Guys take the discussion out of Amy's topic.. she's new here no need to face the cruel reality already.. s: Let her stick around a little more.
Anyway, like some of the others players said Amy, do it your way, role play your character has you wish without being afraid of failing. If you need any kind of tip or help use the help chat in-game (/h) or PM a moderator (/admins ; /pm ID Message)
Have fun!