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Title: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Reece on June 21, 2012, 11:35:30 pm
(http://i.i.com.com/cnwk.1d/i/tim/2012/06/21/karen_klein_620x350.jpg) ----> VIDEO HERE <---- (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E12R9fMMtos#)A video of a 68-year-old school bus monitor mercilessly taunted by seventh graders became an international online rallying point against bullies Thursday, with funds for the Rochester, N.Y., grandmother rapidly increasing hundreds of thousands of dollars and a deluge of people demanding harsh punishment for the boys.

Police said Karen Klein does not want her young tormenters to face criminal charges, partly because of the storm of criticism leveled at the boys from the Rochester suburb of Greece after the video went viral.

Bullied school bus monitor finds online support

"Theyve received death threats," Greece Police Capt. Steve Chatterton said Thursday. "Their families have been threatened. We have custody of one of their cellphones, and he had over 1,000 missed calls and 1,000 text messages threatening him. And he's 13 years old. That must stop."

he verbal abuse was captured in a 10-minute cellphone video recorded Monday by a student of Athena Middle School in suburban Rochester and later posted to YouTube. The video shows Klein trying her best to ignore the stream of profanity, insults and outright threats directed at her. One student taunted: "You don't have a family because they all killed themselves because they don't want to be near you."

Karen Kleins oldest son killed himself 10 years ago.

Eventually, she appears to break down in tears.

Klein's son, Brian, told CBS News affiliate WIVB he was "overwhelmed" by the vicious incident, but he hopes to send positive energy to all the supporters who donated money and sent his mother heartfelt messages.

"One thing I would really hope that would come out of this is maybe these kids would start learning to behave and respect their elders," Brian Klein said.

"You want to jump into that bus and you want to grab those kids and say Knock it off! And you want to hold her," said Amy Weber, a 43-year-old independent filmmaker from the Detroit area who pledged $100 Thursday through the international crowd-funding site Indiegogo.com.

"I think we hear about bullying every day and we become a little desensitized to it. This puts it in our face" said Weber, who is making a feature film about a bully.

Klein told NBC's "Today" show Thursday that it took "a lot of willpower" not to respond to the jeers from the four boys riding the bus operated by the Greece Central School District. Klein said she was "amazed" at the support she received.

"I've got these nice letters, emails, Facebook messages," she said. "It's like, wow, there's a whole world out there that I didn't know. It's really awesome."

She said she hopes the parents will talk to their children about being "a little more respectful."

Klein did not immediately return a call from The Associated Press seeking comment.

The video logged more than 2 million views by Thursday afternoon, breaking hearts and raising passions of people who recalled bullying incidents in their own pasts. The fundraiser set up on Indiegogo.com shattered its goal of raising $5,000 to send the grandmother of eight on a "vacation of a lifetime." More than 15,000 people donated, many in denominations of $20 or less.

Funds for Klein rapidly increased throughout Thursday, with over $12,000 raised between 4:00 and 5:00 pm ET alone. By late afternoon, the Indiegogo.com fundraiser had over $316,000 in donations and counting.

"I don't see how anyone can watch that and not be touched by it. It made me realize and I posted on my Facebook wall that sticks and stones may break my bones but words will still hurt you no matter how old you are," said Deana Rock, a 42-year-old marketing professional from Williston, Vt., who pledged $30.

Rock said she was moved to tears by the video and donated the money so Klein would not have to get back on the bus.

Police in the suburb of Greece had to step up patrols near the houses of the four boys and said they had received several threatening hoax calls from people. The boys had not yet apologized to Klein as of Thursday afternoon, though police said they regretted their acts and their parents are cooperating.

The district apologized to Klein and will pursue disciplinary actions against all four students.

The swell of support for Klein follows a recent surge in awareness of bullying that has brought the issue from the classroom to the stage and screen to the White House.



These kids are vile and disgusting, this video makes me really angry that kids in this world can act like that. Any way, amazing how the internet has raised over 300K for her. It's also disturbing how they said her children should commit suicide, when her son has...
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 22, 2012, 12:45:54 am
"Americans"
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Squeak on June 22, 2012, 03:49:53 am
I honestly have no idea why they weren't kicked off the bus the first time they cussed, she practically knelt down and took their barrage of insults. I honestly don't know why people are giving her money for sitting down and getting her shit verbally slapped around by some punks.

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Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Rick. on June 22, 2012, 03:57:14 am
"Americans"

"Canadians"
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 22, 2012, 04:48:22 am
North Americans in a nutshell
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Hevar. on June 22, 2012, 05:52:55 am
Making The Bus Monitor Cry]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l93wAqnPQwk&feature=player_embedded#]Making The Bus Monitor Cry (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l93wAqnPQwk&feature=player_embedded#)

This one? This is just sad, i hope someone can beat up those kids.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Goodandy. on June 22, 2012, 06:19:48 am
My god! That is absurd and terrible! Jesus, people like this exist?!
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 22, 2012, 06:38:17 am
"Canadians"

>implying this shit happens in Canada

nope
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Dolfagr on June 22, 2012, 06:50:09 am
Wow I didn't know we colonize US :cool:
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Clone on June 22, 2012, 06:15:54 pm
What those kids did to her is disgusting, and I hope they get what they deserve.

However, her charity page has just hit $500,000. I mean, of course she deserves a break. The initial goal of the page was $5000. But half a million dollars? Really? Harassment like this happens all over the world, sometimes even to bigger extents, but should the victims become rich because of it? I don't think so.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 22, 2012, 06:34:31 pm
Is this in Greece or America? I'm confused now.
Anyway those kids shouldn't be charged or anything, just kicked the shit out of until near death.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 22, 2012, 06:41:07 pm
Is this in Greece or America? I'm confused now.
Anyway those kids shouldn't be charged or anything, just kicked the shit out of until near death.


Was going to post something then noticed your flag.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Alsatian on June 22, 2012, 06:50:38 pm
Some of the things the kids came out with is absolutely disgusting. The bit towards the end about her family killing themselves... from a group of kids. I just couldn't believe it.

Scary to think that kids are being brought up like this in certain parts of the world. Parenting, non-existant; the phrase "respect your elders", completely forgotten.

Is this in Greece or America? I'm confused now.
Anyway those kids shouldn't be charged or anything, just kicked the shit out of until near death.

Yeah man, beat up a group of kids to the point in which they're nearly dead. That's setting the right fucking example.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 22, 2012, 09:59:49 pm
Yeah man, beat up a group of kids to the point in which they're nearly dead. That's setting the right f**king example.
Apparently words don't change people anymore.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 22, 2012, 10:19:55 pm
Apparently words don't change people anymore.

I hope your not trying to imply violence is going to solve the problem of violence  :rofl:
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 22, 2012, 10:23:48 pm
I hope your not trying to imply violence is going to solve the problem of violence  :rofl:
So if someone would bully your grandmother until the point where she would cry and is seriously upset, you would not act with your fists but with your mouth?
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 22, 2012, 10:31:05 pm
So if someone would bully your grandmother until the point where she would cry and is seriously upset, you would not act with your fists but with your mouth?

They would get arrested for elder abuse so I would have no need to fight them. They would go to jail for it. Fighting them would just get me charged as well and probably fired from my job.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 22, 2012, 10:33:30 pm
They would get arrested for elder abuse so I would have no need to fight them. They would go to jail for it. Fighting them would just get me charged as well and probably fired from my job.
The kids aren't taken into custody, they are free.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 22, 2012, 10:51:37 pm
The kids aren't taken into custody, they are free.

Because this happened in the US, which as one of the stupidest legal systems ever.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 22, 2012, 11:11:13 pm
So if someone would bully your grandmother until the point where she would cry and is seriously upset, you would not act with your fists but with your mouth?

Didn't you learn any moral at school? You, that lives in an ex- socialistic state should know that there are authorities to take care of people like this.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 22, 2012, 11:15:32 pm
Didn't you learn any moral at school? You, that lives in an ex- socialistic state should know that there are authorities to take care of people like this.
It doesn't really matter where I live.
It is me as a person.
If he would still be free, I wouldn't ignore him.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Void on June 23, 2012, 03:51:21 pm
All those that would rip throats, kick in the nuts, punch in the face multiple times and so on are the same as these children in the video.
She simply stood in a wrong guard and got caught up. Why did she try to communicate with them? She had the perfect advantage at the beginning of the video. She ignored them.
Another question, why didn't she switch seats? Verbal abuse happened to every one of us once or more. At one instant, she even took out a knife or another sharp object is it?

I understand the good will of people to donate but getting such sum for being verbally abused is ridiculous. They should have donated to a better cause like ill/sick or homeless children. I bet this is not the first time someone mocked her.

I was in the capital about a week ago. Since I'm from Dalmatia(far south of Croatia) and that's Zagorje(north), my accent was really standing out and people were laughing at me as soon as I walked into a store.
Peers were teasing me in the tramway, calling me names like "stupid undeveloped Dalmatian" and a redneck. I just smiled.

I could sure use some cash compensation, doesn't even need to be half a million of dollars.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: TheRock on June 23, 2012, 04:08:30 pm
At least the donators show a sign of humanity. As for the situation here, rarely anything like this happens on public bus, unless the bus goes through the small china-town in the center of Athens or other arias which are uncontrolled by the Police.. and anyways whenever we see someone bullying some other kid or oldie, we gather for a surprise to the bully ;).. After that, he'll think much before doing such a thing again at least!
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Alsatian on June 23, 2012, 08:36:17 pm
So if someone would bully your grandmother until the point where she would cry and is seriously upset, you would not act with your fists but with your mouth?

You do understand they're children right? F**king children. You seriously think the right thing to do is beat the shit out of them? They're young and what you saw in that video is them trying to impress one and other.

Someone older, I could understand that you might want to and I most likely would as well, but even then it doesn't make it right. Trying to solve violence with violence never gets anyone anywhere.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 23, 2012, 08:38:34 pm
You do understand they're children right? F**king children. You seriously think the right thing to do is beat the shit out of them? They're young and what you saw in that video is them trying to impress one and other.

Someone older, I could understand that you might want to and I most likely would as well, but even then it doesn't make it right. Trying to solve violence with violence never gets anyone anywhere.
They're sick children in that case.
I have seen many cases of boys trying to act tough and impress their friends, but this just crosses the line by far.
Making someone cry is not just impressing but being seriously f*cked up in the head.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Alsatian on June 23, 2012, 08:51:52 pm
They're sick children in that case.
I have seen many cases of boys trying to act tough and impress their friends, but this just crosses the line by far.
Making someone cry is not just impressing but being seriously f*cked up in the head.

Of course, it's horrible. However, what will be achieved by kicking the shit out of them? Absolutely nothing. If anything, it's going to make them even nastier. The parenting and school need to be looked at, as clearly something has gone wrong down the line for those kids to believe that the way they acted was appropriate.

Show them the errors of their way and correct it. Counteract with violence, and give way for more situations like this to occur.

PS. 5000th post! :o
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 23, 2012, 08:54:30 pm
Of course, it's horrible. However, what will be achieved by kicking the shit out of them? Absolutely nothing. If anything, it's going to make them even nastier. The parenting and school need to be looked at, as clearly something has gone wrong down the line for those kids to believe that the way they acted was appropriate.

Show them the errors of their way and correct it. Counteract with violence, and give way for more situations like this to occur.
Like I said earlier in the topic, words don't matter with modern day children anymore.
They say yes but they do no.
I now do admit that kicking them until near death is not the best way, but what is?

PS. 5000th post! :o
Gratz.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Alsatian on June 23, 2012, 09:31:24 pm
I now do admit that kicking them until near death is not the best way, but what is?

The problem is that when you look at the video, you realise that these kids have been raised by kids themselves. The parents obviously haven't taught them basic manners or the principle of respect.

In school you get bullying and nasty remarks, but I've never seen anything quite like this.

If any positive change is to be made, the parents also have to be educated in bringing up their children also. There's no point what so ever in giving them a little telling off and a slap on the wrist, and then sending them straight back into an environment where this kind of behaviour is seemingly acceptable.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Squeak on June 23, 2012, 09:35:12 pm
HIT THEM WITH THIS
(http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-r0pV4YrqcLg/Ttzl95xe1QI/AAAAAAAAAd0/HO6MpZC9QqU/s1600/belt.jpg)
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 23, 2012, 10:18:59 pm

I now do admit that kicking them until near death is not the best way, but what is?


 A Juvenile Detention Facility.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 24, 2012, 12:14:57 pm
Ehhh you new world countries and your rights...

In Serbia for doing stupid shit, kids get theyre asses kicked (litterealy) by parents. They take a belt, and strike you with it for some time.
That is called "Physical punishment" AND IT WORKS LIKE A CHARM! Heck, it may hurted, but i am happy that i was raised that way. That stopped me from doing stupid shit, and i avoided lots of troubles that way.

I seriously dont get just "grounding" the kid. That has NO effect. With kids, diplomacy = WORST POLICY! Force = BEST POLICY! Rights smights yadda yadda yadda! I am 17, but, if my kid acted that way, id ground him + BEAT DA SHIT outta him, so he would NEVER AGAIN do such a thing (whell atleast untill he becomes 18 :/).

Anyway, i hope point taken. With kids ony policy is force, period.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Hess on June 24, 2012, 03:24:14 pm
Anyway, i hope point taken. With kids ony policy is force, period.

In Serbia
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Pandalink on June 24, 2012, 03:49:07 pm
That is called "Physical punishment" AND IT WORKS LIKE A CHARM! Heck, it may hurted, but i am happy that i was raised that way. That stopped me from doing stupid shit, and i avoided lots of troubles that way.
Ah, so that's why you're a violent sociopath.

I am 17, but, if my kid acted that way, id ground him + BEAT DA SHIT outta him, so he would NEVER AGAIN do such a thing (whell atleast untill he becomes 18 :/).
f**k you. You'd better not ever have any goddamn children.. and if you do, I hope they call the police on you and they throw you in prison for the rest of your life.
Frankly, you disgust me.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 24, 2012, 04:34:39 pm
Ehhh you new world countries and your rights...

In Serbia for doing stupid shit, kids get theyre asses kicked (litterealy) by parents. They take a belt, and strike you with it for some time.
That is called "Physical punishment" AND IT WORKS LIKE A CHARM! Heck, it may hurted, but i am happy that i was raised that way. That stopped me from doing stupid shit, and i avoided lots of troubles that way.

I seriously dont get just "grounding" the kid. That has NO effect. With kids, diplomacy = WORST POLICY! Force = BEST POLICY! Rights smights yadda yadda yadda! I am 17, but, if my kid acted that way, id ground him + BEAT DA SHIT outta him, so he would NEVER AGAIN do such a thing (whell atleast untill he becomes 18 :/).

Anyway, i hope point taken. With kids ony policy is force, period.

This is the reason why you're not welcome in the EU
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Alsatian on June 24, 2012, 07:46:22 pm
I seriously dont get just "grounding" the kid. That has NO effect. With kids, diplomacy = WORST POLICY! Force = BEST POLICY! Rights smights yadda yadda yadda! I am 17, but, if my kid acted that way, id ground him + BEAT DA SHIT outta him, so he would NEVER AGAIN do such a thing (whell atleast untill he becomes 18 :/).

You're actually sick in the head. Please, for the sake of everyone, go and get some professional help - because you sure as hell need it.

Oh, you'll find that if (and I sincerely hope you do not) you have children and beat them up as a form of discipline, when they're older and you try to lay your hands on them again, they'll snap back and give you a taste of your own medicine.

Heck, it may hurted, but i am happy that i was raised that way.

Ahh, now it all makes sense.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: EliteTerm on June 24, 2012, 08:13:28 pm
Back then, parents whipped kids around with a belt if they misbehave and it was fine.

Now? It's called child abuse and thrown to jail..


Now, about the Bus monitor.. she said she does not wish to press charges (since this incident could be classified as harassment, or under a different term & laws in that specific town), it's smart to stay out of it and just take some time off with the $700,000 raised in her name for probably retirement, unless she loves her job & continue what she is doing despite several petty brats pushing her around..
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Gimli on June 25, 2012, 12:20:11 am
To be honest, I don't agree with most of the opinions here..

Before you jump to conclusions, try to draw a portrait of the old lady and what her character is like. She's a 68-year-old widow that has eight grandchildren. The reason she decided not to press charges is that doing so would result in the kids getting into trouble, so I think it's safe to assume that she's the "nice old lady" type of person.

My guess is that it started off with small things like the kids saying no when asked to do something, etc. When they noticed that she is too weak to scold them and didn't want to get them in trouble, they took advantage of it and this is the result.

Schools are meant to prepare kids for life, both by educating and disciplining them. In fact, the definition of a bus monitor is someone that "monitors conduct of students on school bus to maintain discipline and safety", so in this video, how did she discipline them? She didn't, mainly because she's too nice...

In an ideal world, being too nice wouldn't be a problem, but what if every person that works in a middle school was like this? If you went up to a teacher and told him/her that he or she is a big fat balla whose children deserve to die, surely you'd expect some kind of punishment??? Schools, as well as children's parents, are supposed to teach them what's allowed and what isn't.

Don't get me wrong, I don't blame the lady, but I think it's the school district's fault for putting her in that position. She's simply too nice and needs a different job, perhaps a kindergarten or an elementary school. Oh well, at least her grandchildren will have enough money for college now...


Is this in Greece or America? I'm confused now.
Anyway those kids shouldn't be charged or anything, just kicked the shit out of until near death.
What stage of evolution are you at?
(http://ftyy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/evolution.jpg)

I was in the capital about a week ago. Since I'm from Dalmatia(far south of Croatia) and that's Zagorje(north), my accent was really standing out and people were laughing at me as soon as I walked into a store.
Peers were teasing me in the tramway, calling me names like "stupid undeveloped Dalmatian" and a redneck. I just smiled. I could sure use some cash compensation, doesn't even need to be half a million of dollars.
Should've tried speaking english with them ;)
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 25, 2012, 12:25:07 am
What stage of evolution are you at?
Read further into the topic before making such offensive posts.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Gimli on June 25, 2012, 12:34:40 am
Read further into the topic before making such offensive posts.
I did, your turn. If someone thinks that the only way to discipline kids is to beat them up until they're almost dead, it's safe to assume that their brain has not evolved to a human level.

Scary to think that kids are being brought up like this in certain parts of the world.
The US borrowed names from lots of places. In fact, look at a random place in the US and you'll see tons of familiar names

For example: https://maps.google.co.uk/?ll=38.117272,-84.611206&spn=1.778343,2.469177&t=m&z=9
Frankfort, Versailles, Lancaster, Lebanon, Bagdad :D
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 25, 2012, 12:36:46 am
I did, your turn.
Clearly you didn't.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 25, 2012, 02:54:11 am
Clearly you didn't.

 :rofl: Your making yourself look like an even bigger moron bud.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Void on June 25, 2012, 04:40:59 am
We're living in a modern age where anything can go viral. This video is the perfect example.
People lash out easily, they are sensitive and can response fiercely due to their position: behind a PC monitor. No wonder videos like this "alarm us about the ever increasing problem of verbal abuse".

As EliteTerm said, whipping and such were easily applied conventional methods of dealing with problematic children. It was seen as a natural solution in the past.
If this happened in the past, the bus monitor would move along, choose another spot or simply spank one of the children as an example. As we see now, the bus monitor will probably take a vacation, seek professional help, talk about her failed life, discover deep thoughts, get diagnosed because she "feels depressed" and alternatively get prescribed heavy medications. The kids will be forced(along side their parents) to visit their local psychologist so he can determine their "problem", probably BPD or ODD. Years of therapies will pass, they will be labeled as social problems and everyone wins. They are tagged by the clinics, the government and the people online. After all, it's not their fault they are "retards" who take pills, right?

I strongly oppose physical abuse but I am astonished by today's methods of treating the very basic problems.

Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Dolfagr on June 25, 2012, 09:05:23 am
Ehhh you new world countries and your rights...

In Serbia for doing stupid shit, kids get theyre asses kicked (litterealy) by parents. They take a belt, and strike you with it for some time.
That is called "Physical punishment" AND IT WORKS LIKE A CHARM! Heck, it may hurted, but i am happy that i was raised that way. That stopped me from doing stupid shit, and i avoided lots of troubles that way.

I seriously dont get just "grounding" the kid. That has NO effect. With kids, diplomacy = WORST POLICY! Force = BEST POLICY! Rights smights yadda yadda yadda! I am 17, but, if my kid acted that way, id ground him + BEAT DA SHIT outta him, so he would NEVER AGAIN do such a thing (whell atleast untill he becomes 18 :/).

Anyway, i hope point taken. With kids ony policy is force, period.

I am sure people are not being raised like that where you live, maybe it's only you? If you want to exercise physical punishment start slapping your own face, it might alarm you from stop saying all this nonsense.

The main reason of adults having psychological problems when they're grown up is because of what their childhood was like. So unless you want your kid to be a loser when he grows up I'd not recommend physical punishment. I'd also look forward to see how your elderly age would be. Would you also teach your kids how to physical exercise on their children? No wonder your society has a bad rumor, justified or not.

I strongly oppose physical abuse but I am astonished by today's methods of treating the very basic problems

I now see what Old Stalin ment with  - No human, no problem. I am not justifying his methods but this quote can be very common in this modern era and use as example for many cases seen nowadays.

The whole topic goes to see what pricks the modern education system and society can raise. Today's punishing methods are if you have a problem, throw money at it, solve it. Let's hope we reach 2020 before killing each other off. I am not a conspiracy man, but seeing how "retarded" the new generation is coming out, I doubt 1 of 100 kids will have a decent life, and a decent job when he becomes an adult.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 25, 2012, 01:31:22 pm
You're actually sick in the head. Please, for the sake of everyone, go and get some professional help - because you sure as hell need it.

Oh, you'll find that if (and I sincerely hope you do not) you have children and beat them up as a form of discipline, when they're older and you try to lay your hands on them again, they'll snap back and give you a taste of your own medicine.

Ahh, now it all makes sense.

First i am too lazy to quote all:

YOU PEOPLE MAD?! 20-30 Years ago it was something that almoast EVERY parent did. Now it is child abuse? Now people who do it are psychoes? All who say that the ones who do it are "PSYCHOS", and that they should rot in jail for rest of theyre lives are simply idiots.
With kid first thing is diplomacy to get him in order. If (WHEN) it fails, BELT comes to first plan.

You can think all you can, you can say all you want, but, that is ONLY proper way to discipline KIDS OF TODAY! You seen em? Shure, i was a big idiot when i was 12-13, but thanks to my parents i am all good now. No grounding stopped me from doing crap. BELT stopped me. YOU ALL THINK that it is too crule, and abuse, but, when it ALL COMES TOGEATHER, and you look back to your past, and see that the thing that hurt you the most helped you the most in becoming disciplined, and whell behaved, you think that your parents did the right choice.

I stay with my bealiving diplomacy=WORS POLICY, and belt=BEST POLICY. Buzz around with your silly little posts of me being a psycho, an idiot or moron, I DONT GIVE A SHIT. Applying force HURT, but it made me think twice before i do something. It helped me.

@Dolfagr
WTF dude? seriously? Practice violence on kids? UMAD? First time kid gets beat, he calms down. Second time, when he does something bad, he gets beat with belt, he calms even more. THIRD TIME HE WONT EVEN TRY to do something bad. 2 times of 1 minute of pain can make kid behave good. Kid does not do anything bad anyomre, he doesnt get beat up. No "Beating up every day" carp, just when he is acting bad. Thats all.

P.S. When i say "KID" i only mean for BOYS. Girls NEVER, and thats it.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 25, 2012, 01:35:56 pm
:rofl: Your making yourself look like an even bigger moron bud.
If you don't understand what I meant to say, you're* the moron here.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Dutchy on June 25, 2012, 02:21:57 pm
Man if I was sitting in that bus... I wouldn't be able to type on this forum... I'd be sitting in a cell reading a book.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Void on June 25, 2012, 04:49:11 pm
First i am too lazy to quote all:

YOU PEOPLE MAD?! 20-30 Years ago it was something that almoast EVERY parent did. Now it is child abuse? Now people who do it are psychoes? All who say that the ones who do it are "PSYCHOS", and that they should rot in jail for rest of theyre lives are simply idiots.
With kid first thing is diplomacy to get him in order. If (WHEN) it fails, BELT comes to first plan.

You can think all you can, you can say all you want, but, that is ONLY proper way to discipline KIDS OF TODAY! You seen em? Shure, i was a big idiot when i was 12-13, but thanks to my parents i am all good now. No grounding stopped me from doing crap. BELT stopped me. YOU ALL THINK that it is too crule, and abuse, but, when it ALL COMES TOGEATHER, and you look back to your past, and see that the thing that hurt you the most helped you the most in becoming disciplined, and whell behaved, you think that your parents did the right choice.

I stay with my bealiving diplomacy=WORS POLICY, and belt=BEST POLICY. Buzz around with your silly little posts of me being a psycho, an idiot or moron, I DONT GIVE A SHIT. Applying force HURT, but it made me think twice before i do something. It helped me.

@Dolfagr
WTF dude? seriously? Practice violence on kids? UMAD? First time kid gets beat, he calms down. Second time, when he does something bad, he gets beat with belt, he calms even more. THIRD TIME HE WONT EVEN TRY to do something bad. 2 times of 1 minute of pain can make kid behave good. Kid does not do anything bad anyomre, he doesnt get beat up. No "Beating up every day" carp, just when he is acting bad. Thats all.

P.S. When i say "KID" i only mean for BOYS. Girls NEVER, and thats it.
My neighbors next door have a 4 year old girl. They are good parents but both work with a hard tempo. So they sometimes leave her at my place. Every time she comes over, I can assure myself I had a good reason to laugh and act like a fool around others with socks on my hand and playing with dolls. I can't say much because she's not my child but I sense this parenting stuff a bit.
You'll see everything much better when you get to have children. At least I hope you'll see.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 25, 2012, 04:58:56 pm
Applying force HURT, but it made me think twice before i do something. It helped me.

And it turned you in to child who still hold beliefs from the dark ages, think violence is a good thing, and has become hated by a ton of people in this community.. man, hitting your kids must be such a good thing if they turn out like you.  :roll:

Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 27, 2012, 01:15:15 pm
YOU PEOPLE MAD?! 20-30 Years ago it was something that almoast EVERY parent did. Now it is child abuse? Now people who do it are psychoes?

No. Only in Serbia.

The fact that Serbian parents strike their children is probably the reason why your Human Development Index is so low.

Norway = 1.
Serbia = 60.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 27, 2012, 09:27:42 pm
No. Only in Serbia.

The fact that Serbian parents strike their children is probably the reason why your Human Development Index is so low.

Norway = 1.
Serbia = 60.

Mexico is higher then Serbia  :rofl:
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 27, 2012, 10:24:57 pm
Only in Serbia.
Bullshit of the day.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 27, 2012, 11:17:22 pm
Bullshit of the day.

I'm talking about the western civilization, right now, in 2012.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 28, 2012, 02:16:25 am
I'm talking about the western civilization, right now, in 2012.

I don't think they are aware of century we are in, you might want to slow down a bit, give him time to adjust to what your trying to say.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: JayL on June 28, 2012, 02:41:56 am
Oh what do I see here... High development country people shitting on other peoples because someone is not behaving like they expect? Where is your high HDI education to teach you that you do not speak shit of a country cause you read what someone from there wrote on the internet?

Next ''smartass'' who throws such shit is going to get a ban.

And to end:

The fact that Serbian parents strike their children is probably the reason why your Human Development Index is so low.

In Serbia I think there is not people who go on rampages then spend rest of their lives doing nothing in a 3-star hotel prison at the expense of population...

And Aleksandr - I suggest you reconsider the way you are exposing your thoughts...
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 28, 2012, 08:38:13 am
Where is your high HDI education to teach you that you do not speak shit of a country cause you read what someone from there wrote on the internet?


Implying United Nations statistics are not accurate representations of a country.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: JayL on June 28, 2012, 05:24:36 pm
Implying United Nations statistics are not accurate representations of a country.

They are not. They're median statistics. Median statistics can go well with some countries but it is far away from being a fully accurate meter for every country, and the UN admits that. Which leads me to repeating my question that you misinterpreted - where is your ''high HDI'' education which you boast so much about? Or did you not go to school?
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Nathan_Alexandrov on June 28, 2012, 05:32:51 pm
Back to the topic of this "Monitor"...

Warning a rant is coming if you don't want to see it DO NOT read this post

People like this piss me off so much for many reasons.. Firstly she has taken a job which requires a mental shield against insults or curses whatever, she clearly lacks this. She then fails her jobs duty of keeping order on the bus. The worst part is she then moans about it! See you might be thinking that's a bit harsh to say well no it is not, why? Because there are people around the world who have had it much fucking worse than her... I'll take a few examples from my old job with the NHS Direct....

Just for a few who don't know what my job was I was a Paramedic and this is the kind of shit I got..

Various insults from people if I could not save someone a good example being when I arrived at a scene where a car had hit a child, the child had been dead long before we arrived, I pronounced him dead and requested an additional unit to transport the body, during this myself and my colleague were hailed insults by this one woman, my personal favorite was "you fucking cunts! Learn to do your fucking job!" This seems to be protocol to anyone watching paramedics work shout and scream at them they will work faster...
Physical abuse ranging from a punch in the face to a knife in the shoulder..

More insults for not giving someone the drug they called us for.

There's few others that I really cannot be bothered to bring up.

In conclusion shes actually got an easy job, throw some kids of a bus, keep them silent, piss easy so I don't know why the fuck shes getting all upset about a few insults. Apologies if I have offended some people but that's the way the world is and if she cant take it tough.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on June 28, 2012, 07:57:03 pm
They are not. They're median statistics. Median statistics can go well with some countries but it is far away from being a fully accurate meter for every country, and the UN admits that. Which leads me to repeating my question that you misinterpreted - where is your ''high HDI'' education which you boast so much about? Or did you not go to school?

>Tells people to stop provoking other countries and threatens to ban them
>Starts provoking the education system of said people

Cool story bro, great of you to lead by example.

To answer your question, education has taught me enough to allow me to differentiate the difference between a country who society is stuck in the dark ages, with a modern 21st century society that has evolved out of the need to act like cavemen.

And you'll be example of insisting on bullshitting others after warning. Banned for 3 days from forum. - JayL
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: JayL on June 28, 2012, 08:19:25 pm
>Tells people to stop provoking other countries and threatens to ban them
>Starts provoking the education system of said people

Not really, I was just surprised to see someone from Canada write this load of bullshit and wanted to find out why...
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: ElMartu on June 28, 2012, 08:27:14 pm
No. Only in Serbia.

The fact that Serbian parents strike their children is probably the reason why your Human Development Index is so low.

Norway = 1.
Serbia = 60.

yeah it must be because of some parents beating kids up instead of the constant wars the country has been in
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Void on June 28, 2012, 09:18:58 pm
yeah it must be because of some parents beating kids up instead of the constant wars the country has been in
Finally, someone smart in this thread.
Enjoy our brain drain North America and Scandinavia.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 28, 2012, 09:46:00 pm
Finally, someone smart in this thread.
Enjoy our brain drain North America and Scandinavia.

Constant wars, yet, Slovenia is in the EU, has a developed markedeconomy and got a high ranked HDI.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 28, 2012, 10:11:46 pm
No. Only in Serbia.

The fact that Serbian parents strike their children is probably the reason why your Human Development Index is so low.

Norway = 1.
Serbia = 60.

Bullshit. I got some feeling that if in norway your kid comes home drunk and high on weed you just gonna "talk the problem out".

Id personnaly beat da shit out of da kid.

P.S. This was just an example.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Void on June 28, 2012, 10:44:52 pm
Constant wars, yet, Slovenia is in the EU, has a developed markedeconomy and got a high ranked HDI.
Slovenia? War? Are you serious? You're from Norway. Don't spew words about things you know nothing about. (inb4 I have a house in Slovenia)
Slovenia was in the war but for 18 days. They never had any armed conflicts with rebels or foreign armies whatsoever. The only embargo they had was weapons embargo. On the other hand, Croatia suffered 15,000 killed, a 30 milliard Euros of damage and mass emigration.

Slovenia didn't even feel the word "war". Ever.
Plus, they dispute our EU debut over a few kilometers of coastline that was always ours. If it wasn't for countries like Croatia and Serbia, our Slovenian friends would be named Muhammad beg-Janez Turk. The whole Balkan region has been in constant wars for hundreds of years since we were puppets of yours truly.

Bless the European ignorance.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 28, 2012, 10:47:41 pm
Slovenia? War? Are you serious? You're from Norway. Don't spew things you know nothing about.
Slovenia was in the war but for 18 days. They never had any armed conflicts with rebels or foreign armies whatsoever. The only embargo they had was weapons embargo. On the other hand, Croatia suffered 15,000 killed, a 30 milliard Euros of damage and mass emigration.

Slovenia didn't even feel the word "war". Ever.
Plus, they dispute our EU debut over a few kilometers of water that was always ours. If it wasn't for countries like Croatia and Serbia our Slovenian friends would be named Muhammad al-Janez.

Bless the European ignorance.


AMEN!

If there was no for Serbs, Bosnians and Croats youd all be going to mosques now!
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 28, 2012, 10:49:36 pm
AMEN!

If there was no for Serbs, Bosnians and Croats youd all be going to mosques now!

And how exactly is that negative?
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Void on June 28, 2012, 10:50:01 pm
Lets just proceed on topic. Apologies for the derail.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 28, 2012, 10:53:41 pm
And how exactly is that negative?

I do not recall posting anything that has to do anything with negativity. What are you talking about, srsly?
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 28, 2012, 10:53:54 pm
Lets just proceed on topic. Apologies for the derail.

You're not afraid of everything except Orthodox christianity, are you?
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 28, 2012, 10:57:03 pm
You're not afraid of everything except Orthodox christianity, are you?

I am Orthodox, and WHAT DA FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? Afraid of what? Seriously, make your posts more clear. How can i be afraid of Orthodoxy when i am an orthodox myself.

Seriously?  :trust: :trust: :trust: :trust: :trust:
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 28, 2012, 10:58:15 pm
I am Orthodox, and WHAT DA f**k ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? Afraid of what? Seriously, make your posts more clear. How can i be afraid of Orthodoxy when i am an orthodox myself.

Seriously?  :trust: :trust: :trust: :trust: :trust:

I see no trust in the Serbian school.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 28, 2012, 11:00:19 pm
I see no trust in the Serbian school.

"No trust in Serbian school"?

WTF does that have to do with any of this? Seriously, GTFO me if youre not gonna act seriously.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 28, 2012, 11:01:22 pm
"No trust in Serbian school"?

WTF does that have to do with any of this? Seriously, GTFO me if youre not gonna act seriously.

I said everything EXCEPT orthodox christianity.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 28, 2012, 11:03:40 pm
I said everything EXCEPT orthodox christianity.

Can you be kind and please give me the answer to following:

WHAT DA FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 28, 2012, 11:05:56 pm
Can you be kind and please give me the answer to following:

WHAT DA f**k ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!

Seriously, I give up on you.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Pandalink on June 28, 2012, 11:25:43 pm
Bullshit. I got some feeling that if in norway your kid comes home drunk and high on weed you just gonna "talk the problem out".
Problem?
What problem..?

Id personnaly beat da shit out of da kid.
Yea, but you're a violent person who would make a f**king shit father, so that's just a given.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 28, 2012, 11:34:12 pm
Problem?
What problem..?
Yea, but you're a violent person who would make a f**king shit father, so that's just a given.

For you seeing your kid coming home high on weed and drunk isnt a problem, and isnt a situation to beat da shit outta your kid?

For real? Than WHAT is a problem according to you? (and me having that additude is not a proper answer).
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 28, 2012, 11:35:46 pm
For you seeing your kid coming home high on weed and drunk isnt a problem, and isnt a situation to beat da shit outta your kid?

For real? Than WHAT is a problem according to you? (and me having that additude is not a proper answer).

There is NO problem big enough to attack your son in a violent way. NEVER.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 28, 2012, 11:38:00 pm
There is NO problem big enough to attack your son in a violent way. NEVER.

Dafuq am i reading?

Ok, here is a problem for beating your child (that will fit even your standards).

In modern days, usage of drugs is growing every day.

Tell me that you wouldnt BEAT DA SHIT outta your son if he came home, drugged with heroin?
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 28, 2012, 11:39:30 pm
Dafuq am i reading?

Ok, here is a problem for beating your child (that will fit even your standards).

In modern days, usage of drugs is growing every day.

Tell me that you wouldnt BEAT DA SHIT outta your son if he came home, drugged with heroin?

Hahah, you sound like a fucking psyco :lol:
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 28, 2012, 11:41:35 pm
Hahah, you sound like a f**king psyco :lol:

I can sound any way i want, but what i just stated is preaty much hars, crule reality. It is just impossible to explain to you, is it?
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 28, 2012, 11:43:55 pm
I can sound any way i want, but what i just stated is preaty much hars, crule reality. It is just impossible to explain to you, is it?

As I said...

There is NO problem big enough to attack your son in a violent way. NEVER.

In modern days there are free assistance institutions for people with drug issues. I would deffinately send my son there, and help him trough it, instead of striking him. Hitting your own child is just insane.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 28, 2012, 11:46:37 pm
As I said...

In modern days there are free assistance institutions for people with drug issues. I would deffinately send my son there, and help him trough it, instead of striking him. Hitting your own child is just insane.

Hmmm, very interesting... Just 20 years ago it was an ordinary thing used all across the world. Now ofcourse the System tells you to change your beliefs and you do it... You people... I just dont have any more comments.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 28, 2012, 11:48:13 pm
Hmmm, very interesting... Just 20 years ago it was an ordinary thing used all across the world. Now ofcourse the System tells you to change your beliefs and you do it... You people... I just dont have any more comments.

This is 2012, not 1992.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Void on June 28, 2012, 11:52:46 pm
Aksel, understand that not all people in the world are the same.
About me being trustful about certain things: Orthodox Christianity is practiced only by the minority. I respect all minorities in my country. Plus, I am not religious.

Pandalink: Child coming home drunk or high is not a beautiful sight for parents, I must agree with him. That makes it a problem for them. We are still young and "foolish". We are not in position to discuss fatherhood as we have not yet experienced the blessing of it. Aleksandar might have used sharp words but we don't know much about him personally other than his radical words.

Again to Aksel: Pandalink, SafetyMoose and yourself come from countries much more developed than a country in southeast Europe. That's why you have different or even contrasting opinions on certain topics. I will just state that I am not politically correct in some subjects but I avoid openly expressing my opinion because I don't want to hurt members of the community or stir a verbal fight. We all need to keep our opinions to ourselves, especially the radical ones. That's what Aleksandar didn't know or either forgot.

The world is not black and white.

Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Nathan_Alexandrov on June 28, 2012, 11:55:15 pm
Aleksander you have spoken about shooting people in your past posts I'm sorry but it seems your the one who needs to be shot, I hope you don't live long enough to spawn children, you seem to be lacking the chemicals to produce emotions for others and that needless to say is a very, very bad thing. With people like you around countries like Serbia are stuck with their world status for being well, shit.

Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 28, 2012, 11:58:08 pm
This is 2012, not 1992.

You know there is a rap group in Serbia name Belgrade Syndicate. Theyre songs are commited to making fun of system and goverment. One of theyre songs has the following lyrics.

AND I QUOTE:

"Everything has became fashon, these are the devils ages, and nothing is now more important tha how much something costs!"

Now the most useful part:

"TURN OFF THAT PROGRAME BEFORE THEY WASH YOUR BRAIN, THINK WITH YOUR OWN HEAD, THAT IS REAL FREEDOM!".

Now think about that lyrics, and think about the system. After a bit of brain action it will all come to its place.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Nathan_Alexandrov on June 29, 2012, 12:02:01 am
I truly believe there is no hope with this twisted creature.

Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 29, 2012, 12:06:42 am
If real freedom is striking your own child, I wish you to go back in the Jugoslavian union.

I truly believe there is no hope with this twisted creature.



As void said we have diffrent opinions. For example, you think that child coming home drunk and high is not a problem. I think that is idiotic. You thinkt that beating your kid for that is twisted. I think that your opinion is stupid. I mean WTF, i should gratz him for that?

I am too tired to argue cause it is 00:00 and i have to wake up at 4:00 AM in order to go to a trip with my family. Make this quick, that is wrap it up fast, i gotta hit the bed.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 29, 2012, 12:09:54 am
As void said we have diffrent opinions. For example, you think that child coming home drunk and high is not a problem. I think that is idiotic. You thinkt that beating your kid for that is twisted. I think that your opinion is stupid. I mean WTF, i should gratz him for that?

I am too tired to argue cause it is 00:00 and i have to wake up at 4:00 AM in order to go to a trip with my family. Make this quick, that is wrap it up fast, i gotta hit the bed.

There is no reason to congratulate him for that, but you can talk to him as an adult as soon as he sobers up. No reason to do as your psycopathic father and strike him to death. I hope you enjoy your trip. Just watch out for the iron fist.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: aleksandar_gojkovic on June 29, 2012, 12:13:18 am
There is no reason to congratulate him for that, but you can talk to him as an adult as soon as he sobers up. No reason to do as your psycopathic father and strike him to death. I hope you enjoy your trip. Just watch out for the iron fist.

Yea, amma enjoy my trip, just hope the cooling works :P

Aigh people, good night, i will continoue this discussion tomorrow, or the day after tomorrow, when i take a big nice rest from everything.

Aigh, peace!
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Pandalink on June 29, 2012, 01:04:12 am
For you seeing your kid coming home high on weed and drunk isnt a problem, and isnt a situation to beat da shit outta your kid?
What the f**k? Of course not.
Where is your problem with that? I would go to measures to ensure that these things were done with (relative) maturity and safety and that would be all.

Just for reference, what age are you imagining the child to be in this scenario?

For real? Than WHAT is a problem according to you?
I dunno, maybe if my child broke the law (as in a law that actually matters). I still wouldn't f**king "beat the shit out of them" though.

Tell me that you wouldnt BEAT DA SHIT outta your son if he came home, drugged with heroin?
Wow, not even a little bit. What the fucking hell would that even achieve? Someone on heroin is someone seriously in need of help and I'm supposed to (as their parent, I might add) assault them?
you sound like a f**king psyco
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 29, 2012, 05:53:33 pm
The Eastern European countries may laugh at the Western system, and the Western countries may laugh at the Eastern European system.
Like Void said:

The world is not black and white.

Ever country has their own way of doing things.
Now some people in this topic say things like "You're a bad pscyho" for hitting your children.
The ones that would rather hit their children again laugh at the ones not doing this.
It's not that Eastern European countries are less developed or still live in the past, it's because it gives success.
Aleksandar is probably over exaggerating when he uses the term "beating up".
I believe he means slightly striking the kid to scare him and not purposely hurt him.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Gandalf on June 29, 2012, 06:15:52 pm
It is easy to see in which countries the child protection has gone haywire.

There is no reason to ever hit your child in anger, and certainly no reason to hit in such way that there is even temporary physical damage.
Having said that, a child has to know that there are consequences for its behaviour. And having a nice talk with your dad who usually ignores you is a reward, not a punishment.  :lol:
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 29, 2012, 06:25:20 pm
There is no reason to ever hit your child in anger
Indeed, not out of anger but to learn him how to behave in the future and teach him that he should stay away from bad things.

certainly no reason to hit in such way that there is even temporary physical damage.
Serious damage to the body is of course not the way to do it, but just slapping him so that it doesn't even scare the kid has no effect and there is no point in doing it. If you do it that is.

with your dad who usually ignores you is a reward, not a punishment.  :lol:
True.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Void on June 29, 2012, 06:30:53 pm
but just slapping him so that it doesn't even scare the kid has no effect and there is no point in doing it.
Slapping or any other form of physical damage will always have effect.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 29, 2012, 06:38:57 pm
Slapping or any other form of physical damage will always have effect.
But what if you slap the kid and it laughs? Will it have effect?
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Void on June 29, 2012, 06:47:09 pm
But what if you slap the kid and it laughs? Will it have effect?
Have you ever been in a crowd of strangers in a party/club or simply school festivals? Someone would notice you eventually and would like to get to know you. Maybe you found a friend talking to people you don't know? All of the sudden you're friendly, make excellent jokes, have this really positive behavior and everyone is exchanging numbers/facebook with you or such. You're not really that kind of guy and that "thing" was not even distinctive in your behavior? You were "not you"?
That's one of many ways to react on stress/traumatic experiences. Our body is a wonderful bloody tomb.

Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 29, 2012, 11:31:07 pm
If beating up your children is "okay" in Serbia, then alright, I'll make sure to stay out of that country.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: McGarrett on June 29, 2012, 11:34:54 pm
I saw this video on Ray William Johnson's latest video. Basically, it is not only americans that does this. It is way many other countries as well. I believe this happens because of bad parenting. When you give your children free limits, they will step on everyone and think they are much more special than others.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 29, 2012, 11:56:32 pm
If beating up your children is "okay" in Serbia, then alright, I'll make sure to stay out of that country.
You are missing the point and you don't seem too interested in it.
What do you think of when you read "beating up"? The father punching the kid in his face?
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 30, 2012, 12:19:23 am
You are missing the point and you don't seem too interested in it.
What do you think of when you read "beating up"? The father punching the kid in his face?

Thats pretty much how you describe it. I take examples in how you present it.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 30, 2012, 12:21:48 am
Thats pretty much how you describe it.
Really?

slightly striking the kid to scare him and not purposely hurt him.

Serious damage to the body is of course not the way to do it
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 30, 2012, 12:24:20 am
Really?


You complain that your country is underdeveloped because of violence, yet, you attack your own family. I really, really, really don't understand you Serbs/Croatians.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Void on June 30, 2012, 12:30:13 am
You complain that your country is underdeveloped because of violence, yet, you attack your own family. I really, really, really don't understand you Serbs/Croatians.
They are both from Serbia. Don't mix the two nations.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 30, 2012, 12:31:30 am
They are both from Serbia. Don't mix the two nations.

You're involved too, brade
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 30, 2012, 12:32:01 am
You complain that your country is underdeveloped because of violence, yet, you attack your own family. I really, really, really don't understand you Serbs/Croatians.

I believe he means slightly striking the kid to scare him and not purposely hurt him.
Striking a kid =/= violence.
Have you read about or seen violence in Serbia or Croatia?
If you tell someone there that striking a kid for doing something bad is violence they would laugh.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on June 30, 2012, 12:32:58 am
Striking a kid =/= violence.
Have you read about or seen violence in Serbia or Croatia?
If you tell someone there that striking a kid for doing something bad is violence they would laugh.

Quote
Violence is defined by the World Health Organization as the intentional use of physical force or power

Of course they would laugh. It's normal in Serbia.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Void on June 30, 2012, 12:35:05 am
You're involved too, brade
Correct, I am involved in this topic, not in Aksel's geography class. You can clearly see from my posts that I oppose said methods.
I would also suggest you stop generalizing Serbs as child molesting people. It's not too nice towards other Serb users.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on June 30, 2012, 12:36:32 am
Of course they would laugh. It's normal in Serbia.
Indeed it is, and in many other countries.
I don't see what is wrong with it. It teaches you what's good and bad.
Again, hitting a kid out of anger is not the same as scaring him to prevent him from doing something bad in the future.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Alarba on June 30, 2012, 02:21:23 am
Striking a kid =/= violence.
:eek:
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Teddy on June 30, 2012, 02:37:39 am
As much as I normally don't agree,Squeak does have a point here. These kids have no sense of discipline due to the new laws that prevent old fashioned punishments from taking place. But I can tell you, if these kids had discipline the old fashioned way, they wouldn't dare say anything to that lady that didn't include the word mam at the end, and to be clear I'm not saying to physically beat them to hurt them, more to teach them a lesson.

This isn't just America either, this shit happens in other countries too; New York is a rough place, and some of the areas in it are some of the roughest locations in the world. This isn't really shocking this would come out this area. I live only 3 hours from this place, to think this shit went down that close is disgraceful.

I mean hell, we all make think to ourselves "Gee, that guy is different"; Sure its to ourselves, but when you start using that to attack others and insult them, especially an elderly lady, that's just f*ckin low. Shows these kids have lack of care, and have some of the shittiest parents possible.

Just my input.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Nathan_Alexandrov on June 30, 2012, 04:45:22 pm
I've started referring to some of the kids I see as feral its getting that bad, take for example the ones who call 999 claiming there as a man on the floor dying.. They then Ambush responding paramedics (myself) in hope of stealing medicine. Some kids these days have nothing going for them and never will..
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: JayL on July 01, 2012, 02:38:16 am
If a child screws itself on drugs, then that one has weak parents.

As every day we buy more and more that book called Learning To Live With Uncle Sam, getting breast implants and owning more and more people becomes far more important than looking after own family. After all, give some young girl cash and she will take care of your children better than you is what Uncle Sam teaches us...

This is just an example, but although it varies from place to place it all has to do with people buying the idea that something is more important than raising children... And they become weak parents...

So eh, if you are not a weak parent or don't judge yourself a potential one, is it really worth discussing this so much?
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Aksel on July 01, 2012, 02:15:16 pm
By the way, they have gathered over $650 000 now.
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Ratko Gavrilovic on July 01, 2012, 04:42:44 pm
By the way, they have gathered over $650 000 now.
That's one hell of a holiday for that woman..
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: SafetyMoose on July 01, 2012, 09:02:56 pm
ITT: People who don't have kids or experienced a domestic situation giving parenting advice  :roll:
Title: Re: Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim
Post by: Teddy on July 02, 2012, 12:18:30 pm
ITT: People who don't have kids or experienced a domestic situation giving parenting advice  :roll:

+ 1

Luckily, I am experienced as an educator & child service provider. I've worked with children for about 4 and half years now and I can tell you speaking to many parents; todays "child protection" laws prevent a lot of stern (not abusive) punishments these parents got when they were children, which shaped them into respective adolescence. 
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