Argonath RPG - A World of its own
Argonath RPG Community => Speakerbox => Topic started by: rJCaiG on June 18, 2009, 03:49:42 pm
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Well here's the story a girl i know from school had recently caught my attention and i started to talk to her a lot at school and on msn too. We also did webcam every night for a few nights. Then she asked me who i liked and i said guess blah blah blah 2 days later she realises its her. I asked her if she was cool with it and she said yeah. Then i asked her what she would think back. She said...let me think and ill tell you later. That was yesterday and today she said, quote, "um can we just be friends 4 the moment?" is this her saying "never in a million years" or "maybe we should get to know each other a bit first" ? I'm not i hopeless lover, just never been rejected before lol...any advice appreciated. Thanks. After-thought...I might add that she said she really likes me but wasn't sure how much..lol
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Lol i got a problem with a girl to, im always too nervous to tell her that i love her :P...Lol xD but mine is easier anyway lets see whats are you going to type more ( Don't mind about me stick on the topic :P )
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"never in a million years" or "maybe we should get to know each other a bit first" ?
Uhm... Both can be right...
If she's shy, than 1st variant aand if 2nd variant than... wait! :D
Anyways, if need some help with girls, ask me. :devroll: ;)
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Lol, she's not really shy...to me anyway...i just dont know if its worth my time pursuing her or not haha
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And what if she just want to be friends? You won't talk to her anymore?
Just give it some time, don't push too hard.
BTW, does she have an 18-year old sister?
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LOL marc...you're horny 24/7 i swear...and i meant i dunno if it's worth pursuing her as a girlfriend...of course i will still stay as her friend! I'm going to sleep now...well, going to try...its 12 30 am on a school night lol...cant get to sleep...
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If this girl need time i really suggest to give it to her. What i thihnk that too much pushing will just make her go more far from you. Ofcourse it will mess your head up to hide your feelings from her but at least it give time to her to think about how she feels about you. And all this thinking about do she likes you or not is hard, but hey who said that love is easy? If you find someone who can say that i am impressed.
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Well that's my plan - we agreed to just let things happen normally for a while...so hopefully i can get her trust and she might come to change her mind...but hey, only time will tell going to sleep now, will check new replies as soon as i can....thanks again for your help guys
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most likely she means, that she has to get to know you a lil bit better.
i suggest not to try TO hard, it'll might scare her away
take on things slowely, on occasionally base, give her a hug
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Lol, she's not really shy...to me anyway...i just dont know if its worth my time pursuing her or not haha
I would say it isn't worth your time pursuing her. As you are in the friend-zone. Also, most of the time MSN is girlfriend-boyfriend relationship killer.
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"Ooohh did I die and go to heaven?, because you look like an angel!" Say this and she is yours.
This is the most lame pick-up line ever, and will most likely get you slapped by any human-being.
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But really, does she got a sister?
I think it's better if you to just act as friends, when you want more it might affect your behaviour.
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Girls like a slow pace relationship. If you move too fast then they won't have time to think about it.
Girls are like piece of puzzle, they need one piece to place the next piece.
My advice is go on with slow pace, and get to know her first, like, in example, what she likes and what she doesn't like.
Maybe take her to movie sometime, just to get together, if not, bring some of her and your friends to gang out.
Good luck.
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Girls like a slow pace relationship. If you move too fast then they won't have time to think about it.
Girls are like piece of puzzle, they need one piece to place the next piece.
My advice is go on with slow pace, and get to know her first, like, in example, what she likes and what she doesn't like.
Maybe take her to movie sometime, just to get together, if not, bring some of her and your friends to gang out.
Good luck.
anyone got the manual for this puzzle?
seems like a puzzle of one million pieces ...
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anyone got the manual for this puzzle?
seems like a puzzle of one million pieces ...
yeah :D
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Haha thanks guys :) and marc...i'm pretty sure she doesn't...she has a little brother if that interests you :)
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get her drunk =D
or you can borrow my line; "daum girl u fine, wanna be mine?"
Seriously, rofl.
Just take it slow.
I liked a girl once, and at one point I thought I loved her. But I didn't make a make move, I was too afraid to be turned down by her, and I am still stuck with this problem, I still like her.
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Sorry Giac I cant help you on This cuz I never Succed a relation With a Girl But I know that take it slow and easy......Good Luck.
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Like Claire said, take it easy. But don't let the girl 'guide' you.. woman like man that take charge (most woman..) so, do it slow. But take the lead.
Also, don't back off that easily, maybe she is just playing 'Hard to get'.. You'll be sorry if you back off that easily (got experience :()
Or as Abraham suggested, get her drunk :)
I'm also wondering why you are asking this in a community full of game nerds btw :D
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But don't let the girl 'guide' you.. woman like man that take charge (most woman..) so, do it slow. But take the lead.
Exactly... ;)
I'm also wondering why you are asking this in a community full of game nerds btw :D
You call me nerd? D: :cry:
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LOL all used to rejection so why not? :D today she told someone i liked her...and that person told another person...and now its just stupid...do you think everyone knowing will help or make it worse? :/
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LOL all used to rejection so why not? :D today she told someone i liked her...and that person told another person...and now its just stupid...do you think everyone knowing will help or make it worse? :/
ouch. this is the worst part. don't worry. wait a while and that will stop spreading about. (∴∞※£ing childish ponkz -_-). anyway… don't be an idiot like me and spend nights wondering what if. you have more chances than I do. Look, what you need to do is tell her you thought you were in love then, just try to build up a strong, sturdy friendship. hang out non romantically for a bit. soon, if she does take interest in you, look for signs that she does like you.
tell me what comes up
:ps: i'm one of the argo idiots so careful with my advice since it's like unstable gun powder :s, meaning it can be good or bad
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I dont wanna say what i have in mind :(
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Thanks for the advice Link.
That's my plan - let it cool down, then start to talk again..and hopefully I can become more than a friend :)
Thanks for the help all of you - i'll give updates when they happen :rofl:
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can i have her msn? :lol: jk
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LOL all used to rejection so why not? :D today she told someone i liked her...and that person told another person...and now its just stupid...do you think everyone knowing will help or make it worse? :/
Amazingly that sometimes helps your situation
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That's what I thought :)
One of her close friends offered to ask her if she liked me or not, as like a best friend kinda hush hush thing.
So she's gonna do that on Monday and i'll go from there.
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Don't you got a sister yourself?
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She's 10.
You're really into this kinky child sex stuff aren't you? :trust:
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Seriously, rofl.
Just take it slow.
I liked a girl once, and at one point I thought I loved her. But I didn't make a make move, I was too afraid to be turned down by her, and I am still stuck with this problem, I still like her.
Man i got exactly The same problem the same!!! :P Anyway Gia, give her what she asks for :P and be patient do it all step by step Even if its going to take a lot of time
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anyone got the manual for this puzzle?
seems like a puzzle of one million pieces ...
Between the ages of 15-20 a woman is like Africa.
She is half discovered, half wild.
Between the ages of 20-30 a woman is like America.
Fully discovered and scientifically perfect.
Between the ages of 30-35, she is like India Japan.
Very hot, wise and beautiful !!!!!!!!!
Between the ages of 35-40 a woman is like France.
She is half destroyed after the war but still desirable.
Between the ages of 40-50 she is like Germany.
She lost the war but not the hope.
Between the ages of 50-60 she is like Russia.
Very wide, very quiet but nobody goes there.
Between the ages of 60-70 a woman is like England.
With a glorious past but no future.
After 70, they become Siberia.
Everyone knows where it is, but no one wants to go there.
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Well... disco polo almost always works ;)
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Well... disco polo almost always works ;)
Hello..'70 where along time ago.
Anyway, take her out on movie and on the Beach for a swim. Also, dont be afraid to show her for your friends!
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Hello..'70 where along time ago.
Not Disco of 70's but Disco Polo of 90's :D and whats wrong if i have fun with 19 y/o songs and she like it too :) Whats my point? Dont try be cool, be yourself.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mXNjWlbyPiE
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ROFL @ ChaNce
And about that girl I like, I got a kiss from her today, I was so happy and a bit nervous. It really does work, just give a girl some time to get to know you well, make her laugh, become good friends, and it all works itself out. :)
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Since monday I got a new GF, and Gia I can tell you, it'll all go automatically.
I also think and hope she plays hard to get.
Good luck! :)
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Once a girl says "let me think about it", then your relationship will end up in a either a "friendship" or a "hey - hello" contact...
I know this from personal experience.
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When a girls says 'let me think about it', she's not interested and doesn't wanna hurt your feelings.
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I think that may be the case here :P
We HAVE been taken down to simple 'hellio' or 'hi', and not being able to talk much, due to retards going "HURR HURR U LIEK HER!!!", but i still talk to her on msn and shit.
i doubt i have a chance anymore, but it won't kill anyone to keep trying, will it? ;)
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Giacjr take advice from an old nerd. ;)
If a woman tells you 'she will think about it' it means you are second choice and she will first try if the guy she likes better also likes her.
Instead of trying to get her to like you more, become real friends with her. She can teach you more about how women think and get you in contact with a girl that really likes you.
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I was waiting for your answer Gandalf, I knew you'd be the best help I could get.
I'll keep that in mind. I've already decided to stop the 'full on' approach for now, and just talk to her normally for a bit...thanks for the post <3
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Between the ages of 15-20 a woman is like Africa.
She is half discovered, half wild.
Between the ages of 20-30 a woman is like America.
Fully discovered and scientifically perfect.
Between the ages of 30-35, she is like India Japan.
Very hot, wise and beautiful !!!!!!!!!
Between the ages of 35-40 a woman is like France.
She is half destroyed after the war but still desirable.
Between the ages of 40-50 she is like Germany.
She lost the war but not the hope.
Between the ages of 50-60 she is like Russia.
Very wide, very quiet but nobody goes there.
Between the ages of 60-70 a woman is like England.
With a glorious past but no future.
After 70, they become Siberia.
Everyone knows where it is, but no one wants to go there.
More wise words from Jubin :)
Like several people including ol' Gandalf said, take the time to gain her trust... as for me lol I'm not (hey whotf edited this) experienced in the getting-along-with-girls field, since I'm still at the part where... never mind, that's not what we're talking about. :)
Good luck mate.
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I know its silly but:
What boys don't realize:
1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.
Are you remembering this?
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.
KEEP READING
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it.
Fight back
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.
Are you thinking of someone?
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she's beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she's your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!!!!*
WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US
26. DON'T lie to her.
27. DON'T cheat on her(Duh?)
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants.
29. Txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you her.
30. Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.
ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER BECAUSE, IT'S IMPORTANT
31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her)
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her.
REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible.
41.Make sure she knows shes loved.
43. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
44. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
45. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS Remind her how much you love her
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her;you'll never know when she needs just a lil more love.
WHEN SHE SAYS YOU ARE CRAZY/WEIRD
-SHE IS REALLY CRAZY ABOUT YOU
WHEN SHE ACTS SHY
-SAY I LOVE YOU
WHEN SHE RUNS AWAY FROM YOU
- CHASE HER
WHEN SHE PUTS HER FACE NEAR YOURS
- KISS HER
WHEN SHE KICKS & PUNCHES
- HOLD HER TIGHT
WHEN SHE IS SILENT
- SHE'S THINKIN OF HOW TO SAY I LOVE YOU
WHEN SHE IGNORES YOU
-SHE WANTS ALL YOUR ATTENTION!
WHEN SHE PULLS AWAY
- GRAB HER BY THE WAIST AND NEVER LET GO
WHEN YOU SEE HER AT HER WORST
- TELL HER SHE'S BEAUTIFUL
WHEN SHE SCREAMS AT YOU
- TELL HER YOU LOVE HER BUT MEAN IT!!
WHEN YOU SEE HER WALKING
-SNEAK UP BEHIND HER GRAB HER BY THE
WAIST AND GIVE HER A KISS
WHEN SHE'S SCARED
-HOLD HER AND TELL HER EVERYTHING WILL BE OK CAUSE SHE'S WITH YOU
WHEN SHE LOOKS LIKE SOMETHINGS THE MATTER
- KISS HER AND TELL HER NOT TO WORRY
WHILE SHE HOLDS YOUR HAND
- PLAY WITH HER FINGERS
WHEN SHE SAYS SHE COLD
-SHE WANTS YOU TO HOLD HER TIGHT
Can help you in the future :)
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Lol, I am going to try some of the above! :D