Internet raise over $300,000 for bus monitor bully victim

[aleksandar_gojkovic]

There is no reason to congratulate him for that, but you can talk to him as an adult as soon as he sobers up. No reason to do as your psycopathic father and strike him to death. I hope you enjoy your trip. Just watch out for the iron fist.

Yea, amma enjoy my trip, just hope the cooling works :P

Aigh people, good night, i will continoue this discussion tomorrow, or the day after tomorrow, when i take a big nice rest from everything.

Aigh, peace!

[Pandalink]

For you seeing your kid coming home high on weed and drunk isnt a problem, and isnt a situation to beat da shit outta your kid?

What the f**k? Of course not.
Where is your problem with that? I would go to measures to ensure that these things were done with (relative) maturity and safety and that would be all.

Just for reference, what age are you imagining the child to be in this scenario?

For real? Than WHAT is a problem according to you?

I dunno, maybe if my child broke the law (as in a law that actually matters). I still wouldn't f**king "beat the shit out of them" though.

Tell me that you wouldnt BEAT DA SHIT outta your son if he came home, drugged with heroin?

Wow, not even a little bit. What the fucking hell would that even achieve? Someone on heroin is someone seriously in need of help and I'm supposed to (as their parent, I might add) assault them?

you sound like a f**king psyco

[Ratko Gavrilovic]

The Eastern European countries may laugh at the Western system, and the Western countries may laugh at the Eastern European system.
Like Void said:

The world is not black and white.

Ever country has their own way of doing things.
Now some people in this topic say things like "You're a bad pscyho" for hitting your children.
The ones that would rather hit their children again laugh at the ones not doing this.
It's not that Eastern European countries are less developed or still live in the past, it's because it gives success.
Aleksandar is probably over exaggerating when he uses the term "beating up".
I believe he means slightly striking the kid to scare him and not purposely hurt him.

[Gandalf]

It is easy to see in which countries the child protection has gone haywire.

There is no reason to ever hit your child in anger, and certainly no reason to hit in such way that there is even temporary physical damage.
Having said that, a child has to know that there are consequences for its behaviour. And having a nice talk with your dad who usually ignores you is a reward, not a punishment. 

[Ratko Gavrilovic]

There is no reason to ever hit your child in anger

Indeed, not out of anger but to learn him how to behave in the future and teach him that he should stay away from bad things.

certainly no reason to hit in such way that there is even temporary physical damage.

Serious damage to the body is of course not the way to do it, but just slapping him so that it doesn't even scare the kid has no effect and there is no point in doing it. If you do it that is.

with your dad who usually ignores you is a reward, not a punishment. 

True.

[Void]

but just slapping him so that it doesn't even scare the kid has no effect and there is no point in doing it.

Slapping or any other form of physical damage will always have effect.

[Ratko Gavrilovic]

Slapping or any other form of physical damage will always have effect.

But what if you slap the kid and it laughs? Will it have effect?

[Void]

But what if you slap the kid and it laughs? Will it have effect?

Have you ever been in a crowd of strangers in a party/club or simply school festivals? Someone would notice you eventually and would like to get to know you. Maybe you found a friend talking to people you don't know? All of the sudden you're friendly, make excellent jokes, have this really positive behavior and everyone is exchanging numbers/facebook with you or such. You're not really that kind of guy and that "thing" was not even distinctive in your behavior? You were "not you"?
That's one of many ways to react on stress/traumatic experiences. Our body is a wonderful bloody tomb.

[Aksel]

If beating up your children is "okay" in Serbia, then alright, I'll make sure to stay out of that country.

[McGarrett]

I saw this video on Ray William Johnson's latest video. Basically, it is not only americans that does this. It is way many other countries as well. I believe this happens because of bad parenting. When you give your children free limits, they will step on everyone and think they are much more special than others.

[Ratko Gavrilovic]

If beating up your children is "okay" in Serbia, then alright, I'll make sure to stay out of that country.

You are missing the point and you don't seem too interested in it.
What do you think of when you read "beating up"? The father punching the kid in his face?

[Aksel]

You are missing the point and you don't seem too interested in it.
What do you think of when you read "beating up"? The father punching the kid in his face?

Thats pretty much how you describe it. I take examples in how you present it.

[Ratko Gavrilovic]

Thats pretty much how you describe it.

Really?

slightly striking the kid to scare him and not purposely hurt him.

Serious damage to the body is of course not the way to do it

[Aksel]

Really?

You complain that your country is underdeveloped because of violence, yet, you attack your own family. I really, really, really don't understand you Serbs/Croatians.

[Void]

You complain that your country is underdeveloped because of violence, yet, you attack your own family. I really, really, really don't understand you Serbs/Croatians.

They are both from Serbia. Don't mix the two nations.