The group should not have to suffer from this mishap.
If it was up to me. I'd only give partial amount of cash to the family.
But Michael, you are being punished whilst banned, and if that means others have to suffer, they have to make do.
When I was kicked for being AFK in the middle of the road (someone rammed me there) I missed lotto's that I would've won!
Although you are trying to show your good side, It's not impressing anyone, because they feel if the administrators went along with it, it'd be abuse / unfair, but if your clan members are entitled to that money - perhaps you made an agreement, then they are entitled to it, just wait for admins response and don't feed the trolls (Ignore rude people).