I agree that SA-MP does change people IG
You're absolutly right!
The first year I was here, I was all happy, excited and loved to roleplay with everyone. Nowadays everything just goes past.. and I'm driving around all day long, that is, if I'm not playing a cop with Cero, cause that's great fun

But the point is.. people get frustrated about the littlest of things (from what I've seen, usually because of freecops) as the main admins practicly refuse to do anything about this major problem, people get stressed after a while, this leads to people flaming and swearing. This automaticly leads do them being punished by either a banana/warn/kick. Most of the players (including me) get even more pissed because of that. And they get banned after a while.
The ban usually cools down a player, but in the littlest of time the player get's frustrated again. And everything happens all over again, untill someone reaches it's boiling point. Which is exactly what happend to Romeo, he reached his boiling point, got so pissed which lead to his ban.
Unfortunatly, I have experience with this, so I know what I'm talking about.
Nevertheless, good luck to you Romeo. We've all been there once...