Negative attitude of players against others

[Nexxt]

My story will perfectly show what is happening now, I just wonder why and how it comes. This is not a topic to put my problems in as I am capable of fixing those myself, it's just the fact that this does happen on here.

...Today I decided to join the SA:MP server for once, as I am quite busy in real life due to my work and personal issues, and thought about having a fun time together with other members of our community. I have experienced quite a few points which I would like to have explained from some people, therefor a public topic where I would like the opinion of more people.

3 years ago, I joined this server as an idiot (read: DMer, noob, whatever you feel like) and I got experienced in our community in a short amount of time. Yet still I had some problems with my attitude and people did not quite like me for this and I did not really made friends on here. After this time when I recognized that I became 'older' in a mature way I have been given the chance to be a moderator on SA:MP - this experience made me even more sure of myself and more mature the I was before.
This has helped me in real life and it was quite handy to use the experience of being an admin on my work. Everyone becomes older and wiser.....

..then rest the question for me. Why when I am having an arguement ingame, on a mature polite way - it's have to be that I am being called inmature and trying to be 'smart'.
Just take the fact that I have been an idiot in the past ingame, but I grow up aswell. I am not faking neither trying to be smart, but everyone increases their knowledge and experience on specific platforms.

My point with this is, it does not matter how long you are on here but please respect anyone on the same way you want respect from others. I have been grown from an idiot to someone with a bit of common sense - don't tell me I am faking please.

(if this was just one person, I would not post this - but it came to my mind that a lot of people seem to have a 'bad thing' on me or however you wanna call it. And it's not only me who experience that, it's a lot of people therefor this is public.)

[Aksel]

get used to it. this happens all the time

[Altair_Carter]

Why creating drama topics about relationships with others? This is the peak of stupidity.

[Nexxt]

I know, but I am just wondering why.
Is it me who changed or became the community more harsh? It are a couple of questions who I like to see answered.
I mean I know it's probably not gonna change but is it me who sees it on another way or did people became more harsh?

@Altair: This topic isn't meant to show my problems with others. I mean, I can fix problems myself and I do not need people for this.
It's all about why people do NOT respect eachother and I used myself in such a situation.

Your reply shows enough of your respect towards others, doesn't it?

[Violet]

Things like this will make the problem worse. For the record, it's not called ADD any more.

[Nexxt]

I should maybe remove that part as it reflects on myself, while I am trying to point out something in general with my examples.
This topics moves to much towards me as person, maybe I've been wrong in putting that in - I'll try to see what it does when I leave it out.

[Violet]

I should maybe remove that part as it reflects on myself, while I am trying to point out something in general with my examples.
This topics moves to much towards me as person, maybe I've been wrong in putting that in - I'll try to see what it does when I leave it out.

No, I meant the whole topic. Reverse physcology.

[Driggz]

Its not you. Its some of the people in the community who became more harsh and feel that they always need something negative to say or act in a negative way. They think its a way of feeling supirior over someone else.

[Nexxt]

I do not care what kind of topic it is. The most shocking is that it happens to a lot of people on this community.
And that it happened to me was a perfect example for me about what is my past and what I changed to.

A lot of people do not get any chance and get all the same picture on themselves; 'ah, he was an idiot before'.

[Void]

This topic isn't meant to show my problems with others. I mean, I can fix problems myself and I do not need people for this.

If you say so above, why do you need a topic?
You could easily PM the person and ask him a couple of "suitable" questions. What he has against you or for you et cetera ...

You don't live in Argonath RPG. You live on planet Earth, Europe, (placecountryhere). That's life.
There will always be people who'll envy you or something else. You cannot satisfy them all.

Move on and focus on the supportive people, leave the haters alone.

Regards,

[Nexxt]

Once again, I am aware of the face Argonath RPG is not my 'living place'. It doesn't feel like that anyways, but it's the face that it looks 'okay' to do such stuff.

I am not hurt or anything by what happened to me, I am getting this at my work every day. I just wondered, isn't there a way people can be more nice to eachother and not look at the stupid picture people give. As in the end we are a community where we have to be together and have fun, instead of talking shit about people and just ignore who they are. And yes there are people who do not get satisfied by you and that's life, but there are people who are being bullied/shout at/flamed by groups in general just because people like to tell their own stories.

[Void]

I just wondered, isn't there a way people can be more nice to each other and not look at the stupid picture people give.

Yes, it is possible. In Teletubbies world.
Depends on how do you define "nice".

You're trying to enforce your subjective view/goal on others now and that's not nice either. Some may misinterpret you.

[Dean Willis]

I hate reading this.

[Wolfe]

Gotta love this topic, everyone agreeing that people should be retards...


Yeah Dumby, Argonath has changed, Been awhile since Argonath was a fun and a good place to go when you had too much in your mind.. I basicly check the forums dailies just to get into arguments at politics and religion board

[EminemRulez]

Basicly what Aksel has said - get used to it, it will always happen such situations because they do not see Argonath as a "game".
There's some nice players such as yourself, Aksel and a shitload of them...
Just ignore homie.