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Title: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Zun_Callison on January 13, 2009, 10:38:03 pm
What has happened to Argonath?
When i started here for one and a half year ago, this was a warm, friendly community with alot of love in.
When i check every topic now, the only thing i can see is coldness..
I mean okay, some people doesnt have a perfect life, as you, And they are a bit attention-seeking at forums.
Whats the big deal? Let them be that and help them through a hard time that many of us actually have.
Is this a community or is it a fight club?
Please admins and fellow players, we must change this now.. or Argonath will just be one of many SA-MP servers, as they are now..

I don't blame anyone particular for this, it's many peoples fault.

Please.. change we need as we lost MANY fellow players due to this cause.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Nexxt on January 13, 2009, 10:57:07 pm
I see a much people making this kind of topics.
I wonder why there aint happening anything then.

Come on, I want love <33
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Jubin on January 13, 2009, 10:57:26 pm


I don't blame anyone particular for this, it's everyones fault.

Please.. change we need as we lost MANY fellow players due to this cause.

Zun, as you say that it is even my fault, then please could you tell me, in what way have I been unfriendly or cold to somebody? And what do I need to change in my attitude toward others?

.
I wonder why there aint happening anything then.

Come on, I want love <33
Me gives a warm, friendly kiss on Nexxt's ass.
Mmmm, so fuzzy.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Zun_Callison on January 13, 2009, 10:59:08 pm
Zun, as you say that it is even my fault, then please could you tell me, in what way have I been unfriendly or cold to somebody? And what do I need to change in my attitude toward others?
SOrry, i didnt check really. I dont mean exactly everyone, it was just an expression.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Jubin on January 13, 2009, 11:05:17 pm
Yes you are, your attitude is making me sick.

Ok, pardon me of wanting to know a rational reason of why I am guilty of something that I clearly aren't. I am cold and unfriendly only toward those who attacks me. And I believe that everybody are resposible for their own actions, I for example can't control, what is Nexxt doing in this community, so I can't really prevent him of being unfriendly and cold.
And here you are, asking people to be friendly and warm and then start accusing me of being unfriendly and cold, though actually it is you, who is cold and unfriendly toward me.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Matthew_Cipricla on January 13, 2009, 11:08:56 pm
Ok, pardon me of wanting to know a rational reason of why I am guilty of something that I clearly aren't. I am cold and unfriendly only toward those who attacks me. And I believe that everybody are resposible for their own actions, I for example can't control, what is Nexxt doing in this community, so I can't really prevent him of being unfriendly and cold.
And here you are, asking people to be friendly and warm and then start accusing me of being unfriendly and cold, though actually it is you, who is cold and unfriendly toward me.

I totally agree Jubin....

But I know what your talking about and if you think about it, its always been like that, just that we got more people and more people = more hate...... Sad but true and theres nothing we can do....

Because people dont change im afraid....
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Icarus on January 13, 2009, 11:10:04 pm
Half the servers on TOTM
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Jubin on January 13, 2009, 11:15:31 pm
I've seen you've changed your posts Zun, thank you :)
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Grovyle on January 13, 2009, 11:17:49 pm
EDIT: Quote Removed caus it doesn't need a response now

Not to be an ass, but I think this thing of being "unfriendly and cold" is becomming like a virus. That's because Argonath is not so enjoyable anymore, that's why I left! MTA:VC is currently rulling Argonath. It's more enjoyable, and most likely friendly.

This is because of the FIGGING ROLEPLAY DEMANDERS. I went on !help and saw: "Roleplay has no limit." or something.
Even Seskom has called me a noob because I didn't want to roleplay! I AM NOT OBLIGED TO DO SO! Normal members have NO power over me and I ALSO DONT HAVE ANY OVER THEM.

Actually, it's because he's done something and in Real Life you would do "that" or not. And he thought "WTF he can't roleplay".

Now, this is true. This happened like 3 days before I left SA:MP... Argonath.

I personally agree with Zun, some time ago, it was more friendly and "warm", now...
I... just... don't like the roleplay anymore. I did the right thing: I left because I didn't like. No one can stop me.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Yihka on January 13, 2009, 11:25:27 pm
Hmm???

Am I theo nly one who doesnt notice that much?

Oh maybe it's because I am not playing so much  ;)
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Caltson on January 13, 2009, 11:38:36 pm
Just to remind you :

How many topics with same fact like this were produced this month?
Really, ONE topic is enough .. Also this 'coldness" may be in SA:MP , but i don't have any coldness on MTA:SA nor MTA:VC ...

Really... Quit the complaining, it won't help it.. this is just a game, like grovyle says.. Don't force RP of other people.. Argonath is besides RP also a place to hangout isn't it?
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: OGKing on January 13, 2009, 11:45:44 pm
The most people are getting crazy, I just think they need to turn Argonath SA:MP for some days off, so everybody can think about it, what they have done. People are starting to hate, we need to stop this, right now.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Rusty on January 14, 2009, 12:23:51 am
Really... Quit the complaining, it won't help it.. this is just a game, like grovyle says.. Don't force RP of other people.. Argonath is besides RP also a place to hangout isn't it?

Yes it is a place to Hang out make new Friends join in on some Friendly Banter with fellow Forum Goers.  But people change and so does their Attitude towards people.  Give it time it'll blow over soon enough.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Carbon on January 14, 2009, 12:32:41 am
I think we all miss old times but now its time for new things and hopefully we can fix it.
Our community is now big and everyone don't know each other , thats the point.

:)
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Carhartt on January 14, 2009, 07:28:44 am
EDIT: Quote Removed caus it doesn't need a response now

Not to be an ass, but I think this thing of being "unfriendly and cold" is becomming like a virus. That's because Argonath is not so enjoyable anymore, that's why I left! MTA:VC is currently rulling Argonath. It's more enjoyable, and most likely friendly.

This is because of the FIGGING ROLEPLAY DEMANDERS. I went on !help and saw: "Roleplay has no limit." or something.
Even Seskom has called me a noob because I didn't want to roleplay! I AM NOT OBLIGED TO DO SO! Normal members have NO power over me and I ALSO DONT HAVE ANY OVER THEM.

Actually, it's because he's done something and in Real Life you would do "that" or not. And he thought "WTF he can't roleplay".

Now, this is true. This happened like 3 days before I left SA:MP... Argonath.

I personally agree with Zun, some time ago, it was more friendly and "warm", now...
I... just... don't like the roleplay anymore. I did the right thing: I left because I didn't like. No one can stop me.

If you don't like the server anymore just leave, stop crying, nobody cares.
What you're doing on a roleplay server if you don't want to roleplay?
I hate this excuse, I'll also use it from now on.
The police wants to stop / arrest me: "I don't fucking want to roleplay!!"
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Omri on January 14, 2009, 09:26:31 am
Hello Zun
Argonath is going though a little grow up as I think, we all need to grow up and be a little mature and the thing I think is with Argonath too as so many people will make diffrences here and other people wont.
You cant change the fact that Argonath will allways be the same for people, ofc it will change by time and its completely normal and I do not think its about this "coldness", we all change.


Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Grovyle on January 14, 2009, 03:20:53 pm
If you don't like the server anymore just leave, stop crying, nobody cares.
What you're doing on a roleplay server if you don't want to roleplay?
I hate this excuse, I'll also use it from now on.
The police wants to stop / arrest me: "I don't f**king want to roleplay!!"

ADMIT IT. I did the right thing, leave because I didn't want to roleplay, right?
I always said to people that Argonath sucks: "Don't like it, most likely if you don't want to have problems I suggest you to leave". Now I say to myself EXACTLY that.
I'm not saying Argonath sucks, but for me it doesn't rule either.

Of coooursse I almost always said it rules and I like it, but I can't play forever. Like I can't stay alive forever. Or be "miop" (or how the hell you say, it's "míope" in Porteguese or something (never writed it), it's like you can't see stuff that is far from you, seems all "defocated") forever (unless there isn't some kind of treatment, apart from using glasses or contact lens)
I'm not EITHER saying that I play/do something forever, because obviously I get bored of things like every human... except life. Well... I don't really know. Correct me if I'm wrong, atleast one more thing I learn...

Plus:
First off the only case I didn't want to roleplay was that "semi-not-really-a-conflict" with Seskom, if there was anything else, I'm afraid I don't remember. It doesn't fucking mean I don't want to roleplay ever again.
I know no one gives a damn.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Zun_Callison on January 14, 2009, 05:12:49 pm
By seeing the replies here, my statement is confirmed.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Watahell on January 14, 2009, 05:18:13 pm
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What's up with this coldness?

I ask the same  :neutral:
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Abraham on January 14, 2009, 05:22:49 pm
Icecream, icecream anyone? free icecream...!
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Jubin on January 14, 2009, 05:33:04 pm
I got scarfs here. Anyone want one?
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Abraham on January 14, 2009, 05:40:05 pm
I got scarfs here. Anyone want one?
I'll trade you an icecream for a scarf.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: JayL on January 14, 2009, 05:43:23 pm
LOLOLOLOL I DUNN WANNA PAY FOR SOMETHING THAT DOESNT EXIST... NEITHER FOR SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T BRING ME MANEYZ!!!1!one!1eleven!!111!

I AM GUNNA ROB YOU SO I GET SOMETHING THAT EXISTS... MANEY!!! YEAH JAJAAJAJAJAJAJAJA!

Yeah, people only want money. Most times I walk around I get robbed and kidnapped...

It's hard but I doubt all are gonna stop to think about and change.

Like Merc did...

CHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGE
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: ElMartu on January 14, 2009, 05:54:11 pm
Yes today I did not have money in hand, got robbed... Handed over my ID, and my golden clock, got killed anyways because I did not give MONEYZ...
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Zun_Callison on January 14, 2009, 10:14:41 pm
Some people here seem to like the "mainstream-argonath" and everyone has their own vote, but personally, i don't like it as it is now.
Lock this topic, some people just can't be serious for a second.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Omri on January 14, 2009, 10:48:35 pm
Zun, I do not think that you shall take it that personal, what did you expect when you ask the community ? You gotta learn to handle negative feedback and learn by it and dont give up too easy mate.
But its quite true, Argonath CHANGED alot this year thats also why I choosed to leave SA:MP and move to the small servers such as MTA:SA and VC:MP.

Have faith and hope, there will be changes, good or bad ? Time will show us if you just want to be here and see it.

Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Matthew_Cipricla on January 14, 2009, 11:11:06 pm
Ok I can see why its stupid for you to be saying "I dont want to RP" when a cop tries to pull you over, because if you can be interfering with other peoples Rp (like running over people or hitting cars...) But for like a robbing or kidnapping, (which most criminals do it for money, only a handful only do it for "roleplay") then you have every f*cking right not to roleplay. Either because you have other things to do,l ike take care of business with admin, house, bizz, etc.... or you know the guy cant Rp worth a rats ass.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Abraham on January 15, 2009, 12:32:06 am
some people just can't be serious for a second.
If you are refering to me and Jubins post then you're the one that's cold brah.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Merc on January 15, 2009, 12:53:54 am
LOLOLOLOL I DUNN WANNA PAY FOR SOMETHING THAT DOESNT EXIST... NEITHER FOR SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T BRING ME MANEYZ!!!1!one!1eleven!!111!

I AM GUNNA ROB YOU SO I GET SOMETHING THAT EXISTS... MANEY!!! YEAH JAJAAJAJAJAJAJAJA!

Yeah, people only want money. Most times I walk around I get robbed and kidnapped...

It's hard but I doubt all are gonna stop to think about and change.

Like Merc did...

CHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGE

Big up CHANGE, and big up PEACE, an big up ♥LOVE♥

"If everyone wants to just get along, leave the pieces on the floor an move the fuck on"

CHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGECHANGE
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Icarus on January 15, 2009, 01:43:58 am
Arguments, on teh internets?

No Waiz!
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Roadkill on January 15, 2009, 02:13:58 am
It has been like this for a very long time.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: hell1989 on January 15, 2009, 02:21:50 am
Yo Trojan! Long time!
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Sirricharic on January 15, 2009, 07:33:18 am
     This coldness is due to expansion. Before when Argonath was smaller everyone knew everyone and everything was coo. But as time passed Argonath grew and people didn't know everyone. So then it came to the point that people alienated themselves in clans. Then after that certain clans did not like other clans and every one didn't want to be apart of something they thought wasn't as good as another. So then the mentality of "I don't know you so why are you talking to me" started so then people don't listen to people who they don't know. Its the same thing as the real world. Clans are like gangs on the street. Admins are like cops and other players are citizens. Therefore there are some bonds between people who are still longtime friends but those eventually die then start again.

Just Keepin it Real.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Dexter on January 15, 2009, 09:58:02 am
This topic can be good reminder that money is not everything. Most of us like to have realistic Rp than just *give me your money*. I mean how boring is that really? He is aiming you with gun and if you don't give money you can say bye bye to your character. And if you give it maybe same result or then he just leave. Well i guess that is how it goes in real life too but it don't happen that much in real life  ;). And about coldness. Argonath changed?. Some peoples on Argonath changed yes. That is what we cant control so i just focus to keep my playing on good level.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Iceboy on January 17, 2009, 03:10:49 am
Big up CHANGE, and big up PEACE, an big up ♥LOVE♥

"If everyone wants to just get along, leave the pieces on the floor an move the f**k on"



Lmao! That's what I call a change :lol:

Peace :D
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: JDC on January 19, 2009, 02:01:05 am
My views on this:

1. If a cop is arresting you for something you actually did and you give the "/l i dont want to roleplay with you, piss off im not in the mood", it shows that you are no different than the people who cant roleplay. There is a time and place when you can say no to roleplay, such as when someone asks you if you want to RP a hostage in a Kidnapping and you're busy. Seriously, a real veteran RPer takes every opportunity to RP, and show the newbies how it's done.

2. SA:MP seriously needs some of that warm friendliness that can be found on the 3 other smaller servers, especially MTAVC.

3. Clans and Gangs should dump the isolationist doctrine and reach out to each other.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Merc on January 19, 2009, 03:04:33 am
Everyone needs some love, everyone should warm up this coldness with peace, everyone is talking about it but no change is been done, there needs to be more topics of warmth in the community about new members and old members discussing nice subjects like the "culture" and "where do you live" topics, everyone should stop the fucking whining topics, "The RP IS DYING ADMINZ HALP!" an everyone should chill the fuck out for a minute an take a look at what needs to be done

-Merc
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Que on January 19, 2009, 04:47:51 am
Everyone needs some love, everyone should warm up this coldness with peace, everyone is talking about it but no change is been done, there needs to be more topics of warmth in the community about new members and old members discussing nice subjects like the "culture" and "where do you live" topics, everyone should stop the f**king whining topics, "The RP IS DYING ADMINZ HALP!" an everyone should chill the f**k out for a minute an take a look at what needs to be done

-Merc

That'll never happen.
Sad, but true.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Hircine on January 19, 2009, 04:48:40 am
Everyone should smoke ganja and put their differences aside.  :cool:
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: JDC on January 19, 2009, 10:02:46 am
nah, it'll give em lung cancer over time (I'm proud to say I've never drunk any wine or smoked any lights in my life)
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Jubin on January 19, 2009, 01:35:09 pm
nah, it'll give em lung cancer over time (I'm proud to say I've never drunk any wine or smoked any lights in my life)
[Off-topic]Estonian saying is: "Alkohol on tarkade jook" what would be translated as "Alcohol is a beverage of the smart people". And what it tries to say is, that if you consume alcohol in the right amounts, it doesn't do that much harm to your health. (Don't consume like I did last Thursday, when I threw up on my way home).[/Off-Topic]

I would like to say about this topic a quote from Van Wilder:
Quote
Do not take life to seriously, you never gonna make it out alive.
Most of you people, take Argonath way too seriously. It's like you need Argonath, you need to get that ARPD officer status, you need to get that admin level and you need to get into the Rock Stars. Well guys, I haven't been an ARPD officer, though I have been all these other things, I can say from experience, up there, the sun won't shine brighter, the people don't role play better and the deathmatchers still keep coming to the server. So why even bother being so seriously attempting to get those statuses?
If you are trying to say that most of you don't have those goals then who are you fooling there? Me or you? As I saw what happened after I had announced the Oscar Nomination of 2008.

Van Wilder 2: The Rise of Taj:
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It's not the house that matters, but the people who live inside.
Does it really matter if you have "The best .... 2006/2007" award in your name? Does it really make you any better role player and even more any better player in Argonath community?

So, what do I suggest for you to do? Have fun! I don't know about you guys, but I joined Argonath's community just because I wanted to have some fun. And by fun I don't mean role playing I mean fun. But don't forget that during the time you are having fun, let others have fun too. If you want to role play as it makes you feel warmer inside, do it. If you are in no mood to role play and instead want to relax with listening to music and stunt, do it. As long as you don't interfere with others who are trying to have fun.

If you can't have fun, what's the point?
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: JDC on January 19, 2009, 01:40:24 pm
If you can't have fun, what's the point?

EXACTLY, look at the Giac invasion.. it was so fun and I dont understand why people didnt like it.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Immortal on January 19, 2009, 02:55:57 pm
None cares about it, this topic will be locked for sure
Let them to get ban...
Argonath has really changed but who cares?
But im caring it for sure  ;)
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Merc on January 19, 2009, 04:42:52 pm
That'll never happen.
Sad, but true.

I'll make it happen
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Que on January 19, 2009, 04:48:14 pm
I'll make it happen

Try.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Matthew_Cipricla on January 19, 2009, 06:19:32 pm
Ok whats wrong with trying to get officer Status, or trying to make it in a mafia. Setting goals for yourself is a great way to live life..... Sure have fun but dont act immature and like an idiot on the server, even if you think its "fun". Yes there are people who take Argonath to seriousluy, but there are those who take it not seriously enough.... And what else bothers me is that people just go on there to talk and dont want to RP at all. They try to get "respect +1" by talking and making friends, well heres a tip: Roleplaying will get you "respect +1337"......
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Jubin on January 19, 2009, 07:26:52 pm
Ok whats wrong with trying to get officer Status, or trying to make it in a mafia. Setting goals for yourself is a great way to live life
It isn't but all I see, is that the main emphasis should be on fun, all that comes beside it is a bonus. Have fun and you probably get those statues too. I mean, when I joined Argonath I accomplished it all (what I wanted) but I never set myself goals. I rather got offers to join a mafia or ARPD then set myself a goal to get myself into these groups.
Title: Re: What's up with this coldness?
Post by: Matthew_Cipricla on January 19, 2009, 09:53:27 pm
I dobt anyone these days would get something like that. And I do see what your saying, and I kinda agree. Live your virutal life on here fun and good things will come to you as a suprise. I wish it was like that, but its just not like that these days. Instead of just driving around and having RP happen to you just like that, you need to search for the  RP which often times is hard to find.
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