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Reply #30 on: September 12, 2008, 11:32:56 pm
err...
OK I Used to be one of the guys who would pick on the shall we say "nerdy" people, I've learned though that people like that most the time dont end up where they plan to be. they end up failing a grade or two, getting kicked out of school etc. etc.
I Think you should just focus on your education, If you keep having trouble approach a teacher after class and talk to him about it.
And i cant believe I'm about to say this...but i agree with stiffler.
Stand up for yourself. Some kid called me a fag one day and my response was "why? you interested?" and he shut up.
Just dont take shit from anyone, and don't let them know it bothers you, Walk into school with your head held high.
Like Ron says, your there for a education, not to be liked.



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Reply #31 on: September 12, 2008, 11:57:26 pm
- David, let your ego take over for a bit and TAKE NO F*CKING SHIT! If you have nothing to lose just go for it.
- A Social life is very important, you should try very hard to get one.
- Fuck that if I was you I wouldn't even come to school, just sort something out and see if you can study at home or something.



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Reply #32 on: September 13, 2008, 12:09:18 am
Well, David, I feel sorry for you, really do. Though, I don't really have any good advice as I've never even been near that kind of position, but the teen years is hard indeed. Stand up for yourself, go out, even if you don't know how you do it. Talk to people who isn't that aggresive, and maybe are more like you. Studying, nice, no thoughts about being the most popular of all the kids, you know. Btw, you'll prolly earn big bucks later on, you'll see mate.

I'm surprised so many is in the same situation here, I've never seen it in my school. Maybe just because they do it when they're alone..




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Reply #33 on: September 13, 2008, 12:12:35 am
I've noticed something in my school, and it can be put into a chart:

P - 10
O              /
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      STUPIDITY

Basically, the popular ones are stupid and the punching bags are really smart. You shoulld be glad you are unpopular because in a few years yu will be working for a respected company in marketing or something and making lots of money, and your bullies will be serving you your lunch.

I'm not even angry
i'm being so sincere right now
even though you broke my heart and killed me.


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Reply #34 on: September 13, 2008, 12:20:32 am
Basically, the popular ones are stupid and the punching bags are really smart. You shoulld be glad you are unpopular because in a few years yu will be working for a respected company in marketing or something and making lots of money, and your bullies will be serving you your lunch.

Thats steriotypical :devroll:



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Reply #35 on: September 13, 2008, 12:29:48 am
Wise words from all...seriously



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Reply #36 on: September 13, 2008, 01:30:45 am
Wise words from all...seriously


What else should u expect? A lot of people in Argo have good advice and are happy to share it. You got a problem and we'll probably fix it ;)

I'm not even angry
i'm being so sincere right now
even though you broke my heart and killed me.


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Reply #37 on: September 13, 2008, 09:43:32 am
mate, your not the only one, and james is %100 correct,
i was like you in year 7. Everyone hated me, i didnt have very friends and i did nothing on weekends
i allways got bullied and got beeten up etc.

all changed, try to get with a few of the people that hate you, like clubs, join a club that they are in, dont talk to them or anything, stick on your own and do well. if you do better than them, they try to stick around with you more cuz youw ill be known as the good one, everyone wants to be friends with someone in high places or exxelent at something.

i was hated, i had like 2 friends in my school.
then i joined my schools local rugby club, this was were all the strong and high people were.
i beeted the shit out of all of them in the tackles, and the tries, i was the new boy that was the best. i was the first player on the A team, after that, i go tmore friends, i started hanging round with more hard nuts and thats were it began.

do what i said, you will get better.
trust me

(aragorn has the best tips tho, try his first, mine was writen in 5 mins cus i had to go ;))



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Reply #38 on: September 13, 2008, 10:24:22 am
I was not hated, and I was not loved.
I just did not care. If people were friendly, I would be friendly. If they were not, I would just ignore them.

I do not need a lot of friends, or try to be popular. All I did was being myself, and I did not care if people liked it or not.
This made me uncatchable, as I would never react to bullying tactics, just go my own way.

Do not get depressed. In life you will meet many people who do not like you, and you will meet many people that you do not like.
Keep the ones that like you and that you like, as for the rest, treat them like you want to be treated.

Do not try too hard to make friends, those who like you will come to you.

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Reply #39 on: September 13, 2008, 02:26:11 pm
Gandlaf is totally right..

My suggestion to you is;
Invest in you're studies at this time,
Get ready for the future, don't look back, and don't see what you don't have, look on what you do have..

When you'll get a good job, and you'll be friendly, you'll have friends.
If somebody is being friendly with you, and he seems like a nice person, be friend with him, and ignore the bullies...

If you need someone to talk to, you can always find me on skype or msn (if i'm not out of the house =P) skype (which i'm online on the most): Dmitry_Killer, or by RL name: Dmitry Rosen-Halfon .
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Reply #40 on: September 13, 2008, 02:58:12 pm
Man, Has happened to me and still does, dont take no sh*t man i was copping their abuse for about a couple of months or so and then i started karate to help defend me, somebody grabbed me by the neck one day for no reason watsoever and i could beat him. Build up all the rage that they have given you and just unleash it whenever they touch you. They don't really bother me anymore apart from sometimes when they yell out things and hide behind year 12s but other than that its all good.

The best thing about the fights are that you always have a story to tell the principal/coord. You can always say that he abused you and he has been bagging the living hell outta u. That is if the fight gets reported. Not under ANY circumstances go to a teacher that makes everything worse.

Believe me i know what it's like, i was beaten so low and depressed to the biggest length ever i started to feel suicidal, i used to sit in class and just sleep wishing the world would all be over but then when i got some confidence in myself i found that there was much more to learn and live for. Good luck man hope it all gets solved



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Reply #41 on: September 13, 2008, 03:00:49 pm
My advice is.. Get a job, most likely you make friends there, go on a sport or get a cool hobby..



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Reply #42 on: September 13, 2008, 03:09:48 pm
Basically, the popular ones are stupid

Wrong.
At school, i'm popular, but i'm in all the top classes, get the good marks, do my homework and all that shit. The key to getting friends is developing a personality that people might find funny, or maybe cute, nice, smart, etc.
I used to be a complete and utter dickhead to everyone, probably because i never developed proper social skills until year 7, but I picked it all up. And I must say, mostly because of the internet. I learnt witty jokes, i developed a "Funny guy" personality, and me being a smart ass to people and not caring what they though has gotten me quickly into the popular group. I'm not dumb, i'm not stupid, but I simply find out which part of me people like, and constantly showcase that part.

If someone messes with you, go to your year/form coordinator, tell them, ask to be anonymous, and if someone confronts you saying "WHAT THE F..K MAN WHY'D YOU TELL ON ME", say "what? i didn't tell on you, why the f..k would i do that"
Or maybe leave a note on your coordinators desk, just do not let yourself keep getting bullied.
I was bullied in: Kinder, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7. I know how all this shit is, and it's not good to keep letting it happen.

Also, buy some dumbells and work out every night. Getting me some niiice muscles  :D



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Reply #43 on: September 13, 2008, 03:20:09 pm
My advice is.. Get a job, most likely you make friends there, go on a sport or get a cool hobby..

Agree

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Basically, the popular ones are stupid

Wrong,
I was one of the most popular guys on my  old school, That doesnt mean that im stupid..

Also, if you are good at your class or not doesnt effect the popularity and friends...

A girld, that was the best at grades on school had only 2 friend.. and i got more than 30 in the school.. And im the one of those that dont study...





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Reply #44 on: September 13, 2008, 04:11:08 pm
From each and everyone one here has given great advice. So good luck David at School.


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