I really need some help....

[Huntsman]

I know this probably isnt the most appopriate place to post something like this, but i do not really know what to do.

I'm really suffering from depression lately... Or atleast i think it's depression. I dont know what to do, and i mean it.. Everyday i feel lonely and sad.. And that's not because i have no friends or something like that, actually i have fair amount of friends. It's somehow.. I dont know i cant even explain. I just feel that way. It feels like i miss someone but actually i dont... Stuff that i used to do before no longer interests me, i cant find anything interesting to do through the whole day, i'm being irritated whole day for no exact reason.. I feel worthless and sometimes i think that life is not worth living, though i never thought of suicide or something like that and im never going to. I simply feel that life has no point and i have to keep "pushing the time" so i can get to bed and live to the next day and then same all again..
I cant really find whom to talk about it with.. Friends? Noo.. I mean, most of my friends are not mature enough to understand something like that. I dont think they would be someone i would want to bring stuff like that into discussion.. Show them a finger and theyll laugh their ass off all day.. Yes, i have one friend which understands me. We sometimes talk about personal stuff.. No, that wasnt what you were thinking about, i meant about girls, whom we like and why and etc... We give each other advices and stuff like that.. He's year older than me. But i simply dont have the gutts to bring up that to discussion with him.. I'm afraid of how would he react and i simply can't do it..

This probably was the most desperate action i would do, posting something like that in argonath forums, but i simply cant take it much longer.. It feels like it's killing me from the inside.

[Ratko Gavrilovic]

You are probably tired of doing the same things in your life over and over again.
Get some new clothes or something else to cheer you up.
Also try to get a girlfriend, it'll make your life happier.

[Huntsman]

You are probably tired of doing the same things in your life over and over again.
Get some new clothes or something else to cheer you up.
Also try to get a girlfriend, it'll make your life happier.

If only everything would be so easy as you said.

[Ratko Gavrilovic]

You mean those things are hard?
Try to socialize with girls more and take it step by step.
Also having friends is good, now just go out with them more often, have a drink occassionally.

[Huntsman]

You mean those things are hard?
Try to socialize with girls more and take it step by step.
Also having friends is good, now just go out with them more often, have a drink occassionally.

You're expecting a 14 years old to drink alcohol? I dont want to fall deeper than i already am. ;s

[Sawyer]

Maybe it is because of your age, I've been through that aswell. Your moods will be changing day by day so don't take it so personal. And yes, hang out with friends.

[Teddy]

Well venting and speaking to others is a great place to start. However, not really suppose to be to absolute strangers. Find someone you trust, a teacher at school, a someone from student guidance, a local religious figure (depending on your religious views; Priest, Monk etc.) and just have a chat with them. Speaking about it is the best way to keep it off, and also keeping yourself busy and distracted. Peroids where you are doing nothing, and in passive sense will allow your mind to wander thus making you think about depressive thoughts. So try and keep yourself busy as often as possible, and most importantly just think about the good times. We all have shitty moments, and most often we don't have "happy" experiences 24/7 so making the best of them and getting the most of them will help compensate.

[Daco]

I've been through this before.. You'll get through it eventually.. Just try to go out more often and talk to people, get drunk.. Travel, etc.. You'll feel better.

[Gandalf]

You do not have to experiment with drinking or drugs to get out of it, it will not let it go away, just give you an extra addiction.
As others said, this is something that you are going through in life. You may be a bit early on this, but it happens to everyone. Until some age, your are stuck in playing children's games. Then you discover that they are no longer captivating you. The reason is, strange as it may seem, that you need a mental challenge. I have no idea how you do in school, but you may not be interested in what you learn, or the level is too easy for you.
So its time to give yourself a new challenge. For girls, drinking and other things you have plenty of time, and right now it may be too early to really appreciate it, you may just look at the drunk guys and feel more stupid as you do not understand what makes them happy...
Instead, find something that interests you. And explore it fully, find every bit of information you can, build something on what you gathered, and try to make it a challenge for yourself to reach. Do not do something easy, it will just bore you. Do not do something above your age.
Playtime is over, make your first steps in a more adult world. And do not worry if you do not find something at once, you are just starting your life and have plenty of time and opportunities to get it right.

[Huntsman]

Thanks for all of you for your motivating answers! You have no idea how much i appreciate them!

[Witchking]

Use your friends abit more, and do whatever you can with them, if its just watch a movie fine, or run around in circle play fotball whatever, having this kind of thoughts is hard.
So Less computer and abit more friends time every day. perhaps go out with them on the day come back to computer in the meantime ex. Argo or whatever. the most dangerous thing you can do is be alone, with this sort of Thoughts it will kill you. Activate yourself with a balance of Friends,Family,Computer,Studies. when you find this balance you will fight away this feelings you have!!


Don't ever Stop Believe in yourself, you are an great person. Never start doubt on that

[Thomas_A]

Well, as previously mentioned alcohol is not a solution. Drinking or smoking wont make you look cool, try to be who you are and improve relationships with current friends you have also try to find new friends. If you want a girl then If you find one, be who you are, thats what like most, at least thats my experience.

[Daco]

Another thing: Don't think that you're "unique" or "different than others".. We're all have been through this, well at least I've been..