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Argonath RPG Community => Speakerbox => Topic started by: Robby_Wilson on August 25, 2012, 04:54:28 am

Title: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Robby_Wilson on August 25, 2012, 04:54:28 am
I know its weird.... but asking my family would make everything awkward.... I realy like this girl, and I mean, i REALLY like her, Id do anything for her, yet... I'm stuck.... stuck in the friend zone. I was talking to her and this is what we said:

Girl I Like: I've met Mr. Cheater, Mr. Asshole, and Mr. Doesn't Work Out... Now where is my Mr. Right?

Me: He's right under your nose. You just don't know it yet.

Girl I Like:  ‎huh?

me:  I'm saying, maybe the guy who said he doesn't like you, still likes you, a lot.

Girl I Like: and who is that?

Me: Me, I never stopped liking you.

Girl I like: Aw, thats sweet.

And then she completely changed the topic. I feel so unwanted, I feel so upset, I don't know what to do. I love her, but she ignores it.

Just. makes me feel so bad when girls complain about "Wheres mr. right" and I'm screaming inside like "I'M RIGHT HERE IN THE FRIENDZONE YOU BITCH!"

Help me out here? I'm feeling really down...
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Marcel on August 25, 2012, 05:11:31 am
Before giving you advice, i'd like to hold a moment of silence for our brother in the friendzone.

I think it's best to be completely honest with her. If she still decides to ignore your feelings, than she's probably not worth your dedication. If she really ignores it, you will likely only hurt yourself in the end.

Just my 2 cents.

Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Squeak on August 25, 2012, 06:49:20 am
Cease all contact with her, she doesn't view you in that way and at this point you are basically a girlfriend for her.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Teddy on August 25, 2012, 06:51:48 am
Cease all contact with her, she doesn't view you in that way and at this point you are basically a girlfriend for her.

Put very bluntly, but has a good point.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Squeak on August 25, 2012, 07:02:11 am
also stop making topics
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Candy_Mayne on August 25, 2012, 07:04:13 am
Cease all contact with her, she doesn't view you in that way and at this point you are basically a girlfriend for her.

Cease all contact with her, she doesn't view you in that way and at this point you are basically a girlfriend for her.
Cease all contact with her, she doesn't view you in that way and at this point you are basically a girlfriend for her.
Cease all contact with her, she doesn't view you in that way and at this point you are basically a girlfriend for her.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Chris_Knight on August 25, 2012, 07:18:42 am
If you act like a friend you can be taken as one,give a shot and try some more than just be a friend.  At current point there is nothing to lose anyway.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: JDC on August 25, 2012, 07:24:09 am
Cease all contact with her, she doesn't view you in that way and at this point you are basically a girlfriend for her.

This is one of those times when I'd fully support Squeak here. Take his advice.

If she ignores your feelings for her, she's not worth the effort.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Robby_Wilson on August 25, 2012, 02:01:12 pm
also stop making topics

I can do what I want buddy.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Marcel on August 25, 2012, 03:22:51 pm
also stop making topics

Why? The forum is for making topics. He has a valid and real question asking for some advice.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Rick. on August 25, 2012, 11:53:30 pm
also stop making topics

Finally, someone else tells him.

Your constant provoking is not to be tolerated. Banned for 15 days.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Woka on August 26, 2012, 12:12:04 am
Oh i remember like 7months ago,i liked this one girl,so i kept flirting with her,then we became bestfreinds,and i was like,WTH am i doing,i  don't wanna be your best friends,i wanna be your lover,then she told me,i know you've been flirting with me all this time,was like yea i know  :D,then in my head i said "FUCK",and after that every time i was going to ask her out i was like "Nevermind i'll tell you later"  :rofl: . No were Best friends,but i do flirt just a bit  :D,but i don't want her anympre

Anyways i was trapped,so are you,but there are those occasions when being in the friend zone gets you to her.
Now when i see a girl i want,i flirt with them all the time instead of listening to there stories and act like a freind.

I say ask her out,see what she says,and if you have that worry of being embarrased from being denied,remember everyone gets denied,thats how i am not embarrassed to ask girls out now,even if i know i'll get denied.. so take a shot bro.

Its about time you stop f**king provoking me and grow up. You complain about me making "useless topics" Shut up. You're the one whining and bad girling about them.
remove that before you get introuble.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Ragdoll on August 26, 2012, 12:26:38 am
He can do whatever the fuck he wants. It's a public forum.
Okay, two possibilities:
- The girl is all tits and no brains, and doesn't know how you feel, and thought you were joking.
- She knows how you feel, and doesn't feel the same way.

Forget about her Robby.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Ken_Rick on August 26, 2012, 12:28:36 am
SO Argonath is becoming relationship/drama place as well ? Nice to know...
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Ragdoll on August 26, 2012, 12:32:17 am
SO Argonath is becoming relationship/drama place as well ? Nice to know...
World of its own, anything goes.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Alsatian on August 26, 2012, 12:35:13 am
Yeah, you're stuck in the friendzone proper good there my friend. Give up now. I've been there before and to keep trying beyond this point is completely futile.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Dolfagr on August 26, 2012, 01:30:13 am
Ah, been there before (twice actually) !!. I understand how you feel pretty much. The best solution is to forget about her, for good.

And there's a difference between like and love. If you like her because she's Mrs. Sugarboobs, then you can find another one, but trust me you know when you LOVE someone.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: duffman on August 26, 2012, 02:29:10 am
I can't believe I'm watching this... I just can't..
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: cokeinmynose on August 26, 2012, 02:52:44 am
I would say, there are plenty of other girls in the world.
Find  another one :)
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Marcel on August 26, 2012, 02:53:31 am
To all the people that are posting negative replies to this topic:

We are a community. We have forums that allow people to post various stuff, including questions, thoughts, roleplay-related things and much more. This guy comes up with a valid request for some advice from his fellow people here in this very community. It was even posted in the Speakerbox, the forum section for things not necessarily related to the games and services provided by ArgonathRPG.

Why don't you guys try to help a fellow guy from this community? Why is it so hard to just empathize with him and help him with the things that are troubling him in his life? If you want to be a part of this community, act like it, and treat the OP like a fellow brother. He deserves it, just because he is a member of the community most of us value (at least, i do). Treat him with a little respect, and if you can't do that, please refrain from posting here, there are many more forum topics that might be something that you DO like posting in.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: memolito on August 26, 2012, 03:06:00 am
(http://i1248.photobucket.com/albums/hh489/Memolito/5017114_700b.jpg)
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Woka on August 26, 2012, 03:08:32 am
(http://i1248.photobucket.com/albums/hh489/Memolito/5017114_700b.jpg)

Now dats cold..
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Robby_Wilson on August 26, 2012, 03:14:50 am
To all the people that are posting negative replies to this topic:

We are a community. We have forums that allow people to post various stuff, including questions, thoughts, roleplay-related things and much more. This guy comes up with a valid request for some advice from his fellow people here in this very community. It was even posted in the Speakerbox, the forum section for things not necessarily related to the games and services provided by ArgonathRPG.

Why don't you guys try to help a fellow guy from this community? Why is it so hard to just empathize with him and help him with the things that are troubling him in his life? If you want to be a part of this community, act like it, and treat the OP like a fellow brother. He deserves it, just because he is a member of the community most of us value (at least, i do). Treat him with a little respect, and if you can't do that, please refrain from posting here, there are many more forum topics that might be something that you DO like posting in.

Thanks! <3
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Nathan on August 26, 2012, 03:16:51 am
Cease all contact with her, she doesn't view you in that way and at this point you are basically a girlfriend for her.
/thread

I was in the same situation for a year. Cease all contact with her and move on. That, sometimes, makes them jealous and makes things worse for her cause she realizes what she lost. :)
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Marcell on September 08, 2012, 01:10:33 am
maybe she ignores you cause you like looking at other mens' butts? :|
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Jubin on September 08, 2012, 12:37:45 pm
maybe she ignores you cause you like looking at other mens' butts? :|
What does playing American football as a quarterback has to do anything with his problem?
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Marcell on September 08, 2012, 12:44:01 pm
What does playing American football as a quarterback has to do anything with his problem?
Robbs stated he's bisexual before...
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Jubin on September 08, 2012, 12:46:33 pm
Robbs stated he's bisexual before...
My apologizes then. Although I still think it would be lesser problem than looking at other gals bums.
Title: Re: I need some relationship advice..
Post by: Heller on September 08, 2012, 01:04:55 pm
/thread

I was in the same situation for a year. Cease all contact with her and move on. That, sometimes, makes them jealous and makes things worse for her cause she realizes what she lost. :)

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