Relationship advice

[rJCaiG]

Well here's the story      a girl i know from school had recently caught my attention and i started to talk to her a lot at school and on msn too. We also did webcam every night for a few nights. Then she asked me who i liked and i said guess blah blah blah 2 days later she realises its her. I asked her if she was cool with it and she said yeah. Then i asked her what she would think back. She said...let me think and ill tell you later. That was yesterday and today she said, quote, "um can we just be friends 4 the moment?" is this her saying   "never in a million years" or "maybe we should get to know each other a bit first" ?  I'm not i hopeless lover, just never been rejected before lol...any advice appreciated. Thanks. After-thought...I might add that she said she really likes me but wasn't sure how much..lol

[Ehks]

Lol i got a problem with a girl to, im always too nervous to tell her that i love her :P...Lol xD but mine is easier anyway lets see whats are you going to type more ( Don't mind about me stick on the topic :P )

[BarbarSforza]

"never in a million years" or "maybe we should get to know each other a bit first" ?

Uhm... Both can be right...
If she's shy, than 1st variant aand if 2nd variant than... wait! 
Anyways, if need some help with girls, ask me.  :devroll:

[rJCaiG]

Lol, she's not really shy...to me anyway...i just dont know if its worth my time pursuing her or not haha

[Marc2984]

And what if she just want to be friends? You won't talk to her anymore?

Just give it some time, don't push too hard.

BTW, does she have an 18-year old sister?

[rJCaiG]

LOL marc...you're horny 24/7 i swear...and i meant i dunno if it's worth pursuing her as a girlfriend...of course i will still stay as her friend!                      I'm going to sleep now...well, going to try...its 12 30 am on a school night lol...cant get to sleep...

[Dexter]

If this girl need time i really suggest to give it to her. What i thihnk that too much pushing will just make her go more far from you. Ofcourse it will mess your head up to hide your feelings from her but at least it give time to her to think about how she feels about you. And all this thinking about do she likes you or not is hard, but hey who said that love is easy? If you find someone who can say that i am impressed.

[rJCaiG]

Well that's my plan - we agreed to just let things happen normally for a while...so hopefully i can get her trust and she might come to change her mind...but hey, only time will tell  going to sleep now, will check new replies as soon as i can....thanks again for your help guys

[Chuck_Norris]

most likely she means, that she has to get to know you a lil bit better.
i suggest not to try TO hard, it'll might scare her away
take on things slowely, on occasionally base, give her a hug

[Jubin]

Lol, she's not really shy...to me anyway...i just dont know if its worth my time pursuing her or not haha

I would say it isn't worth your time pursuing her. As you are in the friend-zone. Also, most of the time MSN is girlfriend-boyfriend relationship killer.

[Malcolm]

"Ooohh did I die and go to heaven?, because you look like an angel!" Say this and she is yours.

This is the most lame pick-up line ever, and will most likely get you slapped by any human-being.

[Marc2984]

But really, does she got a sister?

I think it's better if you to just act as friends, when you want more it might affect your behaviour.

[Claire]

Girls like a slow pace relationship. If you move too fast then they won't have time to think about it.
Girls are like piece of puzzle, they need one piece to place the next piece.
My advice is go on with slow pace, and get to know her first, like, in example, what she likes and what she doesn't like.
Maybe take her to movie sometime, just to get together, if not, bring some of her and your friends to gang out.

Good luck.

[Chuck_Norris]

Girls like a slow pace relationship. If you move too fast then they won't have time to think about it.
Girls are like piece of puzzle, they need one piece to place the next piece.
My advice is go on with slow pace, and get to know her first, like, in example, what she likes and what she doesn't like.
Maybe take her to movie sometime, just to get together, if not, bring some of her and your friends to gang out.

Good luck.

anyone got the manual for this puzzle?
seems like a puzzle of one million pieces ...

[BarbarSforza]

anyone got the manual for this puzzle?
seems like a puzzle of one million pieces ...

yeah