I have to say, Argonath has influenced me both in a bad way, and good way, depending.
When I was applying for FBI, both MTA:VC and SA:MP at the same time, I learned how to be more controlling of my language (cursing), and that Paitence is a virtue that every person should have to make it far day by day. I've also learned a good value of Teamwork, Friendship and Intergrity.
In a bad sense, it also taught me that life isn't worth waiting for, that you have to go out and grab it when you want it. Things are always going, so if you're not than its nothing worth doing anymore.
After I left FBI, was the worst impact on my life, because, as we ALL know, I probably lost a good hand of friends - but, loosing the friends never hurt me; I came on this server with no friends, gained friends on this server, and then left this server with probably a small handful of people I could trust, today, and even then I don't trust anybody. After I left FBI, there was this bad vibe I got from several people, especially with the way they were treating me I learned that I had a low span for people being an asshole to me. I've went many nights crying, because someone has overly reacted, or just attacked me in a way that was never worth it.
Anyway, and now that I've left the Argonath SA:MP server, most likely forever, I've realised that nobody can hurt me but the people I trusted the most. So, I guess, in all; I learned the following:
- People you trusted once are people you can't trust forever.
- Friends are only friends until you make one mistake.
- Teamwork is to only be trusted with the people you know will have your back in the future.
- Taking a break will make you realise the people you knew, are not the people you will know in the future.
- Leaving one thing in your life, will always make a new life.
- Friendship is only granted to those who can be trusted, and return trust.