What to do about this school bully..

[Exterminator]

Need help..theres a boy who bullies me in school
Daily i said nothing but when i hit him today he even cornered me near my home and destroyed my stuff, telling teachers or hitting him aint a option what can i do about him?

[newton_alex]

Well.....

At my school at least we have (peer-)mentors, who are other pupils  who are chosen especially to provide support to other students when they don't feel confident going to the teachers! Then once you've told them you have sessions with the mentor and with your permission (or if they feel it is needed) will contact the leader of the Damscus (Support Centre) and then they take it to the suitable teacher. During the whole process you remain anonymous and when the bully is confronted you still won't be named because they will say "Someone has seen you doing (list of bullying things going on) to an other pupil"  and then later if necessary they will call you up to tell your story of events as if you didn't know the teachers had been told.


Also, why is telling the teachers not an option ?  I mean for me it was kinda hard at first but it pays off in the long run, find a teacher who you get along with and basically let them know at a break time or before school.

And what bullying is he doing to you ? that can help us provide you with some help

[Pandalink]

Socially engineer a brilliant but perhaps morally questionable scheme throughout the next academic year that involves the complete ruination of this person's social life, emotional health, and psychological sanity.

If malicious social engineering isn't your thing, then perhaps consider contacting the police. This bully's parents will take them far more seriously than the school, and the parents of this person are the people you need to be targeting.

.. or just off him. :devroll:



In case it wasn't clear, the first two were the real answers.

.. although with that said, if ever there is a situation involving a weapon and there is no chance of peaceful resolution whatsoever, use full force in an attempt to murder the attacker, naturally.

[Gandalf]

Tell teachers, parents, police....
What is no option is letting him continue and think his behaviour is accepted.

[Biggo2]

If his parents/teachers don't do anything, call the po-po. If the po-po doesn't do anything, just bust his knee cap with a claw hammer.

[Que]

Bring a bat, chase him after school and beat him up so he can't stand, then you spit on him and say that if he ever bully you again, he'll face worse pain than this.

[boostboy]

Dont listen to stupid, idiotic comments like the above one..

I have been bullied also (frankly, i still am)

I can give you one advise...talk to the people you trust, and let they tell it the school staff...it'll be easier for you, and belief me, it works..

[Caltson]

If you're not afraid or scared to talk to this particular person, do things he doesn't expect from you. Be nice, pretend nothing happened and if he tries to do you something in a way, you just keep smiling and 'corner' his behaviour. Meanwhile you report the issue to the higher staff though.

[Aksel]

The bully likes to see you getting scared. It's like porn to him. Seriously.

You should consider what Ryan said. Stand up, and look how it goes..

[Que]

Dont listen to stupid, idiotic comments like the above one..

I have been bullied also (frankly, i still am)

I can give you one advise...talk to the people you trust, and let they tell it the school staff...it'll be easier for you, and belief me, it works..

It may be idiotic in your eyes, but as you said yourself; you're still bullied so your method is basically not working. You can talk talk and talk how much you want, but it is actions that does matter regardless how you look at it.

People who bullies are people who basically has issues at home or just got a lot of overconfidence for themselves, they get amused by see you doing shit. They get amused to see you "uhuh this guy is so dangerous I can't even look at him". If you talk to that guy or that girl about it, he will most likely look at you even more as you're basically being a snitch. "Uuuhu you can't even stand up for your own problems so you have to talk to someone else hahaha f**king fatty", for example. If YOU react they way he doesn't want you to react, it is no longer funny. If the bully got issues at home, get knowledge of the issue and hit it back right in his face. If the guy got a lot of confidence and thinks he's the bauss; then beat his ass so he can't stand, or do something that might make him regret his previous actions towards you.

I mean f**king really, why even let yourself get bullied, man up and do something about it. Sure, some people doesn't want to act violent or whatsoever, yet there's plenty of other things you can do to make the bully stop bullying you. For example: Talk to the headmaster of the school, talk to the police, be ignorant and cocky towards him until he crosses the line so he gets suspended, talk to his parents..

If you're not afraid or scared to talk to this particular person, do things he doesn't expect from you. Be nice, pretend nothing happened and if he tries to do you something in a way, you just keep smiling and 'corner' his behaviour. Meanwhile you report the issue to the higher staff though.

Or even this.

[TruthSvensson]

Tell the principle, I did it and it worked.

[duffman]

Tell the principle, I did it and it worked.

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Need help..theres a boy who bullies me in school
Daily i said nothing but when i hit him today he even cornered me near my home and destroyed my stuff, telling teachers or hitting him aint a option what can i do about him?

Son do this: Follow him to his house if its possible but if not, follow him some enough distance to noany person see it and beat him with a metal stick or a bat(on the face/hands/legs) whatever you can and smash him. It works seriously.

[Exterminator]

sent a email to the school principle..

[Alsatian]

sent a email to the school principle..

Is it just the one individual or multiple people bullying you?

[Chuck_Norris]

Basically a bully, is a person who got bullied in the past aswell ..

I once had the situation of being bullied, yet i managed to solve it myself (not a peacefull way, but didnt have much choice). I strongly suggest however you try to resolve this in a peacefull way, because remember a few things:

* don't let his size fool you, he can have alot of strength / friends..
* if your friends / people you know see you acting violent etc, those people will change their minds bout u
* Telling a principal or other staff of school isn't snitching, its standing up for yourself in a decent way
* if a bully continues and your principal notices .. they will likely plan a meeting with his parents

* if you start hitting him first, its not selfdefence since u cannot prove what he did ... so you will be blamed / expelled or worse

if he continues, and nothing works, i'm willing to have a msn convo with this dude