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Title: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Exterminator on July 30, 2011, 09:39:52 am
Need help..theres a boy who bullies me in school
Daily i said nothing but when i hit him today he even cornered me near my home and destroyed my stuff, telling teachers or hitting him aint a option what can i do about him?
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: newton_alex on July 30, 2011, 09:55:47 am
Well.....

At my school at least we have (peer-)mentors, who are other pupils  who are chosen especially to provide support to other students when they don't feel confident going to the teachers! Then once you've told them you have sessions with the mentor and with your permission (or if they feel it is needed) will contact the leader of the Damscus (Support Centre) and then they take it to the suitable teacher. During the whole process you remain anonymous and when the bully is confronted you still won't be named because they will say "Someone has seen you doing (list of bullying things going on) to an other pupil"  and then later if necessary they will call you up to tell your story of events as if you didn't know the teachers had been told.


Also, why is telling the teachers not an option ?  I mean for me it was kinda hard at first but it pays off in the long run, find a teacher who you get along with and basically let them know at a break time or before school.

And what bullying is he doing to you ? that can help us provide you with some help
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Pandalink on July 30, 2011, 10:49:34 am
Socially engineer a brilliant but perhaps morally questionable scheme throughout the next academic year that involves the complete ruination of this person's social life, emotional health, and psychological sanity.

If malicious social engineering isn't your thing, then perhaps consider contacting the police. This bully's parents will take them far more seriously than the school, and the parents of this person are the people you need to be targeting.

.. or just off him. :devroll:



In case it wasn't clear, the first two were the real answers. :)

.. although with that said, if ever there is a situation involving a weapon and there is no chance of peaceful resolution whatsoever, use full force in an attempt to murder the attacker, naturally.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Gandalf on July 30, 2011, 11:14:15 am
Tell teachers, parents, police....
What is no option is letting him continue and think his behaviour is accepted.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Biggo2 on July 30, 2011, 11:34:07 am
If his parents/teachers don't do anything, call the po-po. If the po-po doesn't do anything, just bust his knee cap with a claw hammer.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Que on July 30, 2011, 12:35:37 pm
Bring a bat, chase him after school and beat him up so he can't stand, then you spit on him and say that if he ever bully you again, he'll face worse pain than this.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: boostboy on July 30, 2011, 12:56:55 pm
Dont listen to stupid, idiotic comments like the above one..

I have been bullied also (frankly, i still am)

I can give you one advise...talk to the people you trust, and let they tell it the school staff...it'll be easier for you, and belief me, it works..
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Caltson on July 30, 2011, 01:24:30 pm
If you're not afraid or scared to talk to this particular person, do things he doesn't expect from you. Be nice, pretend nothing happened and if he tries to do you something in a way, you just keep smiling and 'corner' his behaviour. Meanwhile you report the issue to the higher staff though.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Aksel on July 30, 2011, 01:30:44 pm
The bully likes to see you getting scared. It's like porn to him. Seriously.

You should consider what Ryan said. Stand up, and look how it goes..
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Que on July 30, 2011, 01:32:58 pm
Dont listen to stupid, idiotic comments like the above one..

I have been bullied also (frankly, i still am)

I can give you one advise...talk to the people you trust, and let they tell it the school staff...it'll be easier for you, and belief me, it works..
It may be idiotic in your eyes, but as you said yourself; you're still bullied so your method is basically not working. You can talk talk and talk how much you want, but it is actions that does matter regardless how you look at it.

People who bullies are people who basically has issues at home or just got a lot of overconfidence for themselves, they get amused by see you doing shit. They get amused to see you "uhuh this guy is so dangerous I can't even look at him". If you talk to that guy or that girl about it, he will most likely look at you even more as you're basically being a snitch. "Uuuhu you can't even stand up for your own problems so you have to talk to someone else hahaha f**king fatty", for example. If YOU react they way he doesn't want you to react, it is no longer funny. If the bully got issues at home, get knowledge of the issue and hit it back right in his face. If the guy got a lot of confidence and thinks he's the bauss; then beat his ass so he can't stand, or do something that might make him regret his previous actions towards you.

I mean f**king really, why even let yourself get bullied, man up and do something about it. Sure, some people doesn't want to act violent or whatsoever, yet there's plenty of other things you can do to make the bully stop bullying you. For example: Talk to the headmaster of the school, talk to the police, be ignorant and cocky towards him until he crosses the line so he gets suspended, talk to his parents..
If you're not afraid or scared to talk to this particular person, do things he doesn't expect from you. Be nice, pretend nothing happened and if he tries to do you something in a way, you just keep smiling and 'corner' his behaviour. Meanwhile you report the issue to the higher staff though.
Or even this.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: TruthSvensson on July 30, 2011, 02:00:08 pm
Tell the principle, I did it and it worked.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: duffman on July 30, 2011, 02:08:16 pm
Tell the principle, I did it and it worked.

o.O

Need help..theres a boy who bullies me in school
Daily i said nothing but when i hit him today he even cornered me near my home and destroyed my stuff, telling teachers or hitting him aint a option what can i do about him?

Son do this: Follow him to his house if its possible but if not, follow him some enough distance to noany person see it and beat him with a metal stick or a bat(on the face/hands/legs) whatever you can and smash him. It works seriously.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Exterminator on July 30, 2011, 03:48:52 pm
sent a email to the school principle..
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Alsatian on July 30, 2011, 05:17:00 pm
sent a email to the school principle..

Is it just the one individual or multiple people bullying you?
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Chuck_Norris on July 31, 2011, 12:38:16 am
Basically a bully, is a person who got bullied in the past aswell ..

I once had the situation of being bullied, yet i managed to solve it myself (not a peacefull way, but didnt have much choice). I strongly suggest however you try to resolve this in a peacefull way, because remember a few things:

* don't let his size fool you, he can have alot of strength / friends..
* if your friends / people you know see you acting violent etc, those people will change their minds bout u
* Telling a principal or other staff of school isn't snitching, its standing up for yourself in a decent way
* if a bully continues and your principal notices .. they will likely plan a meeting with his parents

* if you start hitting him first, its not selfdefence since u cannot prove what he did ... so you will be blamed / expelled or worse

if he continues, and nothing works, i'm willing to have a msn convo with this dude
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Squeak on July 31, 2011, 01:09:10 am
If he was only calling you names, you could ignore him; but the second he puts hands on you makes him a violent aggressor. Man the f**k up and beat the shit out of him, that's the only true option. If you tell on him to someone who works at the school, you're gonna get labeled as a snitch. If he's much bigger than you, go for the nuts, the throat and the eyes. If you get your ass kicked, people will still respect you for having the heart to go and take care of your own shit. Anyone who says different is pussy, IMO.

EDIT:
sent a email to the school principle..
You're f**ked forever. :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop:
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Alsatian on July 31, 2011, 01:19:11 am
Basically a bully, is a person who got bullied in the past aswell ..

Not necessarily. Some people are genuine assholes who act all tough and enjoy seeing other people suffer - this is of course whilst they've got five of their mates behind them.

Man the f**k up and beat the shit out of him, that's the only true option. If you tell on him to someone who works at the school, you're gonna get labeled as a snitch. If he's much bigger than you, go for the nuts, the throat and the eyes. If you get your ass kicked, people will still respect you for having the heart to go and take care of your own shit. Anyone who says different is pussy, IMO.

As horrible and wrong as it seems, this is the only way. People always claim that telling your parents or teachers will help resolve the situation, but they're wrong. Adults have absolutely no idea what the younger generation is like nowadays - especially when it comes to the incident of a child being bullied. Even if you do get lucky and somehow manage to get them off of you at school, they'll just be pissed off and make life hell for you via the internet or phone.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Exclusive. on July 31, 2011, 01:19:49 am
Some dude with a disease was new in our class and he tried to bully me. I was one of the shortest people in my class so he called me "dwarf". I just ignored it or laughed at him and his disease, as he was to dumb to understand me and my friends were making fun of him. He kept on calling me dwarf for like a week till I called him "aspergedude" as he had the syndrome of asperge, or w/e it's called.

When I called him that, he went mad and started punching me, I couldn't breath and shit so my friend had to help me. When I could breath I just simply bullied him back. That's the only thing working, bully back. Most of the time people with not so many friends get bullied but if you do have friends just make a group and show them who's boss.

If you're gonna tell your teachers, principle or whatever. You're just making it worse, it won't help. The bully will find out and be like "ugh you dirty rat" and fuck you up even more. I'm seen as a bully in my class, and when I got called to the director's office I had the guts to discuss with the director, which saved my ass.

TLDR; Grow some balls, show him who's boss. Bully back and don't go to teachers or w/e.

:banana:
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: TruthSvensson on July 31, 2011, 01:28:30 am
o.O
Whats weird about it?
EDIT:You're f**ked forever. :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop: :cop:
No, from my experience, the bully is going to get fucked.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Alsatian on July 31, 2011, 01:38:48 am
No, from my experience, the bully is going to get f**ked.

Then you're one of the very few fortunate ones.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Pandalink on July 31, 2011, 01:45:45 am
If he's much bigger than you, go for the nuts, the throat and the eyes. If you get your ass kicked, people will still respect you for having the heart to go and take care of your own shit.
This.
Gouge those eyes right out of their sockets, and try to land sharp jabs on the front of his neck.

Like Squeak said, even if it doesn't work out, people will talk about the time you stood up to this person and respect you for it.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Biggo2 on July 31, 2011, 01:50:48 am
I was bullied once.

My dad drove me to the park once. He waited and watch in his van from across the street. The bullies came and started pushing me and calling me names. My faster seen what was going on and got out of the van. The bullies turned to see my father walk towards them with a sledge hammer.

Now I'm much taller and stronger. The bullies are now afraid of me  :evil:

So, if in doubt, take a fucking sledge with you.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Pandalink on July 31, 2011, 02:00:47 am
The bullies turned to see my father walk towards them with a sledge hammer.
Yea, that'll do it.. :)
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Dolfagr on July 31, 2011, 02:04:56 am
Most kids who get bullied in school are future cops, just a statistic shown at a website I recently searched about.

I suggest you tell him to back off and if he still refuses threat him with a court case or smash his face up with your friends.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Comrade on July 31, 2011, 02:37:10 pm
I was bullied once. I tried my best to ignore him, which I did. Even to the point where I completely ignored the fact that he threw an apple at the back of my head. I tried to stay peaceful.

But once I had this very bad day, somebody I knew died and it was bugging me real bad, and then the bully came and decided to have fun.
All the shit that happened to me pluss him trynna bully me just blew the bubble and I beat him up. I took all my anger out at him, to the point where I almost hit him with a chair.

Guy was so scared he never went close to me again.
I ain't proud of what I did to be honest, as it is completely against my morals, but at least it worked.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Alsatian on July 31, 2011, 03:19:55 pm
Guy was so scared he never went close to me again.
I ain't proud of what I did to be honest, as it is completely against my morals, but at least it worked.

Exactly. And besides, the guy had it coming from the sounds of it. We can only be pushed so far before we snap and totally beat the shit out of someone.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Emre on July 31, 2011, 03:29:35 pm
well f that
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Sawyer on July 31, 2011, 03:42:51 pm
Well.. Call some of your friends?!
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Aragorn on July 31, 2011, 04:06:35 pm
Do not listen to advices like "beat him down"... Cos bullshitters are weak people (that is why they do bullshit), and they will be first to play an innocent victim and they will be first to report you to principle and police...

My advice is - tell to teacher/principle...

Cos such idiots can be "fixed" only by parents... Otherwise you will have to wait 20 years when the guy will grow up...
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Exclusive. on July 31, 2011, 05:14:03 pm
You might say bullying back or beating one up doesn't work, but from a lot of players' experiences it does work.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Cero on July 31, 2011, 06:18:00 pm
Ignoring them is probably one of the worst things you can ever do.
Telling your parents/teacher is also one of the worst things you can do. Sure, he'll stop when the teacher is there, but it'll be worse when the teacher isn't.

Fight him, show him that you've had enough. It's not about winning, it's about making him understand that you're not going to be pushed over by him anymore. As previously said, fight dirty if he's bigger and stronger than you. Go for the balls, throat, face etc.

Bullys target you because you let them, you're bringing it on yourself, really.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Exclusive. on July 31, 2011, 07:38:11 pm
Oh and if you're not stronger than your bully, you could either gather some friends or start growing muscles, start a fighting sport.

Starting a fighting sport is also a recommendations, it grows huge self confidence and people who are on fight sports actually never fight outside their gym/dojo. The bully will get intimidated by your technique/muscles or if he wants to fight you, you know what to do back :)
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Stalinn on July 31, 2011, 09:06:33 pm
People keep saying that violence is not the answer but... if you beat the fuck outta' him, he'll be scared of you.
Tell your parents, school...etc as told before, if it doesn't work, get a baseball bat.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Tragic. on July 31, 2011, 09:09:15 pm
Typical troll topic.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Ang3lo on July 31, 2011, 10:10:41 pm
(http://www.midwaypartyrental.com/images/products/baseball_bat.jpg)
Your best fucking friend, or your own fists. Don't get it twisted you are probably a pussy then. Do you have a bad appearance?
Fucking FIGHT! OR YOU GETTIN BULLIED FOR LIFE. DONT BE A PUSSY!
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Aragorn on July 31, 2011, 10:17:52 pm
You might say bullying back or beating one up doesn't work, but from a lot of players' experiences it does work.

Bullying back make a bullying at you double... Beating one can lead to be in fight all the time...
Aggression creates more aggression - this what you should learn from life... If you did not yet then I am sorry for you... Better get rid of this way while you can... Cos it will affect on your moral laws, society laws and brains...

If you really want to pwn someone in school - get the highest scores in its subjects...

Human should be clever not a bullshitter - this is what you should get experience of... not that crap like "lets be idiots like he!"
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: JasonSaint on July 31, 2011, 10:26:25 pm
show him that he should not f*ck with you even if he beats you you will let him know not to f*ck with you, mostly they will know it immediatly and the bullying gets a lot less.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Squeak on July 31, 2011, 10:55:52 pm
Human should be clever not a bullshitter - this is what you should get experience of... not that crap like "lets be idiots like he!"
Well, yeah... but if someone puts hands on you, you should defend yourself.
he even cornered me near my home and destroyed my stuff
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Que on July 31, 2011, 10:58:14 pm
Human should be clever not a bullshitter - this is what you should get experience of... not that crap like "lets be idiots like he!"
Idiots sometime has to face the same method back to understand the mess he created.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Rusty on August 01, 2011, 12:09:55 am
Stand your ground and stop putting up with his shit.
Telling on him does fuck all.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Aragorn on August 01, 2011, 12:26:51 pm
Idiots sometime has to face the same method back to understand the mess he created.

You will be the one idiot if you will follow his methods... He is bullying cos nobody reports him and he feels unpunishment... If you want him do be punished let this do those, who are in charge of punishing... Bullying back yourself will just give him a reason to report you first... And then you will be fucking up not only with his bullying but also with explanations why did you behave as an idiot...

I met such people a lot on my way... Until I did not let the correct people to handle it I always was in war... And I myself know very good that a bullshitter will report you faster then you will think, if you will mirror his actions... You can mirror people's actions only if you have 51%+ power... Otherwise you will be the one bullying idiot...
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Julio. on August 01, 2011, 12:32:27 pm
Bullies usually have a lack of Attention at home.

Call Social Setvies and ask them to check on his Address, then if nothing happens, tell your head teacher or principle or w/e it is.

Alternatively, get Chuck to flex his muscles to the bully and watch him piss himself.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Witchking on August 01, 2011, 12:44:43 pm
Bullies has no life and will never stop couse they feel they have advantage over someone and is cool infront of his friends this must be hard for you tell everyone, your parents , teachers tell them you had enough of this stupid pease of shit and if they dont do something about it  just go crack his nuts, bullies are dont worth respect or even a penny. time for change friend 
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Aragorn on August 01, 2011, 12:54:50 pm
Bullies has no life and will never stop couse they feel they have advantage over someone and is cool infront of his friends this must be hard for you tell everyone, your parents , teachers tell them you had enough of this stupid pease of shit and if they dont do something about it  just go crack his nuts, bullies are dont worth respect or even a penny. time for change friend

I was myself such a bully :)))...
Trust me no any waving fists in front of my nose would help... I could drop bullying only if I would have a respect to other or my future education would be under question (adults intervention)... This other should be minimum someone in da school... Either he must have good education level, or good friends, or reaching some sort of competitions with medals... Otherwise some crap glasses coming to me and waving his fists would just end up with some blood from his nose...
If he cornered him then he is more stronger... If you would try to beat him and phailed - you can set a big fat dot in your further fight against him...

No any wise human will suggest you to try to get over him in what bully is better... But every wise man will suggest you to find in yourself something which you can do better then bully...
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Dolfagr on August 01, 2011, 12:57:37 pm
It's all about education and family. The way your parents raised you symbolizes you everywhere.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Alaska on August 01, 2011, 01:13:19 pm
In my school we got a 16 years old bully , im 15 and when i finish school he always call me to give his money , i started to make gym and put a lot of muscle's in , 1 week ago ( i know its summer ) i meet him near the school me with some friends we had a baseball bat , i went to him directly and punched his face with my friends and hit him with the bat , i only broke his lip but now he respect me and every day salutes me ;)


So make friends & go to gym there you will meet a lot of people who will help you fighting the bully , my friends are the one's from gym i got 10 new friends who i spend time and kick bullies ass :) make him see his blood and you will earn respect .
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Witchking on August 01, 2011, 01:16:09 pm
I was myself such a bully :)))...
Trust me no any waving fists in front of my nose would help... I could drop bullying only if I would have a respect to other or my future education would be under question (adults intervention)... This other should be minimum someone in da school... Either he must have good education level, or good friends, or reaching some sort of competitions with medals... Otherwise some crap glasses coming to me and waving his fists would just end up with some blood from his nose...
If he cornered him then he is more stronger... If you would try to beat him and phailed - you can set a big fat dot in your further fight against him...

No any wise human will suggest you to try to get over him in what bully is better... But every wise man will suggest you to find in yourself something which you can do better then bully...

i had cracked Your nuts anyway ;D

well actually you should talk to the school if they cant do something and if they dont do anything, talk to your parents  and make a Policenotification about your school  and its authorities for misconduct.

That would be possible in sweden atleast  :)
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Caltson on August 01, 2011, 01:18:00 pm
In my school we got a 16 years old bully , im 15 and when i finish school he always call me to give his money , i started to make gym and put a lot of muscle's in , 1 week ago ( i know its summer ) i meet him near the school me with some friends we had a baseball bat , i went to him directly and punched his face with my friends and hit him with the bat , i only broke his lip but now he respect me and every day salutes me ;)


So make friends & go to gym there you will meet a lot of people who will help you fighting the bully , my friends are the one's from gym i got 10 new friends who i spend time and kick bullies ass :) make him see his blood and you will earn respect .

You watch too many movies, mate.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: MrFrancis on August 01, 2011, 01:47:41 pm
Normally I am not likely to be bullied(I was bullied in the past), nor am I a bully. But from my friend's experience in getting bullied, I will try to help you... I know what it's like to be bullied and what it's like to be the bully.

Violence is the least of my options, as things might get even worse. Let's face reality, some bullies will 'respect' you if you bully them back, but majority will get the situation worse.

One of the best option is to share your problem with a parent or any trusted friend of yours. Some people feel better if they tell someone about their problems, it makes them think that they are not trapped. Hopefully, your parent/friend will give you advice on what you need to do best and what not to do. Parents will likely complain to the principal's office, in this case, you should not worry. Once the bully is paid attention to the principal, the bully will be angry with you even more. If he bullies you again (Or you feel threatened by his recent actions), You must not ignore it, it will get even worse (reality). You must report it again to the principal, likely the bully might get suspended or even expelled.

Another is to confront the bully's parents
If the parents of the bully's are not the casual style, then find another option. Some bullies are spoiled brats and majority of them have a casual type of family. You should try talking to the bully's parents because they have a chance of not knowing the actions of his child.

Have a personal talk with the principal.
Either way, things might get worse, or things will be solved. This is one of the method wherein you have second thoughts of confronting the principal, do not be afraid.



Since I am really tired right now (Doing projects and all that), I might give you more advices once I have the time.

Note that these are just advices and I am not forcing you to do it(But I assure you, violence will get the situation worse).

Goodluck Philip.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Que on August 01, 2011, 05:38:46 pm
You will be the one idiot if you will follow his methods... He is bullying cos nobody reports him and he feels unpunishment... If you want him do be punished let this do those, who are in charge of punishing... Bullying back yourself will just give him a reason to report you first... And then you will be f**king up not only with his bullying but also with explanations why did you behave as an idiot...

I met such people a lot on my way... Until I did not let the correct people to handle it I always was in war... And I myself know very good that a bullshitter will report you faster then you will think, if you will mirror his actions... You can mirror people's actions only if you have 51%+ power... Otherwise you will be the one bullying idiot...
Well, regardless what you do, there will come one day where you cannot stand the bully anymore.
Example:
Victim Fights Back In NSW Sydney School | 'Casey' (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isfn4OxCPQs#)
Me, as a person, has always been "the cool one", always been a bitch to people as well, nevertheless I also has faced people who thinks they're something, trying to bully, tell shit, do shit. Sure, you ignore that for a while, since you cannot be arsed giving a f**k about what the individual's saying. But if he continues to push the limit further and further, I'm that kind of guy who should beat the crap out of him until he can't stand anymore. You are right with the part where you say that if you do the same back at him, you'll be the idiot as well, that's completely true. But sometimes it's necessary as snitching or telling people can also make the situation worse. It depends what kind of jerk you're facing, if he's a weak one, he'll stop; if he acts cool instead, the "telling" will trigger the whole shit to another level.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Caltson on August 01, 2011, 07:05:45 pm
Well, regardless what you do, there will come one day where you cannot stand the bully anymore.
Example:
Victim Fights Back In NSW Sydney School | 'Casey' (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isfn4OxCPQs#)
Me, as a person, has always been "the cool one", always been being a bitch to people as well, nevertheless I also has faced people who thinks they're something, trying to bully, tell shit, do shit. Sure, you ignore that for a while, since you cannot be arsed giving a f**k about what the individual's saying. But if he continues to push the limit further and further, I'm that kind of guy who should beat the crap out of him until he can't stand anymore. You are right with the part where you say that if you do the same back at him, you'll be the idiot as well, that's completely true. But sometimes it's necessary as snitching or telling people can also make the situation worse. It depends what kind of jerk you're facing, if he's a weak one, he'll stop; if he acts cool instead, the "telling" will trigger the whole shit to another level.

When is someone considered 'cool'?
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Squeak on August 01, 2011, 07:08:19 pm
When is someone considered 'cool'?
>obviously not cool :redface:
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Que on August 01, 2011, 07:53:22 pm
When is someone considered 'cool'?
Can't really be annoyed to explain that to you because it's pretty obvious what I mean.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Jingle on August 01, 2011, 08:18:45 pm
Why are you asking for an advice on a f**king gaming forum? The solution is obvious, f**k the guy up and he'll shut the f**k up. It doesn't have to f**king involve violence, you have to make him feel like shit. As Que here said, you should inspect his issues at home and use that against him; he's going to burst out on you if he gets completely humiliated in order to gain his self confidence back, so bring something sharp or heavy. He won't stop until he realizes you can hurt him, don't be a f**king pussy.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Caltson on August 01, 2011, 08:49:04 pm
>obviously not cool :redface:

I'm not cool, I'm hot  :devroll:

Can't really be annoyed to explain that to you because it's pretty obvious what I mean.

True, But I think that 'being cool' is personal preference, not based upon some form of standards. That can explain itself to the cause of being bullied, even though when someone is considered 'socially avarage' or 'cool'. I don't think it is a factor that's reliable.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Que on August 01, 2011, 10:11:43 pm
Well, mostly in schools, there are nerds, "cool people", regular people, music people, sport people etcetera. I was referring I was that kind of "cool".
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: duffman on August 01, 2011, 10:13:53 pm
Well, mostly in schools, there are nerds, "cool people", regular people, music people, sport people etcetera. I was referring I was that kind of "cool".

I tought you was the crack ones  :(
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Caltson on August 01, 2011, 10:17:21 pm
Well, mostly in schools, there are nerds, "cool people", regular people, music people, sport people etcetera. I was referring I was that kind of "cool".

Ah, I see.
I was just wondering because in the school I went there were more avarage everyday guys than extraordinary types like nerds or extremely cool guys. Everyone was some sort of one team, yet there were still many cases of bullying that were reported even in my class.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Que on August 01, 2011, 10:26:34 pm
I tought you was the crack ones  :(
Started to use drugs once I dropped out of school. I'm pretty over I'm over that shit now, though.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: duffman on August 01, 2011, 10:33:09 pm
Started to use drugs once I dropped out of school. I'm pretty over I'm over that shit now, though.

Thats the way  :D
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Tragic. on August 01, 2011, 11:40:45 pm
"Friends" is the answer.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Aragorn on August 02, 2011, 07:34:50 am
In my school we got a 16 years old bully , im 15 and when i finish school he always call me to give his money , i started to make gym and put a lot of muscle's in , 1 week ago ( i know its summer ) i meet him near the school me with some friends we had a baseball bat , i went to him directly and punched his face with my friends and hit him with the bat , i only broke his lip but now he respect me and every day salutes me ;)

Russians do say usually in such situations: if you have no brains go train your muscles...

Teenagers and adults do think differently... For teenagers being bad and being hero is like something equal... For adults you can start using your muscles only when there is a threat for your life or life of your family... Cos the correct humans behaviour is to avoid aggression to have your family/you safety...

Anyways though I was also a powerful idiot I was never attacking anyone while I am winning in amount of friends with me and with some sort of weapon in my hands... In your situation its a shame, cos you dropped down even more as a bully one...

But maybe for you its a honour...
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Aragorn on August 02, 2011, 07:41:06 am
Why are you asking for an advice on a f**king gaming forum?

What? We are not considered as humans already? Why are you fucking farting again on forums? And from your experience (BTW) its obvious that even if the idiot will understand that you can hurt him - he will not stop and even will start making things worse... Cos he will be offended too much and will want to make a revenge... And more powerful is the opponent more shitty will be bully...
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Jingle on August 03, 2011, 07:27:41 am
What? We are not considered as humans already? Why are you f**king farting again on forums? And from your experience (BTW) its obvious that even if the idiot will understand that you can hurt him - he will not stop and even will start making things worse... Cos he will be offended too much and will want to make a revenge... And more powerful is the opponent more shitty will be bully...
My post meant to say he should deal with it without taking advices from the Internet because the answer is too barefaced. The guy will persist on hurting him regardless of the fact he can be hurt, yes; but, when he gets hurt, he will think twice before pulling the same stunt on him and find another vulnerable kid. It's unavoidable.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Aragorn on August 03, 2011, 07:38:38 am
My post meant to say he should deal with it without taking advices from the Internet because the answer is too barefaced. The guy will persist on hurting him regardless of the fact he can be hurt, yes; but, when he gets hurt, he will think twice before pulling the same stunt on him and find another vulnerable kid. It's unavoidable.

He is not taking advices from just Internet... He is asking people from the special community... From different countries and different ages... The best place ever to ask such questions to hear opinion of different ages without being known...

Yeah yeah even through internet is repeating the same stuff... You answer with flame to flamer and the flamer starts shit and flame even more being hurt... And if your bully is owned on public that will be even worse... You will try to gain back a "reputation" by any kinds of flame...

Suggesting people to answer the same way is just like putting the head into the toilet's hole...
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Toto on August 03, 2011, 07:45:22 am
If you show that you are scarred he won't stop. As Que told, bring bat ( If you can kick him without it ) and wait him after school make him blood on his face then I am sure that he won't threat you or something, by the way how old are you ?
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Aragorn on August 03, 2011, 08:01:56 am
And then he reports you to principle, police and your parents...
And all you gained - a pain in the ass to explain that you are not an idiot with mental problems...
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: kun4L on August 03, 2011, 08:07:37 am
The only best way to handle a bully in my view is too to complain about it to the school / college authorities and including your parents /guardians a the same time and have a proper complaint lodge about the person troubling you, discuss with them how much pressured you been through in express all your feeling by the trouble you got by the bully..
It might feel that he will turn back again on you and try to make things more worse but trust me he wont as when the issue is passed on the people who can handle it from a different view and from a different level there is nothing to be worried about as the bully cannot do anything after (think of it as a ban for a cheater from the server) all you need to do is take the first step and /report..
And my advice would be don't get involved in any kind of violence just because he is using it on you it will make you look more bad as he will get a point to throw it back on you that you hit him etc etc yes some bully's do have some brain..

I dont know how you take my advice and in what view but trust me after few years you will think this was the the right and mature decision i took..
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Squeak on August 03, 2011, 08:15:10 am
Yeah, I wouldn't use a weapon unless I was outnumbered. You're just asking for trouble.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Que on August 03, 2011, 09:08:20 am
And then he reports you to principle, police and your parents...
And all you gained - a pain in the ass to explain that you are not an idiot with mental problems...
Tell the true story to them, show that you're obviously feeling bad. Make your parents know why you did what and it would be solved.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Mikro on August 03, 2011, 09:48:41 am
There is definitely no single solution for such a problem. It exists of different little solutions that form the whole solution. However in every situation it is an other combination.

It should be definitely reported to a teacher, principal or anyone from the staff. Ask for a small talk with the mentor. They will understand you and help you solving it, however it is hard for them to take direct actions that take effect. Don't think it is over at once.

Think about all bully situations you have had. Review them in your head: what happened? What made you crack? How did it started? Why you reacted in the way you did? In this whole progress you will gain a lot of self knowledge that can help you a lot with stopping the bullying and it can even help in your further life.

Remember, you are only f**ked if you feel f**ked.

Mostly the bullier got nothing to stand on, with a simple reaction, a smile and then walking away you can make the bullier his interest in you drop quite fast. However it all depends on the situation, that is why you have to think for yourself what you feel by the past situations.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Pandalink on August 03, 2011, 10:09:49 am
Yeah, I wouldn't use a weapon unless I was outnumbered. You're just asking for trouble.
Indeed.
That kind of thing clearly shows premeditation and intent to cause serious bodily harm and/or death.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Cofiliano on August 03, 2011, 02:27:37 pm
And then he reports you to principle, police and your parents...
And all you gained - a pain in the ass to explain that you are not an idiot with mental problems...
Ye, police ain't gonna do any cause he's a minor, principle is gonna give him some school punishment, parents gonna ground him for few weeks, but no one is gonna try fucking with him no more in the future.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Pandalink on August 03, 2011, 07:20:32 pm
Why would his parents ground him for a few weeks? oO
If he gets no trouble from the police and is able to explain the situation clearly to the parents then I see no reason why they wouldn't support him.

Though I have only dealt with.. you know.. my parents. So my view of parental figures in general is obviously as skewed as anyone's.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: JDC on August 05, 2011, 05:40:23 pm
When I was in fourth grade, this one guy in class tried to bully me hard. Out of impulse, I snatched my pencil (which was newly sharpened, people always came to me to borrow sharpeners) and went for his jugular.
 
I didn't exactly stab where I planned (and today I am thankful I missed), and landed the pencil half an inch in his back instead. Since then, all the "tough guys" in the school tried nothing to do with me, since I'd never talk to them anyway; they acted like I was a stranger, which worked for me.
 
Today though, I believe in less violent methods. If you can't beat him senseless without getting into the shit, then find a way to ruin some other aspect of his life. Panda's post regarding psychological torture on the first page was particularly appealing for me.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Pandalink on August 05, 2011, 08:32:20 pm
Exactly. If you can't beat them with force then beat them with smarts.

Also lol at the pencil stabbing, only place I ever stabbed someone with a sharp pencil was their hand onto a desk. If I remember correctly they were fucking around and taking my stuff, so I went ahead and stabbed their hand the next time it arrived on my desk to snatch something. The teacher saw the whole thing and just looked at me and said "was that really necessary!?" and I just stared at them with a straight face and replied "yes" as I was withdrawing my pencil. Quite glad I didn't get in trouble for that one.

But yea, I've never gone for the jugular, lol. Worst I ever did was smash someone's head into a bunch of metal bars.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Cero on August 05, 2011, 09:15:28 pm
12351
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: duffman on August 05, 2011, 10:36:00 pm
exterminator, how it is the bully at the moment?
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Squeak on August 06, 2011, 02:52:44 am
ITT: fight stories, brah
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: XSniper on August 06, 2011, 05:12:07 am
Try to ignore him, don't cross him. As in if you know where he's at try avoiding that place. If he gets physical on you, and you have no choice but to get physical back.. do it. And do it like this
bully gets owned buy fat kid need to watch (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWc4c82xPag#)

I'm serious, don't let anyone get you down. I've been there before..well in my younger age. And in reality, where society is like this, telling teachers or parents does not help. It only makes the situation worse.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: JDC on August 07, 2011, 09:14:07 am
I happen to have a smart cousin who's more of a sadist than a genius. We were discussing about bullies, then he came up with something that made us burst out laughing.
 
If the bully steals your food, be sure to pass him while holding food that has been heavily laced with viagra. Plus points if you're in the same class and he gets called for recitation.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Squeak on August 07, 2011, 09:19:38 am
If the bully steals your food,
If you have a bully who steals your food, contract AIDS then bleed into your food before he eats it.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: duffman on August 07, 2011, 12:25:44 pm
be sure to pass him while holding food that has been heavily laced with viagra.

The f**k? Who is the kid is going to buy viagra?  :trust:
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: JDC on August 07, 2011, 12:28:58 pm
The f**k? Who is the kid is going to buy viagra?  :trust:

It's basically feeding the bully poisoned food, except substituting the poison with viagra. I've been told an overdose has harmful effects on one's... manhood.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: duffman on August 07, 2011, 01:33:19 pm
It's basically feeding the bully poisoned food, except substituting the poison with viagra. I've been told an overdose has harmful effects on one's... manhood.

I just ask why... viagra  :poke:

You are strange...
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: kun4L on August 07, 2011, 02:07:37 pm
exterminator, how it is the bully at the moment?
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: JDC on August 07, 2011, 03:10:25 pm
I just ask why... viagra  :poke:

You are strange...

Few things hurt a man more than inflicting permanent damage on his manhood. :evil:
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Alsatian on August 07, 2011, 03:28:14 pm
I just ask why... viagra  :poke:

You are strange...

Use your imagination. When he takes the viagra, pass him by with a sledgehammer... the rest is fairly straightforward.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: duffman on August 07, 2011, 04:32:09 pm
Use your imagination. When he takes the viagra, pass him by with a sledgehammer... the rest is fairly straightforward.

And where a kid will buy viagra?  (http://i.neoseeker.com/mgv/205066-Hraefn/66/127/facepalmjx_icon.gif)
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Pandalink on August 07, 2011, 05:12:30 pm
If the bully steals your food, be sure to pass him while holding food that has been heavily laced with viagra. Plus points if you're in the same class and he gets called for recitation.
Or arsenic!
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Alsatian on August 07, 2011, 06:59:49 pm
And where a kid will buy viagra?  (http://i.neoseeker.com/mgv/205066-Hraefn/66/127/facepalmjx_icon.gif)

Okay I was only joking, so I don't actually know. But, if you have older friends, I guess you could ask them to try and get some for you - that is provided that they're willing to live with the embarrassment of telling the doctor that they suffer from erectile dysfunction.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: BlackEagle on August 08, 2011, 01:03:00 am
Typical troll topic.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Omar Aly on October 06, 2011, 04:07:14 pm
look kid just gather your friends and 1 or 2 of your grown up family members and teach that f**ker who's boss
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Alsatian on October 06, 2011, 06:11:40 pm
look kid just gather your friends and 1 or 2 of your grown up family members and teach that f**ker who's boss

I feel it would be fairy difficult to distinguish who's boss when it's you along with a few of your family members, as well as several friends. Stand your ground, and face him one on one. Of course, if he gets his pathetic little friends to back him up, as is the tendency with typical bullies, then completely disregard what I said - mob the f**ker.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Julio. on October 06, 2011, 06:36:33 pm
look kid just gather your friends and 1 or 2 of your grown up family members and teach that f**ker who's boss

Nah, he aint Asian

Only kidding LOL
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Pandalink on October 07, 2011, 01:31:53 am
Did you kick his shit in and/or socially engineer the (continuing) ruination of his life?
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: SushiSaurus on October 07, 2011, 01:59:09 am
look kid just gather your friends and 1 or 2 of your grown up family members and teach that f**ker who's boss

WOOH YEAH LETS GO USE VIOLENCE TO COUNTER VIOLENCE. Derp. If your adults are acting that way, they have some growing up to do.

Sorry for the derogatory manner of speaking, but not to sound like a dibby dobber. But go find a teacher and tell them, tell your parents so they can follow it up and if it really comes to it call the police.

Or at least by smart about how you go about ruining the arseholes life. Do what Panda said, use your brain, not your fists.

I mean, if he attacks you, don't just let him beat you up, defend yourself to the point that allows you to get him off of you, if you need to, have people around you whenever possible so that people can see the that prats behaviour.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Leon. on October 08, 2011, 12:37:39 am
Send him to me. You know what I'll do.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Raykaza on October 08, 2011, 01:05:49 am
Send him to me. You know what I'll do.
troll him to death
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: KhornateMonkey on October 08, 2011, 01:20:30 am
troll him to death

lol
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Hevar. on October 08, 2011, 01:39:12 am
Tell teachers, parents, police....
What is no option is letting him continue and think his behaviour is accepted.

Cmon....police? parents? teachers? dont make the thing big,just pay some who is big and strong and has tastical. Tell him everything why you want to kick his ass and what reason and thing. After that that guy going kick his ass and he never going hurt you anymore.

1. Be cool,never be afarid of someone (Go to a gym and train or UFC and learn some fight skills) For be the best you must hit the best.
2. If you have much friends,have those friends as backup if he hit you. Then all your friends can hit him,as gang.
3. Dont use any weapons,just use your hands and your brain. Trust me this going work,if not? There is always a hitman on school there you can pay so he make peace for you.

Lets talk little bit about me.Hello my name is Hevar,i have huge experince of this,beacuse for 2 days ago i was fighting with someone and i was not my self so i *stranglehold* my teacher so he fall down and he was so frightened that he went to the psychologist, he was really scared and shaking a lot when I and he would talk to the headmaster. As punishment, I had two days off at school and was reported to police for assault. I regret it very much because it can lead to jail, I was do not myself just felt like I had demons in my head. Do not want you to be in the same situation as me.

Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Leon. on October 08, 2011, 03:58:47 am
troll him to death
No. I'll nail his foreskin to a tree and pretend he's my Tarzan rope.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: JDC on October 09, 2011, 08:27:01 am
No. I'll nail his foreskin to a tree and pretend he's my Tarzan rope.

Chase Greggor will be proud of you.

But really, I would prefer the following over violence, since if it is done right you will be safe from any repercussions the law might put on you:

socially engineer the (continuing) ruination of his life
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Leon. on October 10, 2011, 02:23:14 am
Mess with his love life, if any. Then send him to me. I'll yank out his intestines and skip rope with them.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Flakattak_88 on October 11, 2011, 01:19:50 am
get knife and kill him
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: sandisk125 on October 11, 2011, 01:26:04 am
get knife and kill him
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Jack White on October 11, 2011, 01:40:15 am
WOOH YEAH LETS GO USE VIOLENCE TO COUNTER VIOLENCE. Derp. If your adults are acting that way, they have some growing up to do.
He is from Egypt
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Raykaza on October 11, 2011, 01:42:09 am
He is from Egypt
?
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: SavioR88 on October 11, 2011, 01:55:30 am
Bring a bat, chase him after school and beat him up so he can't stand, then you spit on him and say that if he ever bully you again, he'll face worse pain than this.



Use this, it works 100% . My friend got the same problem he did this, and the guy now can't even look at him he is scared.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: sandisk125 on October 11, 2011, 12:57:22 pm
look kid just gather your friends and 1 or 2 of your grown up family members and teach that f**ker who's boss
Call your friends / family members (w/e) to help you beat him up while he's alone and then call yourself a boss. :rofl:


btw nice bump
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Marcell on October 11, 2011, 02:37:06 pm
Act like you're tough - after a while he will try to search for a bigger 'looser' to drop his claws on. Incase he will try to hit you, just hit him back, but only in self-defense - dont get provoked. Since he prolly thinks you're a looser, hitting him would definately provide surprise moment.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: nikos on October 11, 2011, 05:17:01 pm
Cut him open..
No seriously this is a normal period in every man's life,and you got to go trough it,it's up to you how you gonna solve it.
Each and everyone of us was in this situation some way, only differences is how you put you're self to them from the start.
In my case when I was younger and I felt that shit coming in, I anticipated it,so I show my teeth to them,showed them that Im not scared and from that moment I never had a problem with anyone,I even became friends with some of them.
In that case its a bit to late to do that,since they felt that they can bully you around and go trough with it,but you still got options.
Calling principle,parents,police.... come on,be a man and stand for you're self because this process is gonna last to long anyway,and you gonna get laugh at for doing so afterwards.
What ever you do you need to be two steps ahead,if you whana smash his fucking face off you need a good plan same thing goes for the diplomatic way that some people here propagate,but I would go for option A,since this so called bully is probably young and you cant put any since in to him with words and punishments.
Or just get fat and do what he did  :D
bully gets owned buy fat kid need to watch (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24UD2J7Qu_Q#)
Unleash the devil:cool:
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Trey_Johnson on October 11, 2011, 05:36:33 pm
Lol nikos, looks like Kids WWE.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Antonio. on October 11, 2011, 08:33:35 pm
Act crazy when he approaches you, that way he will be scared of you.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: steveday50 on October 11, 2011, 08:36:00 pm
Lol, Stupid Bully, doesnt know who he is messing with
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: sandisk125 on October 11, 2011, 10:28:00 pm
I think he already got that problem solved... omaraly bumped the topic 2 months after last post.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: nikos on October 11, 2011, 10:55:21 pm
I think he already got that problem solved... omaraly bumped the topic 2 months after last post.
Maybe he got killed,how do you know  ;)
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: sandisk125 on October 11, 2011, 10:57:35 pm
So it's an unsolvable problem. :cop:
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Leon. on October 13, 2011, 05:38:41 am
This is where penises come into play.
Title: Re: What to do about this school bully..
Post by: Squeak on October 13, 2011, 05:41:04 am
(http://www.trialsandtribulationsofamodernbachelor.com/uploads/6/9/0/2/6902566/4278381.png?221)
Alpha the fuck up, pic related.
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