Just listen.

[Que]

Sad...sad, Traser I know how it is to, lose someone, you love hard.
You shouldnt share this here..its not worth it.

Yeah, my father died in cancer last year to. But this is not the place to "share" the story. You should talk to friends IRL about how you feel, and if they're good friends they'll support you and help you as much as they can. 

[Gandalf]

Traser, I am happy you shared this, and I disagree that this is not the place.

We might be just some guys who sit in cyberspace, but that does not mean we do not have feelings, or that we do not care for our 'virtual friends'.

It is hard to lose your mother, especially when she is young. On the other hand, you might be lucky that she did not suffer a very long time and probably had the chance to share all the wanted with whom she wanted.

Remember her from the good times when she was healthy, not from the hard times.
She will always be a part of you, and perhaps guide you though you might not notice.

We should all care about each other, not think that just because you did not ever meet someone in real life what is going on in theirs is not important. The internet age gives us a unique chance to meet people from all over the world and exchange opinions and feelings. By being honest about them and willing to share, you open up a new world of friends, and this might improve the world we live in.

[The_Wolf]

You see guys, instead of acting like assholes, you could ask what's the thing and what is going on, not just pointing some obvious things and being rude.
Good thing you posted this here Traser, I understand you.
Remember to always be strong and keep your head up.

[TruthSvensson]

You see guys, instead of acting like assholes, you could ask what's the thing and what is going on, not just pointing some obvious things and being rude.
Good thing you posted this here Traser, I understand you.
Remember to always be strong and keep your head up.

If he just post a song without telling other things people would think like '' Omg what is special with this song?! There is already a topic for songs already!'' and lead him to there. Nothing about rudeness

[Traser]

Traser, I am happy you shared this, and I disagree that this is not the place.

We might be just some guys who sit in cyberspace, but that does not mean we do not have feelings, or that we do not care for our 'virtual friends'.

It is hard to lose your mother, especially when she is young. On the other hand, you might be lucky that she did not suffer a very long time and probably had the chance to share all the wanted with whom she wanted.

Remember her from the good times when she was healthy, not from the hard times.
She will always be a part of you, and perhaps guide you though you might not notice.

We should all care about each other, not think that just because you did not ever meet someone in real life what is going on in theirs is not important. The internet age gives us a unique chance to meet people from all over the world and exchange opinions and feelings. By being honest about them and willing to share, you open up a new world of friends, and this might improve the world we live in.

Thank you for your reply, yeah i agree, but i am 16 now, and when i lost my mother i was 15.
So that was hard to .
And glad that you say that this is the good place to talk about it .

You see guys, instead of acting like assholes, you could ask what's the thing and what is going on, not just pointing some obvious things and being rude.
Good thing you posted this here Traser, I understand you.
Remember to always be strong and keep your head up.

The same .

I am happy that there are guys that understand what i am talking about, and feeling with me.
Thnx for that . i real appreciate it.

[Goodblue]

Traser, I am happy you shared this, and I disagree that this is not the place.

We might be just some guys who sit in cyberspace, but that does not mean we do not have feelings, or that we do not care for our 'virtual friends'.

It is hard to lose your mother, especially when she is young. On the other hand, you might be lucky that she did not suffer a very long time and probably had the chance to share all the wanted with whom she wanted.

Remember her from the good times when she was healthy, not from the hard times.
She will always be a part of you, and perhaps guide you though you might not notice.

We should all care about each other, not think that just because you did not ever meet someone in real life what is going on in theirs is not important. The internet age gives us a unique chance to meet people from all over the world and exchange opinions and feelings. By being honest about them and willing to share, you open up a new world of friends, and this might improve the world we live in.

Yea I agree.

I feel so sorry for you Traser I really do. Respect.

[Wash]

I will explain.

It was 13 September 2007.
I got heard my mother had cancer, My world Collapsed..
She got a Chemo and Laser Treatment ( i don`t know hot to call it)
For about 1 month.
After that we got a heavier shock, her whole head was full of tumors
At the beginning she had like 5 more years to live.
After that we heard her head was full of the tumors, she had 6 months to live.
In real life my life was at the lowest point, because i had a decease called "Pfeiffer"
So i was Exhausted all day, But i needed to go to school.

after 2 months, she had a BrainBlooding, ( idk ) So she couldn`t do anything.
She got transfered to the Hospital in "Tilburg", There the doctors couldn`t do anything about it.
She didn`t know what was happening, she had 1 % of here Seeing, so she was almost blind,
and she...
My mother was 49 Years old.. She died of cancer, of an Unknown sort.
She died after 2 days on heavy Sleeping Treatment.

As we know she didn`t felt Any pain.

This is why this song reminds me of that time.

Jolanda Tuinder, R.I.P 22 Nov 07:54, Tilburg.
She died at a Age of 49 years.

I understand how you feel. I know that EVERYTIME you think about it, you find it hard to stop yourself from flowing a river of tears. I know excactly how it feels. You just wish she was back, you just wish that you died rather then her, you want to hug her one more time. I also am glad you shared this, it will help you, believe me. Despite this, prove to everyone you are not a pussy. Don't listen to that song, it will bring you down everytime you listen to it. As Legend said, keep your head up and remember, you have your WHOLE life ahead of you and make sure to suceed in it.

[sinamun]

heard this like 2 years ago. my remix is cooler

[MasterNeo]

You see guys, instead of acting like assholes, you could ask what's the thing and what is going on, not just pointing some obvious things and being rude.
Good thing you posted this here Traser, I understand you.
Remember to always be strong and keep your head up.

And i understand both of you.your word really opened my eyes

[ChaNce]

I disagree with Gandalf,

Its very sad what happen with your mother, and I know you loved her more then everything on the world.
But seriously, when I lost someone, I talked to my best friends and family, they will tell you personally that life goes on, and your momma is above your head, watching every step you take, and she will lead you in your life.

You have to let your emotions out at your friends/family, the internet is just a first step, to write your soul off.

[Freedom]

Few years my grandma fell on the stairs, broke her leg, and a week later, she died because of infarct  
She was gonna go into the garden to clean it from branches and then she fell on the stairs (

[stiffler2100]

http://www.argonathrpg.eu/forum/index.php?topic=4334.0 use this topic?

fuck you man, with your fake mustache and wannabe rock ways, you ain't cool "metal for lyfe!!!" yeah duuude!!! Dick. Anyways, I feel for you, ignore people like that, think they're cool but they ain't, this is somewhere to share it, it's always better to get it out, and if you think argonath is a way to get it out, then use it. Sorry to hear about your losses.

 Flaming. One more time and a ban shall occur, please control your temper. -Vu4eCa

[TruthSvensson]

f**k you man, with your fake mustache and wannabe rock ways, you ain't cool "metal for lyfe!!!" yeah duuude!!! Dick. Anyways, I feel for you, ignore people like that, think they're cool but they ain't, this is somewhere to share it, it's always better to get it out, and if you think argonath is a way to get it out, then use it. Sorry to hear about your losses.

I didn't f**king know about his life so i thought he just posted a random song in a topic, stop f**king around
ps: He put his life story AFTER i posted that message

[Malcolm]

Really sorry to hear about this, I know the feeling of loosing someone. Try and keep your chin up will you? I know it's hard.

[Gandalf]

I disagree with Gandalf,

Its very sad what happen with your mother, and I know you loved her more then everything on the world.
But seriously, when I lost someone, I talked to my best friends and family, they will tell you personally that life goes on, and your momma is above your head, watching every step you take, and she will lead you in your life.

You have to let your emotions out at your friends/family, the internet is just a first step, to write your soul off.

Perhaps its you who has lost his soul, thinking of the internet as a place of strange people who do not care for anything or just have bad intentions.
Of course you talk to your friends and family, but there is nothing bad in regarding the people you play with almost daily as friends and share something of your life with them.