I lost my grandfather

[Dabangg]

I also lost my dadu, in english (My Grandfather) before 5 months, he was so honest and truthful. I can never forget him ever. I will pray for your grand father.

[Nadim Jones]

Mikee :'c my condolences :c god loves hard workers but thats life :/ takes things that we love :c

[Cyclone]

Also, god picked one life from us and gave us two more! My elder sister is pregnant and my aunt's daughter had a baby like 2 months ago.

[Eternal_007]

Losing someone precious from your lives is a great tragedy. The pain itself is very intense but what can we complain.
Everyone has to die one day or another, its just life around here.
May his soul rest in eternal peace.

[Lionel Valdes]

I'm sorry for your loss, Raptor

[Bennzy]

Rest in peace.

[Cyclone]

I came back from his funeral, I couldn't cry, I did now.

[Bogomil]

I remember when I lost my grandfather, I didn't cry at the funeral, but when I tried to sleep I was falling apart. We were really close. He lived in our village house and one day before we had to go pick him up from there - he passed away. Sudden death can't be forgotten. So many friends of mine died in car crashes out of nothing. It's almost 10 years since my grandfather passed away and I still sometimes feel the pain.
My condolences.

[Cyclone]

It's hard. Believe me.

[AnoneteX]

Damn, I lost my grandpa last summer. The tears of pain will disappear as time passes and after years when you think about him and the memories of him there might be tears, but let those be from being proud that you have known this person and had the chance to be his grandson, because I can see you truly loved him.
 
There is one quote I really like "For every dark night there's a brighter day."

[AlarbaS]

I'm sorry for your loss man, may his soul rest in peace!

[Huntsman]

I was never really close with my relatives, other than my parents and my grandmother from my mothers side. My family situation is complicated, let's leave it at that.

That particular grandmother was an extraordinary human being. She had lots to complain about: she had constant heart issues and suffered from several heart diseases, and most recently had a very quickly deteriorating eye sight, to the point where she had to wear two pairs of glasses to watch the TV show she loved. The doctors said they can only slow down the proccess, and eventually stop it, but can no longer reverse the damage done by the eye disease as she went to the doctors too late. Yet, never ever when we met would we ever hear her complain about a single thing. Complaining is a thing in my family, especially from my fathers side. It seems to be a running thing, hence I never liked anyone there. Everybody just fucking complains and whines all the time as if that was all they had to do with their lives. My grandma from my mothers side was different. When we went to visit her, she always just enjoyed the fact we were together, rather than burdening us with her problems. Which was not always good.


Her last visit to the emergency room was when she had a consistent chest pain, yet refused to call an ambulance for three days. My mother had called her to ask how she was, and she mentioned having had chest pain, yet didn't call an ambulance, so my mother called it for her. She was in a hospital (like many times before, to be frank), and I had visited her after a week to see how she was doing. She was recovering, had regained her charm and seemed perfectly healthy again. Yet, on the same evening as I returned home, we received a call that she died.

Now I was never much of a person to show emotion. Yet this time was completely different. My grandmother was one of the very few people that I liked from my relatives, and now she was gone. I hated negativity, and she was the source of positivity in my life. It was hard.

So, I know what it's like. But those emotions will pass with time. There really is nothing you can do but let time heal the wounds.


My situation is also similar in a way that my sister gave birth to a child a week before my grandmother passed. God works in mysterious ways, they say, even though I am not really religious.

[Cyclone]

My grandpa always asked me,

"Do you love your grandma more or me?"

I would always answer

"Both"

Wish I could get him to ask me that question once again. I couldn't even say goodbye to him. They didn't let me go to the graveyard with my parents but I secretly got help from a family friend and went there.

[Kowalski.]

My grandfather passed away in 1992 or so, at least 13 years before I was born. I never got to meet him, and I didn't cry when my grandma died, though I was rather shocked. The one lucky thing was that I was there, on vacation.

I miss my grandmother and I wish I'd got to know her better, but I've also experienced the loss of my cousin and maternal uncle, both young. I was feeling down, that day at school, it was difficult to focus and I really didn't want to study that day.

I still miss them dearly, but I get how you feel, Mike. My condolences and I'm sure he's in a better place now.

I was never really close with my relatives, other than my parents and my grandmother from my mothers side. My family situation is complicated, let's leave it at that.

That particular grandmother was an extraordinary human being. She had lots to complain about: she had constant heart issues and suffered from several heart diseases, and most recently had a very quickly deteriorating eye sight, to the point where she had to wear two pairs of glasses to watch the TV show she loved. The doctors said they can only slow down the proccess, and eventually stop it, but can no longer reverse the damage done by the eye disease as she went to the doctors too late. Yet, never ever when we met would we ever hear her complain about a single thing. Complaining is a thing in my family, especially from my fathers side. It seems to be a running thing, hence I never liked anyone there. Everybody just fucking complains and whines all the time as if that was all they had to do with their lives. My grandma from my mothers side was different. When we went to visit her, she always just enjoyed the fact we were together, rather than burdening us with her problems. Which was not always good.


Her last visit to the emergency room was when she had a consistent chest pain, yet refused to call an ambulance for three days. My mother had called her to ask how she was, and she mentioned having had chest pain, yet didn't call an ambulance, so my mother called it for her. She was in a hospital (like many times before, to be frank), and I had visited her after a week to see how she was doing. She was recovering, had regained her charm and seemed perfectly healthy again. Yet, on the same evening as I returned home, we received a call that she died.

Now I was never much of a person to show emotion. Yet this time was completely different. My grandmother was one of the very few people that I liked from my relatives, and now she was gone. I hated negativity, and she was the source of positivity in my life. It was hard.

So, I know what it's like. But those emotions will pass with time. There really is nothing you can do but let time heal the wounds.


My situation is also similar in a way that my sister gave birth to a child a week before my grandmother passed. God works in mysterious ways, they say, even though I am not really religious.

I'm sorry to hear that, Huntsman. Hope she rests in peace.

They didn't let me go to the graveyard with my parents but I secretly got help from a family friend and went there.

Why not?! 

[Brad_]

Damn sad, good luck in your future endeavors. When I played in another server (You know which one)  my character lost his grandfather too, so I can feel you're pain..

So, I know what it's like. But those emotions will pass with time. There really is nothing you can do but let time heal the wounds.

Good advice, kid