I mean, I just asked and since people are being more open about this, I'm sure there's no harm in being open if you are or aren't. I just find it so absurd for people to be so defensive about the most littlest of things such as questions, when the person is just asking and not doing anything else.
I didn't think or imply you were asking what you asked out of malice or ill intent, sorry if what I said made you feel this way if it did.
I simply wanted let you know that people wildly vary between what they are comfortable being open about with different people. Some would feel comfortable participating in LGBTQ friendly spaces, but would not feel comfortable outright saying or labeling themselves as LGBTQ, and others would be the opposite. Both are fine and should be respected as pride also includes people who are closeted.
That was pointed at your reply, sure he doesn't have to but he can say it himself, no? Don't you think?
I did not answer on behalf of anyone, I only pointed out that you were coming off in a way that can easily be considered rude, and wanted to respectfully let you know that.
Anyway, I'm gonna avoid ruining this topic.
Lets do that.