Argonath: Thats the problem with me.

[Cyd Parker]

Hey there,
Hello guys many of you might know me and those who don't my in-game name is: Michael_Lorenzo.. Actually when we see posts in Welcome! board of how they joined game and met a guy who taught them how to play and after a short span of time they became friends.. Thats what I hear from maximum people. But,I don't have anything like that.
- Maybe I'm an alien for them.
- Maybe I'm boring.
I don't really know what it is. I've been playing from three years and each day I log in with a hope of meeting a guy who will accept me in the way I'm and we both can have fun, We both can spend time playing together and when we grow up we still have a place for him/her in our heart. But unfortunately I haven't got any till now. I made some friends in past but our friendship ended with:
-They treated me like their slave or.
-They scammed me.
I'm still in a hope of getting a friend each day and each second..The day would be wonderful when I'll have a friend 'a true friend'. Actually,Some people may find this post terrible but ye my mind told me to share my story. Ye I maybe immature for some people but ye I'm just 16 years. You can't expect many things from me.
Note:I think this is a perfect board for this topic if it isn't then moderators are requested to shift it in the perfect board.

[Cyd Parker]

Hey there,
Hello guys many of you might know me and those who don't my in-game name is: Michael_Lorenzo.. Actually when we see posts in Welcome! board of how they joined game and met a guy who taught them how to play and after a short span of time they became friends.. Thats what I hear from maximum people. But,I don't have anything like that.
- Maybe I'm an alien for them.
- Maybe I'm boring.
I don't really know what it is. I've been playing from three years and each day I log in with a hope of meeting a guy who will accept me in the way I'm and we both can have fun, We both can spend time playing together and when we grow up we still have a place for him/her in our heart. But unfortunately I haven't got any till now. I made some friends in past but our friendship ended with:
-They treated me like their slave or.
-They scammed me.
I'm still in a hope of getting a friend each day and each second..The day would be wonderful when I'll have a friend 'a true friend'. Actually,Some people may find this post terrible but ye my mind told me to share my story. Ye I maybe immature for some people but ye I'm just 16 years. You can't expect many things from me.
Note:I think this is a perfect board for this topic if it isn't then moderators are requested to shift it in the perfect board.

I don't have a group which you people call 'My Argonath Family'

[Cyd Parker]

I prefer people to leave a tip/suggestion for me. So that I can improve myself maybe that will work.,

[Bruce.]

Start by changing that ugly forum avatar.
Stop lying people about your age on different applications.
If you don't trust other yourself, don't expect others to trust you.
Good enough as a start?

[Khm]

Don't lie and scam people.
You don't need friends to live.

[Reasy]

Hey Michael, I guess you have many friends, I thought I am one of them too, I also do not see anything wrong in "the way you are", you are a good chap, I got to know you not so long ago, but I can say that you are a friendly guy, you can also consider me as your true friend, I am available to spend some good time with you at any moment if that helps too, but yeah, you may also take on Bruce's advices, we understand that sometimes you happen to hide a certain thing just for your own good, but you do have to know that this way you build up a tacky and a bad stereotype on yourself. So yeah, strike up my PM whenever you need me.

[Shultz]

Start by changing that ugly forum avatar.
Stop lying people about your age on different applications.
If you don't trust other yourself, don't expect others to trust you.
Good enough as a start?

  Best advice.

[Pokedude]

I thought I was your friend but I guess I was wrong. Anyways, I can only advice that you should stay strong and not act weak otherwise you will be easy to make a fool out of

[Matt Murdock]

Hi,

Your first and foremost problem is, you looking for acceptance.

Heck man, you can't accept yourself, why should ANYONE accept you? Now I am not sure how many people know you personally, neither do I. But what I know is you keep posting a different age, in different places, different country in different apps. Why can't you just be real for once?

I'm just 16 years.

Nobody here gives a shit if you are 16, 14, 13, or 11. Nobody really has the time to judge you or hate you based on your country, your real name or age. And if they really do so, they need to look at themselves first. Argonath is the least discriminating community you will find anywhere (except for the usual Sforza, Corleone, Gvardia shit).

It all comes down to behaviour, stop ass-licking. Stop being annoying, and STOP trying to fit in. Each and every being is unique, you are not alone.

You want to initiate a conversation with people? Try being interesting, you are young and you need guidance and here's the best tip.

- Stop asking people "how are you?"
Because trust me, I get over 20 phone calls and 100s of emails every single day asking the same thing, some of them from family(and majority from someone looking to sell me something) and I ignore them because conversation is usually like "How are you, what did you eat, what are you doing" are you fucking kidding me? How long do you think such conversations can last? Barely minutes then you are bored, and the other person keeps repeating that and then you get bored with the person.

If you wish to approach someone you need to learn to have intriguing conversations and hold them. Curiosity killed the cat, it can also grab attention of any person. Ask them "what's up" , try to find people with similar interests, in movies, automobile, gaming and such. Argonath has 100s of players and I find it hard to believe you cannot find someone who's involved in things you like, when I found an entire family that I am connected to on FB, WhatsApp and even Instagram.

A person is more likely to answer "Hey, did you see the new Fast and Furious?" than "How are you?"

- Stop asking people to RP with you, on a RP server.
Just go to them, and interact! Introduce yourself in a RP fashion instead of private messages. If they drive away, well they are busy and not worth your time. However, most people would stay and initiate an action.

If people find you annoying, its an image you created for yourself, and only you can change it.

and please stop being offended when people ignore you, including me. I have a habit of ignoring people unless they bring something new to the table, don't take it personal.

In the end :

[Cyd Parker]

Thanks people I'm not offended BTW.. And ye I'm 16 anyhow(Check my Birthday was on 29th of March.. I'll bring the change...Won't piss for 'No reason' and thanks Kyle,iKhm,Alfred and Bruce .... Pokedude ye we're friends but never met ya IG

[Pizza4_Games]

Chill out fool, this aint real life and it aint the only community. You good, dog. Wassup homie 

[Kimya.]

Hey man,

Do you have the real friends in your life? do you even have one?

If yes, then why do you even care for a game? because you need a friend who you roll\laugh\rp\talk with? are you looking for a friend whom you share your problems\opinions\interests with?

There are shitloads of people on this community which you can do these things with.

Why do you need a good friend on this community while you can get one IRL ?

-no, i'm not talking about real life, i'm talking about the game.

Well, on this community nobody cares where u came from\ur age\ ur skin \ rich? \ poor? ...etc

All they care for is your personality , your maturity and your honesty .

Don't be fake, don't try to be one ..

Join any group and you would find at least that one friend who you can play\laugh\..etc with .

Beer in mind that you won't find a good friend in one, two \ three days .. maybe not even a month .

It takes months to build that friendship with someone, and you must becareful when building it.

build it on honesty and maturity .. find what interests him and talk with him about it, show that you care for what he does or his problems .. overpass the conflicts, help him when he is in trouble, and at the end you will get that in return.

And more and more we could say and talk about in this part.

The thing is that i don't find it a big problem, it's not something you should worry about.

You here came to have fun and enjoy your time with other people on the server .. You don't have to worry about it, just go interact with others, try to join any clan\group and spend your time with the people in that group\clan .. By time you will find that you have one or two friends which you pass your time with in game and have fun.

I must admit that i don't really see it important to have a real friend on this server, i care more for my real friends in real life.

Just find someone who you spend\enjoy your time with and that's all, and you will definitely find one.

build it on honesty and maturity .. find what interests him and talk with him about it, show that you care for what he does or his problems .. overpass the conflicts, help him when he is in trouble, and at the end you will get that in return.

And more and more we could say and talk about in this part.

Regarding that part, that's how you could find a real friend in real life, and as i said there is more to talk about in this part.

You don't have to be a legend and narrate your story when leaving this server, remember why you are here .. to have fun with people and enjoy this game.

@Matt Murdock .. I just have one thing in mind to tell you, people who pm u "how areu" "how is it going" .. they do that because they care for you, or atleast want to show that .. it's something people do to show\express that they care for you, it's something we actually do more in real life and it's very very important .. perhaps you don't see that and think otherwise .. but it's maybe because life is all about a point of view, how you look into life and it's matters . (perhaps i got your words wrong, maybe a misunderstanding and u mean something else by ur words or a specific situation )

[Lincoln.]

Here's the issue, my friend:


I met you - you were a complete noob. You contacted me when I was leading 15-20 active Lucianos IG and wanted to join, I've let you join immediately when I saw that you have potential and that you can learn fast. Then, not even 2 days after you kept talking shit about others, trying to bring them down so you can be 'better' in my eyes. You bothered not only me but everyone around about promotion, AFTER 2 DAYS.

Then you left but we stayed friends. You used my IRL last name as your IG last name. And I had nothing against that, it was funny to me. Then you kept being bothered by so many minor things such as "He is acting a boss to me, omg I can't stand this anymore, solve it or I'm leaving". Then you opened a bar, I came with 15-20 people to make a good RP out of it. All you cared about is money from the entry fees and you kept asking me to come, on daily basis.

Then you got killed several times by some of our enemies, then we adopted you back to the family but you decided to be tagless. Alright, cool to me. But then you turned your back to us in less than 5 days and started hanging out with our enemies, but you wanted to be neutral to us. So you were pretty much running between two sides like a fucking clown not being involved into anything but just stood there. One of my guys shot you because they saw you with our enemies, you annoyed me in PM that I had to set it off.

You also added me on Instagram, I've let you do it so you can communicate with me, I really wanted to be your friend and help you out with everything. I even explained you what are your mistakes, immature acts, etc... And you used the god damn Instagram to like my every single picture from 2 years ago till today. You bothered me with some stupid stuff via Instagram direct messaging, not even related to the game nor real life issues. You were just annoying me because and that's when I decided to block you there and go against you IG.

Now cut the crap. All of that is past, but I dare you to say anything more about this community in this context, I double dare you motherfucker. You may see it as toxic, corrupt or whatever you want, but don't you ever say that you can't make friends here. This is the place where people will start liking you after one RP interaction, no matter if they're your enemies or just some random people.

I've made a lot of friends simply because every single player in this community, no matter how ignorant they might be, care about respect in one way or another. For fucks sake, I gifted you a vehicle (Sunrise) to show you that I'm willing to be your friend and that I'm ready to forget the past and simply hope that you'll become better and realize that all starts from YOU. Your attitude and HONESTY towards others reflects on their attitude towards you.

So first of all, work on yourself and be honest with people. I've started playing when I was 13 or 14 I don't really know and I knew maximum 3 words of English. And I made friends. I made more enemies because of my stupidity but I had made also a lot of friends who knew I was honest and were ready to help me, and most importantly I was ready to accept their help.

For example, the respect I have for Cofiliano started when I was introduced to him by a mutual friend and he gave me 20 bullets of combat. Ey, 20 fucking bullets of combat which were worth maybe 30$ back then. Then things moved on and I wasn't bothering anyone and was simply listening to what they have to say and decided to stick to them. I've learned a lot of stuff which I use both IRL and IG (English, Business skills etc - IRL). I wasn't being a bitch of Corleone/Marlen and Gvardia/Ancelotti at the same time, that would bury me just like you buried yourself as you were seen a little bitch who isn't trustworthy and loyal.


Now if any of this helped, I'm glad. If not, it might help someone else, but I'm warning you nicely not to talk shit about Argonath community in this context.

Thanks and good luck.

[Kimya.]

I now understand the problem .. it's unfortunately him.

Work on yourself buddy, if you don't do good to people, people won't do good to you .. it's obvious.

I hope you read the posts and learn something from it and start from now on, if you do really need friends here.

[Lincoln.]

I now understand the problem .. it's unfortunately him.

Work on yourself buddy, if you don't do good to people, people won't do good to you .. it's obvious.

I hope you read the posts and learn something from it and start from now on, if you do really need friends here.

I hope I covered everything with examples, let's see if it will help him understand and change himself.