If you crash like this and are able to type and reconnect, then the fair thing to do is to surrender or let the cop know why you reconnect.
Instead, after you spawned you killed the cop. Does that seem fair to you if you look at it from the cops perspective?
EDIT: Don't get me wrong, I do believe you got stuck in the menu, I have personal experience on it from the past, but the way you handled the situation from there was just all sorts of wrong.