I need help..

[Chase]

School is a b****.. I hope all the kids who pick of me get shot in the knee caps then executed.. I'm broke and my parents are having to work their ass off just to get food on the table.. Thank you very friggin much George W Bush . Every time I go to school, my nerves are a wreck.. I don't see my psychiatrist too often.. because of course my parents are working all the damn time. Next time someone does something to me at school - They are gonna get a broken nose and a few broken ribs.. All I do all day is sit on the computer and play argo, and I never get out of the house.. so I have no life. I take things so seriously.. one time something bad happened on argo.. I cut a cross on top of my hand. I am a screwed in the head and I know it..

If I didn't care about my family as much as I do.. I would literally kill myself in front of those brat kids..

Please tell me what I should do to clear my head and not have a lot of weight on me..

[Dmitry]

One of my friends would say: "Just don't give a fuck!" .
But, he is wrong.

Well, kids are picking you? bullin' around?
I had a bully problem too...
So I started to work out (Not in gym, at home at anything i can grow my muscles on.. be creative ), and then if someone tried to fuck with me I just broke his face, it happened twice or three time, and I've got rid of that problem.

About "I have no life"...
You can only try get some friends from you're school, If you like sports, and you good at some, or at something (I'm sure you are), just go and try t show it.
Whoever likes it, will be interested, and probably become yo're friend, whoever doesn't, then he can fuck off.

If you need my help or jsut some1 to talk to, I'm on MSN, alot: [email protected]

[rJCaiG]

mmmmmmm
i had this problem 4 years ago..nobody liked me, all i had was 2-3 friends...what did i do when people picked on me called me names etc? whatever, i don't care. then i just stopped being so annoying, started to learn to get along better, and voila...popular now...
if it gets physical, call the cops..nobody will mess with you again 

[Alsatian]

Well, I wouldnt get teachers or cops involved, cause in England you'd be called a snitch and the problems gets worse, but just try to go out with your friends, have a good time, stay away from those jerks.

If the problems pursue and pursue, then I'd say its the time to tell someone about it, cause it ain't nice to be bullied, my brother got bullied at school for a while, came home crying.

And chase, if you ever gets angry, cutting a cross on your forehead to me seems like a bad idea, what I do if I ever gets MEGA angry is get a stress ball and squeeze tha fack out of it 

[blanc_fede]

Chase, my life is basically the same as you.

You need to tell someone what is hapening to you, I know that is hard to say it but if you don`t you will explode with a MEGA angry feeling and bad things will hapen. It has hapen to me. Try to don`t meet with that people who anoy/bother you. Meet and sorruound your self with people who you feel that are good people and, of course, who doesn`t bother/anoy you.
Fight is the key to bad things, because if some day you hit that kids that you hate, You can get kicked from your school, friends of them can hit you.

I wish you good luck, and you can do it. If posible visit a psychologist.

Your friend,

Blanc Federico

[Merc]

how would you feel if he commited suicide over this post? show some sympathy, just because you might not be experiencing the same problems as him does not mean you can tell him to deal with it. he came to us for help, give it or leave.
-giacjr

[Watahell]

how would you feel if he commited suicide over this post? show some sympathy, just because you might not be experiencing the same problems as him does not mean you can tell him to deal with it. he came to us for help, give it or leave.
-giacjr

Then why the hell are you posting here? If you don't have anything constructive to say, please don't say it at all.
This is a community, I suppose we can help each other in times of need...

Cmon Chase, you're better than these guys and you know it. But, can you tell me how exactly they pick on you? is it
physical agression or verbal? How? Then I might know how to help.

[JDC]

My life is the same as Chase's and Blanc's.

On days when I dont have any School, I just sit in front of my PC and play Argonath for up to 16 hours in a row. Also, I frequently get picked on at school. However, one time I bit a bully's arm til I nearly ripped some of the skin off (nasty flavor... DONT try it) and I gave another one a neat little facelift by punching him in the nose.

 And now, im quite happy with my life, I dont care if people such as my mom think of me as "useless and isolated in a world of his own" because it aint true anyway, I help other people and make friends on Argonath, even if it's a Game. Sure, its a game, with real live people. Just have fun, and increase your RP abilities. Like me, I have fun doing my FBI job, shooting down cows (cows = people who eat weed / grass ), saving abused suspects if the admins are unvailable, RPing with my friends, etc.

If you need to relax, go to some elevated place during a clear night (I do it on top of my roof since theres a ladder up to it but I DONT RECOMMEND YOU DO THIS), and look at the stars while thinking about different things (DO NOT forget to apply mosquito repellant! Trust me, you'll regret it.).

About the bullies at school, just keep it in your mind that they bully people smaller than them because they're too noob and dont have enough balls to pick on someone their size. If that doesnt work, make evil schemes for their destructio... err, I mean, being caught by the principal or something.

Your Friend,
-[AV]JDC / =AV=JDC

[Gildor]

Man, reading that really made me feel sad.

The first step is admitting, and you did admit that you got a prob. The best thing to do, is to just lay off the computer too much. When you are bored and are thinking of going on the comp, catch a train and go into the city, walk around, look at shops, grab something to eat, go to places where people hang out. Just keep your mind occupied away from the PC. Killing yourself is never the option man, dont even think about it. If you are as bad as you say, i suggest go to a psychiatrist and get the doctor to evaluate you and if need be, give you prescription pills. I know it seems bad and all, but they are there to help mate, and they will.

Whenever you feel angry, get out of the house and go for a walk, go into the city, go and watch the ducks at the river, anything to keep your mind off the f**ked up shit going on.

Have you told your parents about it? If you havent, tell them how you are feeling. What I and many others have learnt, is that keeping it bottled inside is not the answer dude, you need to tell people, express your feelings. It will take the burden off slightly, and maybe then you can begin to enjoy the little things in life. When you are at school, just keep away from the kids and mind your own business, even if they may come over to you, try and diffuse the situation.

Pills arent a bad option, Id suggest you try them if you are feeling like this man, i really do.

[Niall]

if it gets physical, call the cops..nobody will mess with you again 

Eh? I take it you've never been in a fight because that is the worst option, in my opinion.

Anyways i think gildor gave some really good advice, i would try and do what he suggests they are some great tips. Chase a good way of losing weight is by joining a club, try and choose something that you think you will enjoy like swimming, boxing or some high intensity sport like that, this way you will enjoy what you are doing by making freinds and won't really see excerising and losing weight as a chore. That's why i wouldn't suggest just going to the gym, theres hardly any social interaction, it lowers the persons self esteem and it's not really a hobby.

[Gildor]

Agreed Niall, real good stuff there.

PS Giac:
There is NO way calling the cops will help the situation, it will only make you get beat up more and be labeled a snitch, which adds to the problem. :conf:

[Freedom]

I need help too ( Kinda lame and strange afraiding :O, but I cant do anything about it ) When the livingroom TV shuts off, all the lights are shut, I think theres someone in the closet which's door is open, I see faces made of clothes, when I turn the lights on, They are clothes, then, I can hear like something is walking on my roof, Once I felt that a small thing ran on me :S I can't stay awake with light on all nigh, too, cause it disturbs my family..

To Chase: Try to study some instrument like a trompet or a drum or a guitar or anything, hang with your friends as much as you have them (IRL, in school or what ever) If you go to a club or a music shool that Niall advised, Do something that others in ur class can't too. Think that they are some jerks that cant study and dont know how much is 2+2, ignore them and do your own stuff, take cards to school and play with ur friends u have in the breaks between lessons, take a dog or a cat and play with it and "speak" with it and take it for a walk and anything. Im not going to take you away from PC, You can also play it too But not like 16hrs a day in weekends :O

Hoped It help u somehow

[blanc_fede]

Playing in argonath makes my feel good because here, in argonath, I have a lot of friends who play with me and make me laugh like I have never Laughed.

To Chase: You have to understand that the KIDS are jerks and not you ( It`s one of the first things a phychologist does ). I suggest you dont use sooo much the PC, but you have friends on argonath and that`s good, you can meet them in the server but so what ? they still being your friends and that`s a good point. Spend your free time doing something else. like calling a friend come to your house and do something. About calling the cops, it`s a bad idea, it just makes more problems, trust me. Try to don`t be much alone, don`t isolate your self, talk with people.

If you need more help you know my MSN adress. We will help you chase...

Your friend,

Blanc Federico

[Oliver]

Once (3-4 years ago) I was a friendly little (read: second tallest in class) boy who got picked on by bullies. A couple of years (read: a year) later my nerves cracked and I beat 2 bullies up at once (read: They were wusses and didn't hit me back)... When I get angry, I'm truly angry. Now I get angry really easily and people know it, that's why they don't pick on me. Some people call me names, but they are not offensive and it doesn't bother me.
Man, Chase, your life must suck right now, but you will be successful and get a good job and you will start supporting your family along with your parents. I just know it. Just don't break down...

[Cr4ig0]

Chase, that used to be me but now when it comes to the holidays i stay up until 3am watching tv and sleep in nad get up at about 5pm... why? because it totally f**ks up my bodyclock so wnen i go back to school i am too tired to know how much my situation sucks...