When will things change

[Rossâ„¢]

Hi, Let me introduce you to myself my name is Moe Ross, I am from Somalia and immigrated to Canada.
I am having a problem with self-esteem , At school I am like the shyest kid in the whole school. I don't have a girlfriend. I think about my future and I mean don't get me wrong, In every class I am getting at least A+. I sometimes think I won't make it and I try to fix everything in my life and every time I try and try I don't feel any better. I am very nice to my teachers and my parents, I have a Job at a computer store and I seem to be unattractive to many girls I even remember in Grade 4, they used to call me ugly. The girls always go for bad guys, even If I go for the good girls. Its the same story and since when was getting trouble at school or getting arrested is a cool thing. I never have been arrested and never will. I think the society needs to change and it just makes me so sad. Everyday there's someone dieing from a shooting or a car run over. I always wanted to go back to my country but, the damned United States won't let Somalia go and rebuild. The Jamaicans make everywhere dangerous and reflects on us Africans and we get the disrespect and I think its just ridiculous. I look at the economy and everyone is getting scammed on the internet, people on phones begging people to buy stuff (telemarketing) just so they can make the minimum wage.

Listen all I am trying to do is express myself and I just couldn't keep it for that long atleast someone can relate to this topic and thanks for reading!



By: Moe Ross

[Caltson]

Moe, you have a point there.

I also find it incredible hard to figure out doing crimes or getting arrested can be fun.
Well, I don't know how girls see me, but i don't have trouble with talking to girls and they don't have trouble with me.
I Have alot of friends, But none of them really are my 'girlfriend".. I want to focus on life and puberty first, not stick with one girl and cheat on her beceause my feelings change everytime. I will wait until at least 20.

Anyways, Thanks for sharing, Moe and good luck in class !

[rJCaiG]

I agree...I won't go into detail, but the girl thing is happening to me too...I'm nice to a girl, and i think she likes me, but she always flirts with faggots and dicknobs who do horrible shit to her...meh

[SugarD]

Okay, I'm going to tell you guys this straight from experience because like you, I've been in a similar situation, and unlike most people in this world, I'm different. One thing you need to know is that girls may always go for the bad guys, but those are the girls that will never stay faithful to you. The day you find the right girl, you will know. You might even stay with her for the rest of your life. Every moment you spend with her will make your life totally worth it. Just continue being yourself and trust me, you'll find her one day.

As for your overall topic, yes, I understand how you feel, and the world is even worse than what you've seen already. In fact, it's worse than most people on this planet even know, and it's honestly painful to see. I fight every day to try and educate people on what's going on to try and make a difference in the world, but I don't know if it'll be enough sometimes. Something big needs to happen to make a large difference in this world...

Edit: Just after making this post, I was watching the news on t.v., they reported that 6 people were shot at a Mardi Gras party in New Orleans, one of which was a baby that was "struck by a bullet while in it's mother's arms". That really depressed the hell out of me...

[James_Hunter]

All I can say is;

- School is like some wierd world that only kids can create, based on the most stupid things.
- As soon as you get to college, things drastically change for the better.

[BKP]

This is my opinion:
Fool girls -> bad boys
Smart girls -> good boys

[Omri]

Life is cruel, just focus on yourself and about girlfriend and other things just wait if you do not feel ready for it.

[Aragorn]

Ross,

It is too early to look for some "good" girl... As at this age girls are also trying to attract attention to themselves and to gain as much as possible respect between each other by amounts of their fans...

In this age girls are not thinking about future relations... All they need - to catch the "cool guy" so other girls can drool "omfg she got the sexy mr.X"...

That is why they will not look at the guys, who actually would be (for example of cos) good friends, sex partners, probably husbands...

Girls start thinking about it after 25 years... At least from my experience, they become be more serious about relations only after 25... That is the starting age of being afraid she will not have a good guy for making a family...

As about you - do not try to become a "bad guy"... Live your life and do what you like to do and from what you enjoy... It will come itself - some weird meeting with some girl and then relations...

If you like some girl - try to make some things to attract her attention... Learn what she likes, buy some gifts... Only do not spend all your time on her... You will spoil her badly and fast...

[rJCaiG]

wise words...and i am actually going to listen to them..thanks a lot 

[Jubin]

Well Moe, you ask why do girls go for the bad boys? They see the adventurer in them - think for yourself if you had to choose, would you go out with a guy who is responsible and boring or would you go out with a guy who gives you an adventure and the time of your life. But in later life girls want to feel secure and then it is your time to shine, because usually those bad boys can't offer their ladies a good social status and a secure home.
Basically if you have all those A+ as you claim to have and you keep with that record also in college and become a bit more brave, you'll have the time of your life in college.

[ChaNce]

Learn one thing from a quote of Bill Gates; (I dont remember it so well, but I try)

"Never pick on nerds, soon you are gonna work for them"

Well if you are in this nerdposition, and even if you are NOT a nerd, try to go along with ALLL the A+, you will reach something in your life, and all the idiots who pick on you, will sit at the next corner with a shield: NEED MONEY FOR FOOD, and you will be the one who passes them and laughs at them saying: See? I reached something...you reached shit!

Go along, and the girls will come from theirselves

[Abraham]

Perhaps you should lower your standards? Don't look for a good girl, look for any girl :P
And for the love of god do not buy her gifts unless she your girlfriend, that's just a big nono untill you're ~20+

[Goodblue]

I agree...I won't go into detail, but the girl thing is happening to me too...I'm nice to a girl, and i think she likes me, but she always flirts with bad guys and dicknobs who do horrible shit to her...meh

OUCH! That hurts!

Same to me. Im a very shy person. :redface: But the older I am the better I can communicate with people.

[Freedom]

OUCH! That hurts!

Same to me. Im a very shy person. :redface: But the older I am the better I can communicate with people.

Same. But guys in my class are so noob that.... they dont know how much is even 1x1 ...

[pixy]

Moe, don't look too far back in the past, because if you just keep looking at the past, you won't go any further, and as a wise young man said told me this:
 "Around here, however, we don't look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward, opening up new doors and doing new things, because we're curious...and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths" - Walt Disney.
Just keep moving forward, keep thinking positive and always push forward to the future, don't look back too much. These are just some of the obstacles you'll have to find a way around in life, because nothing in life is fair.