever since i have been getting into trouble at school and stuff they seem to not want to talk to me anymore, not even bothering with me. They have acted different ever since THEY made me repeat a year of school...and everytime my teacher calls about me doing something at school for example hitting someone in class..they get into a massive Argument and my dad goes to the garage hops on his motorbike and goes away for the rest of the night...sometimes im worried he may never come back cos of me :(
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Stof,
Parents are not hating you... It is a standard mistake of sons/daughters thinking that parents hate them.
Every parent want to be proud of his child... Probably your mistakes with school and spending a lot of time at the computer makes them worrying that THEY DO SOMETHING WRONG or that they are BAD PARENTS...
In such age it is typical that every fight/conflict with parents lead their child to think "they hate me"... 50% of children want to run out from the house or just do it, running to friends...
You should do something for yourself and your family also... Education and good results at school will solve a lot of problems between you and parents... Also talk to parents, tell them your feelings... Probably with their own fight they forgot about your feelings or think you do not understand whats going on... At least you will clear out the situation in family for yourself...
i hope its that what i got too,
im oldest child at my place, so my mother always blames me and protects my younger brother,
even when he does it instead of me,
i think my mum hates me too, a lot,
good luck Stof
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Stof, good luck out there and hope your back soon enough :(
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Goodbye
i hope you get good with things in rl
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The thing is that ever since i have been getting into trouble at school and stuff they seem to not want to talk to me anymore, not even bothering with me. They have acted different ever since THEY made me repeat a year of school...and everytime my teacher calls about me doing something at school for example hitting someone in class..they get into a massive Argument and my dad goes to the garage hops on his motorbike and goes away for the rest of the night...sometimes im worried he may never come back cos of me :(
Stof,
You can see it from their side as well, if your son constantly has troubles in school, and old methods did not work, I suppose they just gave up... It is only up to you to prove them you can study good and they can be proud of you...
What you described in actions of your father - it is looking like that - he is in a silence panic... He does not know what he did wrong (apparently he blames himself), he does not know what else to do so that his kid would be good in school...
You should start school, feel the responsibility for your future... Cos it is a way to get a good job in future and less worries... You will meet this problems with child when you will be father yourself, and the world will be more larger for you, then school and family only...
Do not forget your parents are also working and they have to communicate at work and go to work everyday... With which feelings dad will go at his work? Thinking about son "what's wrong, what was my mistake, what to do, Jesus!"
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Stof leaving.. The british Australian karatekid ? :(
Bye Stof.. You are a really nice guy :bye:
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LOLWUT...british xDDD Thanks for the advise Ron...my last day as from now will be Christmas day I will be back on every school holidays which is like March 09 for 2 weeks, June 09 for 2 weeks, September 09 for 2 weeks and December 09 for 6 weeks.
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I hope you will come with the cool reports about high scores in school... :rules: