Argonath RPG - A World of its own
Argonath RPG Community => Speakerbox => Topic started by: EminemRulez on April 06, 2011, 10:31:18 pm
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After thinking about the subject, I've concluded that the title might be correct..
Discuss.
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If it was we wouldn't have that strange, good feeling when we see someone we like.
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Love is not a myth, however many people mix love with lust.
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Love is not a myth, however many people mix love with lust.
Sometimes it's even a contest.... People who only take someone for the intercourse is definatly not aware of actual love, even willing to be the youngest and first to say: "I'm not a virgin! "
Who or what they did it with, perhaps they forgotten already. No respect for the other side, That's what many people conclude out of the word 'love' nowadays.
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Love is something real. It may not be something you can touch or grab, but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. In times of loneliness and frustration, we may think, and even believe, that love is nothing more than a mental obsession from which we get pain and torture when we are emotionally hurt, but it is much more than that. Yes, love can cause great hurt and pain, both emotional and physical, but it is more than just an idea. When you experience it for real, you will immediately know that because you will feel it in your heart and in your mind. Just as Gandalf has said above, it can commonly be confused with lust, because the two are very similar, but you will know when you are in love, but you won't with lust. My advice to you is to move on and keep trying...keep believing, because one day you will find that special someone that is true to your heart, and you will experience this powerful feeling that you have desired for such a long time...
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Love is not a myth, however many people mix love with lust.
I agree with this statement, although some fall in the consuming delusion.
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Love is something real. It may not be something you can touch or grab, but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
That's quite paradoxic. How can something be real if we cannot feel, smell, see or hear it?
Love is a set of chemical reactions. The rest is you, or should I say your body's interpretation.
And its the best marketing trick ever.
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That's quite paradoxic. How can something be real if we cannot feel, smell, see or hear it?
Love is a set of chemical reactions. The rest is you, or should I say your body's interpretation.
Correct, which is a mental and emotional reaction, hence love.
How can something NOT be real if you cannot feel, smell, see, or hear it? You can't do any of those with Carbon Monoxide, yet it still exists. Go ahead. Go into a room where it is supposedly lingering in and tell me you don't believe in it when you start choking and pass out. ;)
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Correct, which is a mental and emotional reaction, hence love.
Its not "love". We just use that word to describe it, as all other feelings.
You can't do any of those with Carbon Monoxide, yet it still exists. Go ahead. Go into a room where it is supposedly lingering in and tell me you don't believe in it when you start choking and pass out. ;)
You have detectors for that mate. And for "love", you don't have them. It just hits you hard in the back when you don't expect it.
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I have the love for my 'dad' because i love him and shit.
But for me that 'love' with girls don't exist. I just know i miss her nothing much.
With chicks, i just want pussy and some kisses, the rest? I don't care i don't need love of girls :lol:
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But for me that 'love' with girls don't exist. I just know i miss her nothing much.
With chicks, i just want pussy and some kisses, the rest? I don't care i don't need love of girls
That is called lust. And its superficial, but ...
I want you to refer to the segment below:
I have the love for my 'dad' because i love him and shit.
How do you know you just don't want hugs from your dad. Or the need of support/shelter/food, gratitude for life or simply material goods(money, et cetera)?
You'd love your neighbor across the street the same if he was your dad, right? Ask yourself again, do you "love" your dad? Define this love.
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How do you know you just don't want hugs from your dad. Or the need of support/shelter/food, gratitude for life or simply material goods(money, et cetera)?
You'd love your neighbor across the street the same if he was your dad, right? Ask yourself again, do you "love" your dad? Define this love.
I'm with him since i born, my mother left me when i was a kid and now i grow up my dad care with me, i just can't imagine my life without him. It's not about the food, money, clothes. I work when i have holidays and all my clothes i buy with my money, tobacco and shit.
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I'm with him since i born, my mother left me when i was a kid and now i grow up my dad care with me, i just can't imagine my life without him. It's not about the food, money, clothes. I work when i have holidays and all my clothes i buy with my money, tobacco and shit.
So if a girl cared for you like your dad does, would you love her ?
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After thinking about the subject, I've concluded that the title might be correct..
Discuss.
How dare you conclude such bs about love bro. :D
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/lock.
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How did you conclude this?
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Love is the best thing on earth, some people haven't felt it yet.
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How could it be a myth if it is a feeling you have? we all should have experienced it at least once. It is a real thing, and thinking about the subject, I conclude that those who do not believe it have never felt it.
P.S. feeling as in feelings, not feeling as in touching.
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Love is the best thing on earth, some people haven't felt it yet.
Exactly. You can't discuss it if you haven't experienced it.
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Love is happiness.
The pursuit of happiness is life.
Love is life. It is the entire point of life.
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That's quite paradoxic. How can something be real if we cannot feel, smell, see or hear it?
Love is a set of chemical reactions. The rest is you, or should I say your body's interpretation.
And its the best marketing trick ever.
There are so many things in our body that are nearly impossible to be measured, yet it still exists. Love isn't an illusion at all, It is some form of reaction that takes place in your brain, to make you feel attracted to someone else. The hormones play a great role in these actions. We can't measure what we're thinking either, but still we think. We can't measure all the words we know, yet we know them. It's the miracle of the brain, and let's just be happy that things are this way.
Love is happiness.
The pursuit of happiness is life.
Love is life. It is the entire point of life.
I partly agree, yet the entire point of life is (to my opinion) the existance of our species.
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There are so many things in our body that are nearly impossible to be measured, yet it still exists. Love isn't an illusion at all, It is some form of reaction that takes place in your brain, to make you feel attracted to someone else. The hormones play a great role in these actions. We can't measure what we're thinking either, but still we think. We can't measure all the words we know, yet we know them. It's the miracle of the brain, and let's just be happy that things are this way.
RyanC:
Note that I never mentioned the word "measure". I said "interpretation".
Duffman:
If you had a mother your whole life you'd love her as much as your dad. So, to conclude, your love equals dedication and gratitude for shelter/care/security?
Looking at the Maslow's pyramid your dad satisfies all(most of) your wishes, so you, as an entity owe him something. Tho, you cannot explain it, you interpret it as love/connection. What would happen if your father ignored you but was with you, your whole life? Still, you'd have some sort of unexplained gratitude for his presence.
Cofiliano's video:
What? relevance?
Squeak:
What?
Please stay on topic.
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Love is happiness.
The pursuit of happiness is life.
Love is life. It is the entire point of life.
Love is happiness.
Happiness isn't love.
Your statement is invalid.
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After thinking about the subject, I've concluded that the title might be correct.. Discuss.
Very good question... The thing is, that people do put in the meaning of "LOVE" word so many reactions that nobody already knows what is love...
Still...
Love is when you are ready to sacrifice for the life of others... It is the main and non-beatable criteria of Love...
All those "I cannot imagine life without him/her" habits or "I want to have a f**k with her/him, oh, thats love" or whatever - does not count...
If you cannot up your ass to protect her/him even by your own risk - you do not love him/her does not matter how many times a day you were f**king each other...
If you cannot sacrifice some of your habits and dreams for him/her - you do not love, does not matter how romantic you smile and how strong are your hugs...
So yeah, in the meaning people put (habit being near, egoistic wishes being served, sex, living together, having children from him, happiness, gods, whatever - Love is a myth...
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Very good question... The thing is, that people do put in the meaning of "LOVE" word so many reactions that nobody already knows what is love...
Still...
Love is when you are ready to sacrifice for the life of others... It is the main and non-beatable criteria of Love...
All those "I cannot imagine life without him/her" habits or "I want to have a f**k with her/him, oh, thats love" or whatever - does not count...
If you cannot up your ass to protect her/him even by your own risk - you do not love him/her does not matter how many times a day you were f**king each other...
If you cannot sacrifice some of your habits and dreams for him/her - you do not love, does not matter how romantic you smile and how strong are your hugs...
So yeah, in the meaning people put (habit being near, egoistic wishes being served, sex, living together, having children from him, happiness, gods, whatever - Love is a myth...
Quoted for truth. I agree completely.
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one day u will see ur Child get borned in that moment u will know Love exisst if u cant feel it before
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one day u will see ur Child get borned in that moment u will know Love exisst if u cant feel it before
BTW (and medics warn about it) feeling of love to the borned child usually comes after several days/weeks and even can take months...
As first times you are afraid of everything... Especially if you are new...
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BTW (and medics warn about it) feeling of love to the borned child usually comes after several days/weeks and even can take months...
As first times you are afraid of everything... Especially if you are new...
btw i felt it from start and yes it was scary also :)
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Anyone questioning their sexuality favor when talking about this subject?
Faggots
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Love is when you are ready to sacrifice for the life of others... It is the main and non-beatable criteria of Love...
QFT.
Happiness isn't love.
Yes it is.
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Anyone questioning their sexuality favor when talking about this subject?
bad guys
What? It's what most people think.
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Love is when you are ready to sacrifice for the life of others...
Good quote.
Might I just add that the sacrifice we're talking about are not a bullet in the brain, a push in front of a driving vehicle or a save from choking while having lunch.
Its everything. Every situation in life requires a sacrifice of a sort, every decision needs a sacrifice. That means, totally letting yourself to another person.
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Rejection.
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Good quote.
Might I just add that the sacrifice we're talking about are not a bullet in the brain, a push in front of a driving vehicle or a save from choking while having lunch.
Its everything. Every situation in life requires a sacrifice of a sort, every decision needs a sacrifice. That means, totally letting yourself to another person.
Well, we live for the other one, so sacrifice should come out naturally.
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So if a girl cared for you like your dad does, would you love her ?
I'm sure that will never happen.
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I'm sure that will never happen.
You haven't even turned twenty.
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I've had experienced real love before, from both sides. The feeling I had back then is definatly not an illusion..
Only such a damn shame the girl moved away to another province. :neutral:
The actual shame, and the thing I have difficulties with is that many people try to get a girl to be 'cool' and for the fun. What happens after, nobody thinks about it. I can't say i'm immune to all these appeareances like Lady Gaga and such either, but the simple truth is that they're playing on every fan of hers by undressing her, to get more sales. How sick is that. She is using the lust of people to make more sales... That's how the world of the human rotates.
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I've had experienced real love before, from both sides. The feeling I had back then is definatly not an illusion..
Only such a damn shame the girl moved away to another province. :neutral:
Ryan, if that would be real love the boards of provinces would not be an obstacle...
It is just people mix comfort and love...
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Ryan, if that would be real love the boards of provinces would not be an obstacle...
It is just people mix comfort and love...
The problem is that it happened ages ago, I was way younger and parents are not really happy when you want to travel half the country for that. We lost each other in touch over time.
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Ryan, if that would be real love the boards of provinces would not be an obstacle...
Exactly.
I got a friend of mine, she got a boyfriend living in Switzerland, and she's living in Sweden. For them, there's no issue.
They only meet at the summers and some weekends. Both are studying hard and they've been together for five years.
A very truthfully quote from herself: "Distance is not a problem, if it's love that you're feeling."
That's what I call real love and I really admire their work to keep the relationship together with such distance from each other.
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I lol'd at this topic.
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I figure then, Altair, that you haven't experienced it yet?
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I figure then, Altair, that you haven't experienced it yet?
I figured that the name of this topic is plain bullshit, that's why I'm laughing.
So to speak, who the f**k thought of love as a myth. Except for nolifers, everybody has it/had it. To compare, it's the same thing as stating "Is god nothing but a myth?" IMO.
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Despite the saying "God is love", the presence of love is easier felt by humans than that of God. While those who don't believe in love are usually bitter or rejected people, even atheists can be loving and caring persons.
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Despite the saying "God is love", the presence of love is easier felt by humans than that of God. While those who don't believe in love are usually bitter or rejected people, even atheists can be loving and caring persons.
Agreed.
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I've never loved anyone, I don't think I ever will either.
Sure, I might get a partner, but I doubt I will love said person. I might say I do, but I probably wont mean it.
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Just out of curiocity, how old are you so you came to this conclusion?
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Love is happiness.
Love ain't happiness, well at least for me so far all it brought is trouble during the 3 past years and still is bringing more...
Anyway yeah love does exist, some just doesn't know it yet till they experience it.
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I've never loved anyone, I don't think I ever will either.
Sure, I might get a partner, but I doubt I will love said person. I might say I do, but I probably wont mean it.
Love comes silently. It sneaks up on you.
If you think you'll fall in love with someone by being with her for some time, you're wrong. That's the American movie crap they "feed" you with.
It takes ages and ages to start loving someone. Every action/move she makes, every word she says, you have to adore it to feel it. You won't love her your whole marriage, but one day, you'll just wake up and see you have 10 year relationship with her. You'll realize that you love her. Why? Only you will know.
Love is not universal.
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Love comes silently. It sneaks up on you.
If you think you'll fall in love with someone by being with her for some time, you're wrong. That's the American movie crap they "feed" you with.
It takes ages and ages to start loving someone. Every action/move she makes, every word she says, you have to adore it to feel it. You won't love her your whole marriage, but one day, you'll just wake up and see you have 10 year relationship with her. You'll realize that you love her. Why? Only you will know.
Love is not universal.
Love can also sneak upon you the first time you ever meet each other.
It's doesn't happen too often, but it's not abnormally if it does.
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Love can also sneak upon you the first time you ever meet each other.
It's doesn't happen too often, but it's not abnormally if it does.
You mix two very different terms mate. Infatuation and love.
I'll leave the rest to your imagination.
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Infatuation is where it all starts. So it's simply related to love to its fullest.
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Infatuation is where it all starts. So it's simply related to love to its fullest.
Infatuation is just a physical reaction. Love, is equivalent to tolerance.
It(Infatuation) bursts easily. Love is born by a totally opposite reaction. Difference.
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To compare, it's the same thing as stating "Is god nothing but a myth?" IMO.
God is nothing but a myth, yes, but as you said in your own post love is not, so frankly the point of your post was confusing to understand.
Love ain't happiness, well at least for me so far all it brought is trouble during the 3 past years and still is bringing more...
That doesn't mean love isn't happiness.
As a simple example, take the situation of someone trying to do a skateboarding trick. The trick is going to be really great, but along the way they're going to hurt themselves bailing as they try to do it right.
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On second thought.
If I ever have a kid, I guess I'll love it.
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Infatuation is just a physical reaction. Love, is equivalent to tolerance.
It(Infatuation) bursts easily. Love is born by a totally opposite reaction. Difference.
It depends how you define infatuation.
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It depends how you define infatuation.
There is one true love. On the other hand, there are thousands of infatuations.
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There is no "love from first sight" - it's just what you say to little kids when you talk about sexual arousal. Love is a feeling that grows with time.
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There is no "love from first sight" - it's just what you say to little kids when you talk about sexual arousal. Love is a feeling that grows with time.
Yeah, well.
I guess you got me there. But my solid point was that love does not have to take a year, a month. It can easily go faster than that, it totally depends how intimate your personalities is to each other. The true love in your life is also your soul mate from the bottom if her/his heart.
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I've never loved anyone, I don't think I ever will either.
Sure, I might get a partner, but I doubt I will love said person. I might say I do, but I probably won't mean it.
I sincerely concur.
Women are too stupid to level up with me anyway..
Forever alone, that will be.
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I've never loved anyone, I don't think I ever will either.
Sure, I might get a partner, but I doubt I will love said person. I might say I do, but I probably wont mean it.
The total majority of people never loved and never will be - it is absolutely normal...
That is why this majority exchanges the meaning of Love to other feelings, mixing it with habits and likes/dislikes, sexual wishes...
So its ok...
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Spread the love... it's all we need.
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