You are 14.
Do not judge others by age. I've seen young people acting much better than elder-aged individuals.
Also, Argonath is a roleplay server. If you find it not, then it is not a fact but your own subjective opinion. Roleplay is all around, you'll just have to open your eyes more. Roleplay isn't "/me goes to the store", every person that drives by with a car in the street has their own goals and live, now that's roleplay.