What is love, friendship, trust, and popularity? really?

[Chris5170]

Love is such a strange, very strange thing. You have it or hear about it or think about it every day. And some ask why is love even useful, well how about the fact without the feeling of love, the population may not be here today as no one would like each other, and die out soon enough and just... no more. But some well.. some 'love' love. Especially when they have someone to share it with, whether it's their family, boyfriend or girlfriend, a pet, maybe some.. object of some sort such as a car, house, you know. But then you realize, ''What if no one likes me or i can never find that special person?'' ''What will i become in the future? Will i just die alone?'' ''no kids, no girlfriend/boyfriend, no family, no nothing, just me and my home i live in.''

Sadly, a lot of people have this problem and this is where it goes to popularity and unpopularity. Why do people always have to sit with other people? Well, sometimes it can be love, or just friendship. Somehow, i was lucky enough to be a 'popular' kid and am very thankful of that but i have never bragged about it, but I've always thanked god for what i have today and how my luck is. I wish i could give some of it to others and have them enjoy life, which is why i am the least 'popular' 'unpopular' person in my whole grade. I have 5-15 popular friends, and 5-15 unpopular friends, my life is also sadly hard as if i was unpopular because every day i have my less popular friends wanting to sit by me and my popular friends wanting to sit beside me and at that moment i just wish i was alone, no one around me, just me, myself, and that's it, because i'm like 'well my popular friends want to play with me, but so do my other friends'' and at that point i just begin to wonder how it's like being unpopular. I realize how hard it is and especially when your made fun of, which is sadly what my other popular friends do and i have never taken part in it.

One thing i've regretted in my life: i'm too soft, like if someone makes me angry i just let it go or just ignore it. Because i'm not going to get in trouble like everyone else when they have a fight, i just get over it and not start punching and such. I just ignore it as good as i can, or just go along with it and laugh. Which is mostly what i have to do to keep it cool or otherwise i'd end up like them. My life, as i see it has always been fairly good. I'm seperated very much from everyone else of who i know except for maybe 1 or 2 friends.  The one thing is, ''sure, i'm popular, nice, but does it really matter?'' Luckily unlike many other popular kids, i am smart. My last report i got ALL A's and nowhere near a B, infact, last year i was getting A's B's and C's, luckily somehow god has blessed me with the brains that i have today and somehow let me get A's, over the summer i barely did anything except play, no studying, no nothing. Just reading some books now and then, that's it. Somehow i've got the brains as if i went to summer school the whole summer. This is why i thank god for who I am, what i have, my brains, my friends, my family, everything. I love me, (not being any show-off or high self-asteem but you know what i'm getting to) And i've always had nice, fair parents. But they are the reason i am who i am today. Like i can not go home and tell my parents i got in a fight, if i do, i would be in huge trouble, other than being yelled at like my other popular friends who just, arn't that smart on their decisions, which is why I, myself wish god could make people on this planet and everything itself just be fair, not having to be made fun of, not being given the chance of dying any day any way, by anyone. I just can't take this stress so much and that is my no.1 problem, stress. I overreact to everything, like if i'm told that someone has somehow broke into my house i go crazy as if i've just been shot by an M4 thousands of times and I get so scared i can't get to sleep because I wonder, ''what if... they come again? and kill me?''

The one thing in life i've always thought of is being remembered, when i die i don't want to remembered as being popular, or cool, i want to be remembered for who i was and what I did. Like for example, i have helped many friends in their time of need before and have been very nice to them, and yet i'm treated like i'm mean, which is what i've never liked. If it wasn't for my smartness and my brains, i would be going crazy now and be an internet person 24/7 and such a big baby crying over everything. there's only one thing that really, really keeps me going and makes me so feel so much better, and that is the girl i like. We've known each other since kidnergarten and have had such a controversal friendship and such. Like i've never had the courage to just go 'ohai, we is go out now yarly?' kinda thing. I'd never see myself doing that, i don't she is like that too. That's why we've never really had the chance to go out, the best i can get to is talking to her and making jokes, really no further. Otherwise it's just.. 'blorgblorgblargh' and just yeah. Although throught my life there's been girls and boys telling me that we'd make a good couple but just, never tried it yet.


Alright, my story is over about 'love, trust, friendship, and popularity.'

how about yours?? (does not have to be as long as mine :0 )

[Hircine]

Take some psychedelic drug and then ask yourself these questions and I'm sure they'll be answered.

And also God (who I refer to as our creator and a higher being that's all) can't interact with the world. Anything that happens is caused by the world itself and the things in it.


But don't listen to me, maybe I'm crazy?

And also popularity is nothing, just chill with people you know and be yourself. Its not hard for me because I don't mess with everyone and am pretty much on good terms with most of the people I know.

[Matthew_Cipricla]

I got about half way through and was thinking to myself "Where is this going?". But then I read to the end and finally found out what your talking about. I think the only reason you would write this whole thing is because ofthat girl and your going through a phase. But if you want to get right down to the point: love, friendship, trust, and popularity are all social things. They all rely on other people for them to take place. And the other person is usually a crush, (girl).

You give her your love, compasion, you just feel right with her. You wouldnt do anything to hurt her. There is a driving cause to be with her. For some its her looks, for other her personality and moral charector. You want something more then just knowledge of each other, you want spirtual bonding.

But usually before love is friendship. The minor of the two. The first step is making each others acquaintances and it pretty much builds on that. You know that you two share common likes but not techinically abilitys.

Trust, it can happen between friends and a special girl. There are different levels of trust. You could trust a person with your MP3 players, and others with you life. You can only gain trust if you lend trust. There are also alot of things that can break trust like harsh words and lies. Be careful with trust, especially if its alot and an important task, for if you use it incorrectly, that person is as good as your enemy.

And then theres the ultimate want of humans. Popularity. Its an urge to be liked by people, and its not always easy to get. The human race is such a judgemrntal race, things such as: color of skin, name, looks, if you have glasses, if you have braces, and many others can but a barrier between you and social acceptance. There are also severe signs of people who have no social skills or life, such as depression, suicidal thoughts, and other strange habits like talking to themselves excessively. If only the whole world could be friends you might say. This is just simply impossible with peoples hate towards other peoples race and other personal traits. Its sad actually, and it seems there is no way to change it.

And im not trying to be offensive here but God is another way of people to have hope and get out of depression. They dont want to admin to themselves that there isnt a God, and death is eternal darkness. But who knows, maybe there is a God, its all based on opinion and religion. I know for sure that I hope there is a God. But like what is said in the Bible.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
 in all your ways acknowledge him, and he
will make your paths straight."

(Proverbs 3:5-6)

[Chris5170]

I got about half way through and was thinking to myself "Where is this going?". But then I read to the end and finally found out what your talking about. I think the only reason you would write this whole thing is because ofthat girl and your going through a phase. But if you want to get right down to the point: love, friendship, trust, and popularity are all social things. They all rely on other people for them to take place. And the other person is usually a crush, (girl).

You give her your love, compasion, you just feel right with her. You wouldnt do anything to hurt her. There is a driving cause to be with her. For some its her looks, for other her personality and moral charector. You want something more then just knowledge of each other, you want spirtual bonding.

But usually before love is friendship. The minor of the two. The first step is making each others acquaintances and it pretty much builds on that. You know that you two share common likes but not techinically abilitys.

Trust, it can happen between friends and a special girl. There are different levels of trust. You could trust a person with your MP3 players, and others with you life. You can only gain trust if you lend trust. There are also alot of things that can break trust like harsh words and lies. Be careful with trust, especially if its alot and an important task, for if you use it incorrectly, that person is as good as your enemy.

Naa not really but i just actually thought about it for an hour today about basicalyl everything i wrote and just yeah, but some parts are yes the girl lol