Cyberbullying.

[Jessica_Chen]

And this is still ongoing? I thought it was made clear a year ago..

Well Thomas yes this is still ongoing.
Post Merge: March 20, 2012, 06:52:02 am

It might get annoying, but this isn't really cyber-bullying. I'm sure everyone on this server has been called a name before in real life or in a video game environment/ community. It's just a name. If it's not your real name I don't see why you should be so upset about it.

yes i know that but just gets annoying because it all started off from Jonny. the jonny that used to an admin. now he not one any more. he was the one that started the trolling and then turned into an cyberbully. and he got warned by admin about that since he were a mod. and few other people got it from him and they got banned. for doing that. i mean i really do love Argo. and the people on there. but just that i get all these other type of Sh*t going on about cyberbully,troll i just hate it i already had enough sh*t going on from work when i come home i just want to get on argo and just relax but i cant with all these bully,troll coming at me -.-.

I was sure that you are a boy.  :cool:

no i am not a boy. and stop calling me a boy when i am not.

[Nexxt]

I do not think a topic was needed, because peopel will only troll on here. And hey, people call me Jessica aswell, just ignorei t!

[Sarah_Morelli]

I actually don't get it...I never had a problem like this.  I was always called Sarah...Even when I was RPing as a guy...Most people still called me Sarah -_- Guess it's cause I used to go on TS, and most everybody who knew me back in 9, and 10, was SASD, SAPD, SACS, and etc.. All knew because of TS and Ventrilo, and word just got out..

Jessica, you should maybe talk to people on TS or somethin' and just...talk...People'll believe u then.

[Jones]

To be fair, no one should have to 'prove' anything.. If they are a guy and they say they are a guy, people should believe them.. Same if they are a girl.

Someone shouldn't have to take a picture or go on TS to prove their gender, that's just plain stupid..

And about it being Cyber-bullying, if someone is being provoked or having something done to them that they don't like on a constant basis, then it becomes bullying.

Why can't you guys just give her a break and leave her alone?

[Julio.]

I get called Jew-lio :\     

In all seriousness, nobody should give a damn whether you're male or female, I have not personally had to 'prove' I was a male by taking a picture of my crotch :\

[Duel]

When you lie that you are girl to get treated like a girl is the worst you can do.. Do what Sarah did and the respect will stay and all will be enssured that you are not a boy but a real female who is not lying..

Why should it worry you? She does not need to prove anything that she is a girl, you gotta learn the facts, and accept her for who she is.

Guys, honestly, its the internet, stop acting like a fucking Pharaoh. This community has rules, and you should all be abiding by them, if your childish behaviour over comes you, I recommend you to look into it, and see how you can improve it.

Just because she plays on the internet, does NOT mean she is a fucking male. If you want to find out if she is a girl, ask politely, and if you don't believe it, just ignore it. But calling her Kevin is very fucking immature from my point of view...

I was sure that you are a boy.  :cool:

Now you know she isn't.

When you lie that you are girl to get treated like a girl is the worst you can do.. Do what Sarah did and the respect will stay and all will be enssured that you are not a boy but a real female who is not lying..

Where the fuck is your proof that she is lying?
You used to be the Argonath Helper owner, and this is the way you 'help' people?

>implying you are girl.

Grow up.


Honestly, I hate it when people jump to conclusions about everything, and come across with false accusations about others. Believe what you want to believe, and keep it to YOURSELF, do not provoke her.

[Zaila]

If someone is constantly provoking you, take printscreens of it along with note down the time and date which it happend and send it to me and i can take care of it.

Cyberbullying is NOT tolerated whatsoever, and if i get evidence of any such situation happening, i will take care of it myself, and it wont end good for those doing it. NO ONE has to proove anything in this community.

That's not cyberbullying.

It is, but obviously you dont know the situation behind it.

[MrFrancis]

Does she really need to take a picture to prove that she is a female? If she/he was a male, would it make any difference?

Typically what happens after she posts a picture of herself, you guys either sexually harass her or just let it be. The thing is, most of the players in Argonath do not believe that women play in Argonath, they want a picture with some proof (something like Argonath written on a piece of paper) or just simply go to TS. Why can't you just let a girl/guy play freely without harassing her/him. Sure I make jokes to women, but when she warns me, that means I have crossed the line.. and that's obviously a sign that I should stop. This is also one of the reason why female gamers stop playing online.

[Devin]

Let's clear some of this up, to start with who is "Kevin"?
When/why did this begin, people calling you Kevin?
If they are annoying you, just laugh at them and ignore it.

I get called black nearly every day since 2008 on Argonath just because I live in South Africa, I just shrug it off and laugh at them for their lets say "immaturity/lack of education" labeling everyone in Africa as black.

[Ben.]

Why is there a debate going on? It's a simple thing for the administration team. There should be an attitude against cyber-bullying.

Several
Times
On
Purpose

^Recent advertisement against bullying.

Jessica, when Wave 3 of the moderators get their rights, I'll have a zero-tolerance policy on cyber-bullying, I promise you.

[Taylor_P]

Let's clear some of this up, to start with who is "Kevin"?
When/why did this begin, people calling you Kevin?

TeaM_Fox and Aldo somehow called a number or something off of Jessica's FB (because FB loves to send your personal info to anyone on the internet!) and some dude named Kevin I guess answered.

I get called black nearly every day since 2008 on Argonath just because I live in South Africa, I just shrug it off and laugh at them for their lets say "immaturity/lack of education" labeling everyone in Africa as black.

Shoot I get called much worse just for being in FBI hell ask Kris he loves me after that whole AoD incident and that Macedonian thread.

[Zaila]

I'm locking this topic now since there is no need to continue this discussion.

The warning has been given.

[Cutt3r]

Jessica, some people are morons. That means you must not get upset about someone calling you Kevin. You can tell him your name is not Kevin. If he does it again he is just being an asshole. For your part, you must learn to ignore such people. That will work in due course, as he will get bored 

Basically, don't get worked up when some bloke attempts to give you a 'hard time'.