Argonath RPG - A World of its own

GTA:SA => SA:MP - San Andreas Multiplayer => SA:MP General => Topic started by: TwoFace on January 13, 2011, 07:25:16 pm

Title: how long is too long?
Post by: TwoFace on January 13, 2011, 07:25:16 pm
Hey Argonath, lately I've been very active going online on Argonath and roleplaying with some of you. I've been taking a look at myself and the position Im in IRL. I feel like this game is more of an addiction than an enjoyable game to play. I told myself last year that I would try to stop playing since i was entering college and i would try to get a job. Since then Ive kept playing, and ive been falling behind in school right now and i cant get a job because im too lazy to go look for one. I've also stopped making some music which is what i consider the best hobby i've ever discovered for myself. my social life is also taking a hit because all i've been doing is sit in front of the computer which is pathetic for me.

anyway, i might not want stop argonath and go cold turkey, but i want people who have been in this situation to tell me how i can manage myself in a sense and gradually stop playing as often as i do. thanks
 
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: MisterSjeiks on January 13, 2011, 07:31:21 pm
PC-lockdown.
Download a program that locks your PC at a given time.
Inform everyone you play with that your PC gets locked at a given time.
And while your PC is locked study and look for a job or watch some Playboy.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: TwoFace on January 13, 2011, 07:39:11 pm
watch some Playboy.

i would, but i would need my computer for some of the classes im taking, its more of a self control issue for me
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: MisterSjeiks on January 13, 2011, 07:41:58 pm
Allright, i'll check if I can find some programs that can lock individual programs (Like SA:MP & GTA)
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: TwoFace on January 13, 2011, 07:43:59 pm
Allright, i'll check if I can find some programs that can lock individual programs (Like SA:MP & GTA)
thanks man
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: MisterSjeiks on January 13, 2011, 08:06:26 pm
I couldn't find any freeware programs, but I found a small 30-day trial Program (http://www.shareup.com/Software_Time_Lock-download-29134.html) that you could use untill someone finds a freeware one :D
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: EminemRulez on January 13, 2011, 08:11:42 pm
"The best way to leave an addiction is finding another one." - Joey_DeRossi.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: MisterSjeiks on January 13, 2011, 08:13:39 pm
"The best way to leave an addiction is finding another one." - Joey_DeRossi.
Uhm...
VVVVVVVVV

watch some Playboy.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Caltson on January 13, 2011, 08:16:56 pm
I Suppose you just need to start thinking different.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Nathan on January 13, 2011, 08:17:13 pm
Programs wont do anything for you. You will always find a way to tell yourself that you should play longer. My suggestion is to go completely "cold turkey" for about two weeks. Turn PC off (unless homework requires it), turn all possibly sources to get on the internet off. Usually, that kills the addiction and you seriously see a change.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Jimmy_Bowling on January 13, 2011, 08:17:51 pm
Your right on all points... I am addicted to argonath I log on forums at school I am averaging a 3.4 GPA now... and I spend all my extra time online and do my homework before the class.. Yea I got a problem aswell man.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: XSniper on January 13, 2011, 09:57:08 pm
Thinking about it me too, im getting addicted, like nicotine to a cigar  :trust:
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Cofiliano on January 13, 2011, 10:01:21 pm
Get a girlfriend. Most effective way.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Que on January 13, 2011, 10:07:15 pm
Get a girlfriend. Most effective way.

^
Try to find a girl. Fall in love.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Exclusive. on January 13, 2011, 10:11:42 pm
Just ask your parents (if you still life at your parents) to shut down the internet.

Or be real, do you really need this game? If you want to achieve things in live, you should get to action bro! (Says the one who has bad grades himself )

Or request a ban.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Mr. Goobii on January 13, 2011, 10:16:46 pm
I Suppose you just need to start thinking different.

That^. I were in same situation as you. Just think in other minds, not computers/video games.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Void on January 13, 2011, 10:22:39 pm
You know what I did?
I sold my laptop. I have a crappy PC that can only log in the internet. Cannot play games.

Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: TwoFace on January 13, 2011, 10:26:54 pm
Get a girlfriend. Most effective way.
girlfriends are expensive. but its funny that you mentioned that because last week this one girl was booty dancing with me and after that night thats when it hit me "man, i forgot how much fun i can have with them (my friends). what else could i be doin thats fun" lol!
 
 
Thinking about it me too, im getting addicted, like nicotine to a cigar  :trust:
at this point i would like to go smoke now


Or be real, do you really need this game? If you want to achieve things in live, you should get to action bro! (Says the one who has bad grades himself )

Or request a ban.
youre right there's no denying that. i'll ask myself that when i get online. As far as requesting a ban though im just gonna find another server and DM in it till i get banned and keep repeating that action
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: CaptainCrazy on January 14, 2011, 09:17:13 am
I believe the consequences will lead you elsewhere, hopefully somewhere more "better" in the social life. But as long as you enjoy playing on Argonath, I don't see any reason to just stop cause you "need" - I've dealt with that bullshit before.

"It's never too late".
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Murt on January 14, 2011, 04:21:15 pm
Get a girlfriend. Most effective way.

^
Try to find a girl. Fall in love.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Gandalf on January 14, 2011, 04:37:43 pm
Learn time-management. You know you have to do a number of things you must do, a numer of things you like and a number of things you want to do.

First priority: school work/ job. When you arrive home take 30 minutes to relax, watch TV or listen to music.
Then start the school work and job applications, and do not get distracted by all other things until its finished.

After that you have the remaining time to split between things like making musing and playing Argonath.  If you need to, make a schedule, but do not become a slave of it.

Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: (tr)Ollie on January 14, 2011, 05:52:50 pm
Turn laptop off then you can't play....
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Biggo2 on January 14, 2011, 06:48:47 pm
My life is kinda the same. I've always had my mind on suicide... but it's not the answer..
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: TwoFace on January 16, 2011, 01:52:05 am
My life is kinda the same. I've always had my mind on suicide... but it's not the answer..
damn, i dont think my situation was that serious. but i can see why you would have those thoughts

Turn laptop off then you can't play....
  Wowzers i made a mess in my trousers



i found this article on yahoo, pretty good read on this topic

http://blog.games.yahoo.com/blog/311-the-fine-line-between-game-enthusiast-and-addict?nc (http://blog.games.yahoo.com/blog/311-the-fine-line-between-game-enthusiast-and-addict?nc)

Quote
For some video game enthusiasts, finding a way to keep their hobbies from overtaking other aspects of their lives isn't an easy thing to accomplish. And the reasons, according to one doctor, have nothing to do with a lack of impulse control.

"There's a neurochemistry - whether you're gambling, gaming or taking drugs - that is all the same," "It has to do with the elevation of dopamine and other neural chemicals that your body makes. When it overproduces that for too long, the body makes adjustments - which we call tolerance. ... And when you're not engaged in that stimulating behavior or ingestion of those chemicals, the body goes into withdrawal."
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: FastSh00T on January 17, 2011, 01:03:46 pm
You know what I did?
I sold my laptop. I have a crappy PC that can only log in the internet. Cannot play games.
then How do you play IV:MP and you are IV:MP Manager? 
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: (tr)Ollie on January 18, 2011, 08:21:08 pm
  Wowzers i made a mess in my trousers

You are definitely playing this shit far too much if you are creaming your pants due to something on an on-line games forum.



then How do you play IV:MP and you are IV:MP Manager? 

Because he is Void and he is cool.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Exclusive. on January 18, 2011, 08:37:52 pm
I am currently trying to stop gaming for real, to focus on school and get good grades. I haven't gamed from Sunday and I really got the feeling things for school are going quite well actually. I'll be just keep doing this till I have good grades and I can chill again.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: MisterSjeiks on January 19, 2011, 05:25:40 pm
I haven't gamed from Sunday and I really got the feeling things for school are going quite well actually.
:lol:




Anyways, if you live with your parents or something they can like, make sure you do your work before you turn on the PC.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Exclusive. on January 19, 2011, 05:34:24 pm
Well better :)
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Raykaza on January 19, 2011, 05:39:37 pm
Just organise your time and you will be fine.I play SAMP I study i drink i smoke i pod ect...
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: hell1989 on January 19, 2011, 08:57:48 pm
^
Try to find a girl. Fall in love.

Or just try to find a girl or dude, whatever your preference is lol.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: newton_alex on January 21, 2011, 11:58:27 pm
self-control

learn it! if you can't stop yourself.. then wow.



oh yeh try cooking :D it's time consuming+fun
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Pablo on January 22, 2011, 12:31:02 am
You are definitely playing this shit far too much if you are creaming your pants due to something on an on-line games forum.


.

I smell hypocrisy and retardation.
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: FastSh00T on January 22, 2011, 07:20:30 pm
^
Try to find a girl. Fall in love.
What if his girl friend is ArgonathRPG SA:MP addicted too? ;D
Title: Re: how long is too long?
Post by: Raykaza on January 22, 2011, 07:46:23 pm
What if his girl friend is ArgonathRPG SA:MP addicted too? ;D
Girl addicted to SAMP ?Then he needs definitly to break up with her.
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