It's like this...

[Abraham]

Requesting topic lock.

[ItwasBrad]

Story of my life - all I can say.

[Watahell]

Like my father says: "there is no one that didn't ever suffer with love"

one question: are you drunk because of what u said?  :alc:

If you feel like listening to some advice:

Be as close as possible to that girl. (I know, you are already doing that, but strive to do that as much as you can)
But be close without forcing, just make yourself present or her life. If something happens in her life, make sure to always lend a hand to her. So what I'm saying is get to be the most reliable person to her. That's all advice I can give you 

Okey, first of all, I would like to say I suck at making subjects for my topics, also I suck at writing topics...

Nope, pretty well written, very clear and interesting, touched me.

Ah and btw whenever you have something you want to share with us, feel free to tell.
I'll be always here to listen and to offer a friendly shoulder.

[Pistol Man]

that hppened to me:

1: when I was 13
2: again when I was 15
3: again when I was 18
4: again when I was 20
5: thats what u get for calling me stupid
Posted on: September 29, 2007, 04:08:24 AMbtw i agree of you, some of the girl you feel you wanna f*ck and someone you wanna stare at them i been through all this before

[Australia]

Hey abe, Same shit happened to me with this chick once, just kept drifting further and further apart. was sad because i don't know what happened, but yeah.
Just add me on msn if you want to talk.
[email protected]

[Hess]

and not only does she have a girlfriend - wich is much more attractive then me - but her looks only outstands everything, not that I give a flying fuck

Girlfriend or boyfriend? :conf:

[tiderman]

Girlfriend or boyfriend? :conf:

!!

[Abraham]

Girlfriend or boyfriend? :conf:

hahaha not only was I drunk, but I had hit my head pritty hard when I passed out yesterday.

Boyfriend 

[Sharphis]

I exactly know what you think. I'm in a bit similar situation. This might come as a surprise to most of you, but I'm gay and I'm in love with a hetero man. He is my great friend, but I also love him. He knows what I really feel to him and he isn't rejecting me in 100%. Thanks him for that. But I also know he is for me unavailable and he can't love me, even if he wanted to. I want to be with him all the time and I do spend lot of my time with him. But for him we are "just" a friends. I realise there can't happen anything more between us  . And that hurts me the most, we can't be anything more than just friends. This whole situation is so fucking crazy, there is a man you want spend with him your whole life, but he can't feel the same towards me  . Love is so fucking blind...

Your situation is a bit different. You have a big chance to get her, she CAN feel to you the same. Just don't give up and still keep trying. Maybe a good thing would be telling her that she is for you a bit more than just friend ? Of course it also depends of your situation, she may not be ready for such talk.
Just good luck, man, and never give up! You CAN get her!

[Obi1]

aye i tell my friends to go and chat with the "girl" i like and find out if she "likes" me half the time it works half the time i get slapped for a cheesy effort 

[Andre9977]

I exactly know what you think. I'm in a bit similar situation. This might come as a surprise to most of you, but I'm gay and I'm in love with a hetero man. He is my great friend, but I also love him. He knows what I really feel to him and he isn't rejecting me in 100%. Thanks him for that. But I also know he is for me unavailable and he can't love me, even if he wanted to. I want to be with him all the time and I do spend lot of my time with him. But for him we are "just" a friends. I realise there can't happen anything more between us  . And that hurts me the most, we can't be anything more than just friends. This whole situation is so fucking crazy, there is a man you want spend with him your whole life, but he can't feel the same towards me  . Love is so fucking blind...

Your situation is a bit different. You have a big chance to get her, she CAN feel to you the same. Just don't give up and still keep trying. Maybe a good thing would be telling her that she is for you a bit more than just friend ? Of course it also depends of your situation, she may not be ready for such talk.
Just good luck, man, and never give up! You CAN get her!

Then why reject my kisses, when i am there?
:ps: Im in love too, but Sharphis's "kisses belong to another person"

Actually, IRL i had a girl, but she nudge bombed me while i was at countryside...
When i went home, i saw he being mad at me
"Answer me! I know you're there" etc...
Was a crazy girl

[Abraham]

I exactly know what you think. I'm in a bit similar situation. This might come as a surprise to most of you, but I'm gay and I'm in love with a hetero man. He is my great friend, but I also love him. He knows what I really feel to him and he isn't rejecting me in 100%. Thanks him for that. But I also know he is for me unavailable and he can't love me, even if he wanted to. I want to be with him all the time and I do spend lot of my time with him. But for him we are "just" a friends. I realise there can't happen anything more between us  . And that hurts me the most, we can't be anything more than just friends. This whole situation is so fucking crazy, there is a man you want spend with him your whole life, but he can't feel the same towards me  . Love is so fucking blind...

Your situation is a bit different. You have a big chance to get her, she CAN feel to you the same. Just don't give up and still keep trying. Maybe a good thing would be telling her that she is for you a bit more than just friend ? Of course it also depends of your situation, she may not be ready for such talk.
Just good luck, man, and never give up! You CAN get her!

Man that sucks ass, I know someone else on this server who's in love with some guy and the whole "just friends" thingy... yeah.
But man I ain't never giving up, I've known her for several years, and I ain't never giving up until she's mine. But this time when she was all over my friend, I just had to talk to someone, but who can I talk to? Argonath is love, and love is argonath, this is where we get support no matter what.

[Luca_Scalise]

I think you must respect her decision...build a wall and forget about her, is hard, it hurts, you will need a long time. Maybe this is not the suggestion you was searching for but if she doesen't love you..you can't force her.

[PMP]

Man that sucks ass, I know someone else on this server who's in love with some guy and the whole "just friends" thingy... yeah.
But man I ain't never giving up, I've known her for several years, and I ain't never giving up until she's mine. But this time when she was all over my friend, I just had to talk to someone, but who can I talk to? Argonath is love, and love is argonath, this is where we get support no matter what.

In this server?  :conf:
 :alert" Gaydar alert!  :alert"

[Abraham]

I think you must respect her decision...build a wall and forget about her, is hard, it hurts, you will need a long time. Maybe this is not the suggestion you was searching for but if she doesen't love you..you can't force her.

But how am I supposed to know anything about her emotions when she is like a god damn wall.
The only one she has ever talked about her emotions was me, and it was no happy emotions... but she seems happy 24/7, and I'm sitting here, knowing she isn't really feeling good.

Just want to say that she is suicidal ffs, we where talking a week back and she was telling me all this shit about just ending it all, and what can I do?
I don't know if she loves me or not, but if I brake all connections with her, I know she will fall.